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AIBU to want to express support for women who were assaulted at a political conference?

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Warmlight1 · 08/09/2026 21:41

To want to send out support to the two women visibly assaulted at a political conference.
I am concerned about the other protesters too and actually anyone who was hurt. But having to listen to jeering from the podium plus the crowd chanting in live TV at the same time must have been so traumatic and the publicity will die down and coverage move on but that can't be easy. Just want to send love and support.

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soddingspiderseason · 09/09/2026 12:01

Ihateboris · 09/09/2026 11:44

I was thinking the same?

Its an age thing. People who went to school in the 1960s were taught to put spaces before and after punctuation. Older people are more likely to support Reform.

RunningForCalm · 09/09/2026 12:02

hattie43 · 09/09/2026 06:06

Well here’s the thing . Don’t disrupt and enrage people and the chances are you won’t get your hair pulled .

People have a right to protest. We do not have a right to assault others. What the fuck is wrong with you even thinking that’s a defensible position to take?

napody · 09/09/2026 12:18

Ihateboris · 09/09/2026 11:11

Op, the footage I saw of a man hitting her with a stick, whilst she was also having her hair pulled, shocked and upset me. I hope she's OK x

Me too. It was horrible to see her surrounded like that. So much aggression ready to be unleashed at the drop of a hat.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:21

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 11:12

Men shouldn't hit women full stop, call me a Traditionalist. Jeez, what has this country become where this is deemed justifiable, it's absolutely pathetic!

Where have I said men should hit women?

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:22

Hoppinggreen · 09/09/2026 10:23

Unlike most other people there NOT by Russia

Proof?

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:23

soddingspiderseason · 09/09/2026 12:01

Its an age thing. People who went to school in the 1960s were taught to put spaces before and after punctuation. Older people are more likely to support Reform.

😆 🤣

napody · 09/09/2026 12:23

BendoftheBeginning · 09/09/2026 11:32

Yeah, it was widely understood when Prescott was in politics that being a dick to voters would cause problems, and so it proved with Prescott. Thirty years later it’s clear that Farage and his followers believe rules are for other people, and the moral high ground is something they can claim with violence and outright lies.

This whole incident is Operation Let Them Speak in action, as is (increasingly) this thread.

Yep. Another difference is the fact they're inciting mob violence rather than getting their hands dirty themselves. Go forth and attack: Jenrick will cheer you on and Our Nige will buy you a pint after.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:24

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 09:15

Well you can think what you like and support what you like and other people can object and protest, right?

So I can expect to support who I want without being vilified - as I said.

CurlewKate · 09/09/2026 12:26

hattie43 · 09/09/2026 06:16

It’s so tedious . She didn’t even need to be there . No-one in that room would have had any interest in what she had to say . You and your ilk don’t like Reform , so what , plenty of others do so get over it . We live in a democracy, everyone can choose who they support and no amount of unwanted disruption will change that .

Of course. That’s what democracy is. Demonstrating without being pulled down by your hair or being hit with a stick.

Error404FucksNotFound · 09/09/2026 12:26

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 07:20

‘Only care when the assaults are carried out by brown men or the attacks are on Reform supporters’ isn’t the win you seem to think it is.

Indeed.

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:27

soddingspiderseason · 09/09/2026 12:01

Its an age thing. People who went to school in the 1960s were taught to put spaces before and after punctuation. Older people are more likely to support Reform.

No, that's not it. Nobody was taught to put a space before a comma.

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:28

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:24

So I can expect to support who I want without being vilified - as I said.

Nobody should abuse or slander you for believing what you believe, but they're perfectly entitled to despise you, object to you, or protest against the things you believe. Is that clearer?

Ihateboris · 09/09/2026 12:29

soddingspiderseason · 09/09/2026 12:01

Its an age thing. People who went to school in the 1960s were taught to put spaces before and after punctuation. Older people are more likely to support Reform.

Oh my God...you're absolutely right! Thank you 😊

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:30

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:27

No, that's not it. Nobody was taught to put a space before a comma.

Some people may have been taught to put two spaces after a full stop. This is not what we're seeing.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:30

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:28

Nobody should abuse or slander you for believing what you believe, but they're perfectly entitled to despise you, object to you, or protest against the things you believe. Is that clearer?

Go for it. Just try doing it within the confines of the space you're posting it. Is that clear?

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:33

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:24

So I can expect to support who I want without being vilified - as I said.

They could do sense 2a in the OED - "To depreciate or disparage in discourse; to talk slightingly or contemptuously of". Or sense 3 - "To regard (someone or something) as worthless or of little value; to treat with scorn or disrespect; to despise"

OneLilacHedgehog · 09/09/2026 12:33

Error404FucksNotFound · 09/09/2026 06:22

Reform thugs only care about assaults on women if they are carried out by brown men.

Yes this is the truth. If a white woman had been physically attacked and jeered at by brown men at a left wing conference, the reform UK would have been up in arms. Reform supporters would have been saying this is what happens when you have men coming to this country from countries that don't respect women.

But reform UK supporters assault and jeer at women, and the response on this thread is they deserved it.

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:34

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:30

Go for it. Just try doing it within the confines of the space you're posting it. Is that clear?

No, that isn't clear, sorry - I'm not sure what you mean. (Also I said 'clearer', meaning clearer than my earlier post, not 'clear').

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:34

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:33

They could do sense 2a in the OED - "To depreciate or disparage in discourse; to talk slightingly or contemptuously of". Or sense 3 - "To regard (someone or something) as worthless or of little value; to treat with scorn or disrespect; to despise"

I can't understand what your point is. Try rephrasing it?

WildWindySeascape · 09/09/2026 12:34

The assault was appalling and shameful.

Separately, I do not agree with protestors trying to disrupt events. Yes stand outside with a sign or a banner and make your case known, but actually disrupting events or travel or the lives of other people is obnoxious.

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:34

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:34

I can't understand what your point is. Try rephrasing it?

You want me to rephrase the OED?

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:35

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:34

No, that isn't clear, sorry - I'm not sure what you mean. (Also I said 'clearer', meaning clearer than my earlier post, not 'clear').

So you don't understand that you are obliged to abide by codes of conduct within certain spaces?

CreativeGreen · 09/09/2026 12:36

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:35

So you don't understand that you are obliged to abide by codes of conduct within certain spaces?

Of course I do. I just don't know what your point is. I'm not asking permission to vilify you or anyone else, so I don't know why you seem to be laying down some kind of challenge to 'try it'.

ikeepforgetting · 09/09/2026 12:36

Some posters on these threads must have a little bell that goes off calling them to action. It's so tedious and predictable. Of course women shouldn't have been assaulted. Anyone saying otherwise is a tool.

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 12:36

WildWindySeascape · 09/09/2026 12:34

The assault was appalling and shameful.

Separately, I do not agree with protestors trying to disrupt events. Yes stand outside with a sign or a banner and make your case known, but actually disrupting events or travel or the lives of other people is obnoxious.

Yes, this is how I feel. The timing of the disruption was also ill judged.

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