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to think that "eating fish and chips" is just lunch/dinner, not a holiday activity?!

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PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 16:30

Seen this on a few threads lately, and when I asked a couple of years ago about ideas of what to do in the evening on hols in the UK, this was the line trotted out most! "Walk along the promenade eating fish and chips". For a start I hate eating when walking, its messy and inconvenient and secondly, what about the other 6 evenings in a week or are we meant to do it every single night?

In most places these days you can't "eat fish and chips on the front" anyway because you get mugged by fucking sea gulls!

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PyongyangKipperbang · Today 01:14

Haha! Sorry! Just had a wee google and it suggest that in NI it is a supper but not in Ireland, my GGrandmother was from Donegal and her husband from Galway....so who the fuck knows?!

But given I am apparently anti British as I dont want chips on the beach for my dinner, perhaps my family are just weird!

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echt · Today 01:32

I haven't eaten a fish and chips supper for myself for years, but take summer visitors to the excellent Cerberus Beach House on Half Moon Bay to eat chips facing the sea, watching the young 'uns jumping off the jetty. Definitely not walking along, though.

Rondayvu · Today 01:53

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · Today 01:11

Oh now we're into new territory with the Irish connection.
Hopefully someone with Irish roots can help.
Now watching with interest.

I am in Ireland, down south part not NI like and where I am one or two of the local chineses do a 'supper' which is a tray basically with chips, either gravy or curry sauce, onions and your choice of sausages, fish or chicken'. In the CHINESE!!! I need to google my local chippers and see if they do anything similar now but a 'supper' to me is your last meal of the night so essentially if you are falling out of the pub to pop to the chinese you would order a supper I guess but I have not tried this. Actually may not even be on the menu anymore but my ex husband the odd time would have ordered it. Hes a weirdo that would order omelette and chips in the bloody chinese too so he is not of the most discerning of palettes.

Rondayvu · Today 01:54

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 01:14

Haha! Sorry! Just had a wee google and it suggest that in NI it is a supper but not in Ireland, my GGrandmother was from Donegal and her husband from Galway....so who the fuck knows?!

But given I am apparently anti British as I dont want chips on the beach for my dinner, perhaps my family are just weird!

Donegal and Galway are Ireland not NI anyway and I am not 'anti brit' just anti england when it comes to footie so I will take one for the team and whip a teenager down to the beach and make them sit and eat chips with me on Monday night just for the craic. I will do it in the breeziest part of the village too and let the waft of vinegar go all over so others may follow suit.

Rondayvu · Today 02:02

Eye opener here that we in Ireland are certainly being ripped off is I just found a local chipper that sells a chip butty for 5.40. Chips on bread for over 5 euro...scandalous.

WearyAuldWumman · Today 02:05

It's just an easy tea/dinner where I live...but in Fife you're never far from the sea.

DeftGoldHedgehog · Today 02:09

YANBU, and chippies aren't better by the sea anyway. You're just more likely to be attacked by a herring gull while eating them.

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 02:47

Rondayvu · Today 01:54

Donegal and Galway are Ireland not NI anyway and I am not 'anti brit' just anti england when it comes to footie so I will take one for the team and whip a teenager down to the beach and make them sit and eat chips with me on Monday night just for the craic. I will do it in the breeziest part of the village too and let the waft of vinegar go all over so others may follow suit.

I know where they are, thats the point I was making. My paternal family are from Ireland but a google suggests that saying "fish supper" is mainly NI, so I am confused where us (as a family) calling it a fish supper came from.

And I was saying that some posters have suggested that me not like a "supper" on the beach must mean I was brought up outside of the UK, or just hate being a brit.

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Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · Today 04:09

I wouldn't say it's an activity, but it's a treat and a novelty if you don't visit the sea often.

(Well, it would be a treat if the gulls didn't try to divebomb)

Willowbalm · Today 07:36

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 02:47

I know where they are, thats the point I was making. My paternal family are from Ireland but a google suggests that saying "fish supper" is mainly NI, so I am confused where us (as a family) calling it a fish supper came from.

And I was saying that some posters have suggested that me not like a "supper" on the beach must mean I was brought up outside of the UK, or just hate being a brit.

I suppose expressions that are used in NI would often be used in Donegal too as it’s also in the north of the island.

I’m at the other end of the country from Donegal and would never use the term fish supper. I use the term supper as a general term for the evening meal if it’s a lighter one (that is, I have breakfast, dinner and supper or breakfast, lunch and dinner depending on the day).

Supper definitely doesn’t mean ‘with chips’ here though as it seems to do some places.

I wouldn’t see eating fish and chips on a promenade as a treat either OP 😁

Morepositivemum · Today 07:44

I love so many people’s point being just ‘it’s by the sea’. I agree. Lovely thing to do by the sea😍

pastadish · Today 07:49

HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · Yesterday 16:36

It’s not something I do when not by the sea, but it’s not exactly an “experience “

It might be to some people who don’t live by the sea or never go to the coast.
Many people don’t have the means or money to go there so for them it’s an experience.

InfoSecInTheCity · Today 08:16

One of my favourite things to do when we go to the sea, but I live a 2 hr drive from the nearest seaside so it’s a novelty. We’ll get a cone of chips with plenty of salt and vinegar and the little wooden fork and then sit on the beach to eat them. Then wander down the beach to an ice cream van and get a Mr Whippy with flake and Raspberry sauce for pudding. The combination of the smell of malt vinegar, hot chips and the sea just says ‘holiday’ for me.

NotAnotherScarf · Today 08:19

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 23:11

I dont need to appreciate anything, I was bloody there, I know exactly what it was like. It was....fine for what it was. What it wasnt was the halcyon days of yore that many people my age like to paint it as.

People say "Oh we had fewer expectations" only because there was far less to hope for! A donkey ride is fine if that is all you have known, but a rollercoaster is far better!

And when I was a (working class!) kid, my parents did not think that eating my dinner on the street was an evening out, and neither do I. So shoot me.

Bang! But don't you think that having fewer expectations out of life made people happy. For example I am a big fan of Radio and Radio 4 has a consumer programme called you and yours. It has a weekly phone in and one week it was about debt. This bloke rang in to say he was £30k in debt on benefits as he was disabled and it was the banks fault as it was easy to lie to them. When asked why he was in debt he replied "my children deserve holidays". In my mind no one deserves a holiday. You deserve water, food, shelter, warmth and freedom from oppression not a bloody trip to Benadorm.

Floatlikeafeather2 · Today 09:07

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · Today 00:47

It's a strange een at no mistake.
Wonder if it's a local thing that supper includes extras.
That's a guess.
Ne Scotland ..supper is anything with chips.

It was either Stranraer or somewhere a bit further down the Rhins, can't remember now, so the opposite corner. If we go again, I think we'll have to order both!

PatioDwellers · Today 09:15

Scottish parents, it was a fish supper for us, it’s just fish and chips (no mushy peas didn’t have those till I moved to the north west).

Monty36 · Today 09:18

Fish and chips can be supper.
But by the sea it can be very much part of visiting the seaside.
I love both. And long may doing so continue.
I love the sound and smell of the sea. The breeze that goes with it.
And I even love the sound of seagulls.

MickyMoonshine · Today 10:31

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 23:11

I dont need to appreciate anything, I was bloody there, I know exactly what it was like. It was....fine for what it was. What it wasnt was the halcyon days of yore that many people my age like to paint it as.

People say "Oh we had fewer expectations" only because there was far less to hope for! A donkey ride is fine if that is all you have known, but a rollercoaster is far better!

And when I was a (working class!) kid, my parents did not think that eating my dinner on the street was an evening out, and neither do I. So shoot me.

You sound so angry. It’s bizarre. If you don’t want to eat fish and chips while walking by the sea then don’t! But don’t be a dick about it.

Why do you find it so difficult to understand that people take pleasure in different things to you. Sometimes the understated activities are what people remember.

I just asked DS what his favourite part of our holiday was and without thinking he said going crabbing and playing in the sea. He’s 12 almost 13.
Didn’t mention the water park or the more ‘high octane’ activities. So yeah, some people do remember the donkey ride over the rollercoaster.

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