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to think that "eating fish and chips" is just lunch/dinner, not a holiday activity?!

243 replies

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 16:30

Seen this on a few threads lately, and when I asked a couple of years ago about ideas of what to do in the evening on hols in the UK, this was the line trotted out most! "Walk along the promenade eating fish and chips". For a start I hate eating when walking, its messy and inconvenient and secondly, what about the other 6 evenings in a week or are we meant to do it every single night?

In most places these days you can't "eat fish and chips on the front" anyway because you get mugged by fucking sea gulls!

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albalass · Yesterday 20:03

I have happy memories of family holidays in the east neuk of Fife where once or twice we'd drive to a wee chippy and get fish suppers. Usually sat in car to eat it (as even summer evenings in Scotland can be a bit chilly) but we'd park so we could watch the crashing waves. Simple but very happy times (1980s).

Edited to add that I don't remember any other dinners or lunches, so the fish supper trips were definitely special to me.

MasterBeth · Yesterday 20:05

AIBU to think that "swimming" is just regular exercise, not a holiday activity?

Seen this on a few threads lately, and when I asked a couple of years ago about ideas of what to do in the days on hols in the UK, this was the line trotted out most! "Go in the sea and swim". For a start I hate getting changed on the beach, its cold and inconvenient and secondly, what about the other 6 afternoons in a week or are we meant to do it every single day?

DogearedPaperbackWriter · Yesterday 20:05

Some people don't think an 'experience' has to be this huge thing. It can be as simple as sitting and watching the sun set in a different place or enjoying some local food in the fresh air.

If you don't like it, fair enough, but obviously many people do.

Gonners · Yesterday 20:06

There's a caff that does pretty good fish & chips on the coastal path near us. However, I've only eaten there once because the bloody seagulls swoop down to raid people's plates. This is generally a pretty successful strategy, as they tag team each other and while you're concentrating on fending off one, another charges in from the other direction.

Dragonflyspeeding · Yesterday 20:07

vegemitesandwiches · Yesterday 17:42

It only takes 30 minutes if you just shovel it down and leave - the whole point is to sit and enjoy it for a while. Then you can get an ice-cream afterwards and eat it on the way back to the car.

So cold chips Even more exciting.............

Jamtomorrowneverjamtoday · Yesterday 20:07

Ate fish and chips on the beach at Sennen Cove as the sun was starting to go down last week, then had a paddle. It was magical.

It is as much an activity as going out for dinner is generally - and I would consider that an event. A lovely thing to do on a UK holiday by the sea.

Your take is a bit joyless.

Corvidsarethebest · Yesterday 20:10

Eating hot fish and chips, lots of salt and vinegar, sharing portions, smelling the sea, looking over the horizon as the sun goes down- what's not an experience about that? It's not the same as sitting in a restaurant, although you could enjoy fish and chips in a restaurant overlooking the sea too...

thestudio · Yesterday 20:10

HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · Yesterday 18:57

Begging’ yer pardun, missus fer me ingnerunce

Lol, i'm not posh, just political.

EatMoreChocolate44 · Yesterday 20:16

I would count it as an activity as it's usually followed by a walk along the beach, taking your shoes off and dipping your feet in the water. Skimming stones or just people watching. Fish and chips (with lots of salt and vinegar) taste delicious outside. I wouldn't walk and eat them but I'd find a park bench. Easy, low key and yummy. Maybe a wee stop in an ice cream shop after or the local pub for a pint.

Lifeomars · Yesterday 20:21

The loveliest fish and chips I ever had was outside at the seaside, it was years ago and i have never forgoten it, so fresh and tasty.

Livelovebehappy · Yesterday 20:21

It used to be a cheap alternative to dining at a restaurant, but these days fish and chips cost an absolute fortune. If I’m paying over £40 for four of us eating fish and chips out of a plastic tray wondering around outside, I’d rather choose to eat indoors off a plate for a few pounds more.

Emma8888 · Yesterday 20:25

I think you have to see this through children’s eyes, not adults. They presumably eat at tables (at home, restaurants, school etc.) so to eat on a bench or walking down a pier, or sitting on a beach is a novel experience. It sounds really weird, but I have a very early memory of eating a whole tomato ‘like an apple’ at a train station (I suspect the train was delayed, I was hungry, and there were limited options, probably from some shopping done for a picnic the next day). It was such an unusual thing to eat not sitting at a proper table!

Ophy83 · Yesterday 20:28

Delphiniumandlupins · Yesterday 17:06

You can add mushy peas or a pickled onion then you have vegetables covered too.

And/or a gherkin! I love fish and chips. Preferably sitting on the beach with a ginger beer and channelling Julian from the Famous Five by commenting how much better food tastes when eaten outdoors.

Obviously it isn't going to take an entire evening but it is definitely something to do at least once on a seaside holiday in the UK. Along with getting a 99, going crabbing, venturing into the sea shrieking at the cold, having a pasty if in Cornwall, having a cream tea if in Devon or Cornwall, having crab sandwiches and expressing extreme shock at the extortionate price (if in Cornwall), building a sandcastle, making a picture with shells and seaweed Art Attack-style and writing in the damp sand with a stick.

sittingonabeach · Yesterday 20:29

Ginmonkeyagain · Yesterday 19:55

May be I am greedy guts but so many of my best holiday experiences are food related.

The amazing market hall in Toulouse where we would go every morning to got a chocolatine and eat at the counter of the market coffee bar with a 1 euro fifty coffee.

The over friendly, chaotic brunch place in a Boston suburb where the food kept on coming and the whole place stopped to watch the English people eat creamed wheat.

The covered food market in Porto where we just bounced from stall to stall buying small plates of food and glasses of wine all night.

The crammed wine bar in Sete where you simply hollered over the seafood stall down across street and they brought out platters of seafiod for the tables to share, well in to the night.

The tiny bar in Seville where they cooked the tapas on the bar ona small two ring gas burner and chalked up your bill in front of you.

The mandarin ice cream, the best I have ever eaten in my life, at small cheese festival that took over a while town in Northern Italy.

It's not just dinner.

When looking back at special memories with DH most ours involve food, and not always fancy meals, can be very simple but in a lovely location

LeopardPrintIsNeutral · Yesterday 20:29

We live in a seaside place and get fish and chips almost every week - it’s infinitely better when we haul our lazy bottoms down to the village beach. I don’t think we have ever had it on our own holidays though 🤣

Wiennetta · Yesterday 20:36

SummitWrong · Yesterday 16:35

YABU. Its not something that a lot of people would routinely eat, and and is a very traditional sea side accompaniment. The only time we have it is on holiday
I also have a specific dietary requirement that isnt catered for in many fish and chip shops, so I make a point of looking out for somewhere suitable when we do travel elsewhere. #Fish in Edinburgh was so good we ate there 2 nights on the trot and I still dream of eating there again 🤤

Edit to add: the seagulls here hunt in packs so I wouldnt be eating it outside, but getting on the way back from a beach trip? Absolutely.

Edited

Ahh #Fish is round the corner from me! We love it!

Wiennetta · Yesterday 20:37

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 17:10

I am not miserable at all thanks, just wondering why on earth fish and chips by the sea is seen as so special. It really isnt!

But lots of people obv enjoy it so maybe just let them and don’t do it yourself if it doesn’t appeal 😂

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · Yesterday 20:56

YoQuieroVino · Yesterday 18:51

I don’t like fish and chips.
i love seafood… lobster, salmon, fresh tuna, mussels etc. I don’t like battered fish, and I’m not a huge fan of chips! My kids don’t like fish and chips either.

No necessity to eat the batter. I'd expect a fish restaurant to be able to provide a piece of fish cooked in breadcrumbs or plainly instead of in batter, anyway. In the thread I was talking about it was made plain that the fussy children would eat chips, just not fish in any form. That was what surprised me. Fish fingers were a staple when I was growing up.

Floogal · Yesterday 20:57

I agree with OP. Though I'm biased as I prefer chips with curry sauce and sausage or saveloy and pineapple fritters 😋😋🤪.
Also, I live in a tourist dependent town on the south coast. When the weather is like it has been recently, it is a great place to be. Sunbathing, swimming in the sea, the bars and cafes are full of cheerful relaxed people. Locals and tourists alike. It has a Mediterranean resort vibe.
However, the rest of the year, the town is quite bleak. Pretty much like 'Every day is like Sunday' by Morrissey.
It bugs me when people think it's great living by the sea. It is even more depressing when it is windy and wet and dark. Walking on the beach in crap weather is certainly a miserable 'experience'. Regardless of whether you are eating fish and chips or fresh doughnuts or nothing at all.

Floogal · Yesterday 20:59

And yes, the seagulls here are particularly vicious, so eating outdoors is not advised.

saraclara · Yesterday 21:03

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 17:10

I am not miserable at all thanks, just wondering why on earth fish and chips by the sea is seen as so special. It really isnt!

Of course it is! You're outside, sitting in the sea air, smelling the smells, looking at boats, listening to the seagulls, people watching, and eating what the sea has provided. It's a multi sensory experience and all the better for it

Seaside fish and chips is almost unfailingly leagues better than any home chippy. I barely ever have fish and chips at home. By the time you're back from the chippy, it's all a soggy mess yet the fish is dry.

We always have fish and chips at the seaside. We don't walk with it, but we sit on a nearby bench or a harbour wall, and it's great.

concertinacornflake · Yesterday 21:03

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · Yesterday 19:51

"wondering why on earth fish and chips by the sea is seen as so special. It really isnt!"

Sometimes I honestly wonder what some people expect from life.

A lovely hot meal you didn't have to cook yourself, sitting on a beautiful beach, besides the sea. You're with the people you love, nobody has to get up for work or school the next day. Everyone's relaxed, has had a fun day and is winding down watching a glorious sunset. No washing up, a wander home to your digs for a good night's sleep in a bed you won't have to change yourself. A whole new day of seaside fun to look forward to tomorrow.

These are the days you will look back on from your nursing home and your mouth will water at those fish and chips and the memory of being with the people (perhaps now long gone) will be what made your life worth living.

If that isn't special then you are tired of life.

Exactly. This is what life is all about - nice times with people you love.

RainbowsAndRoundabouts · Yesterday 21:10

I've been known to choose holiday destinations on the strength of the local chippy. As for all this business about "sitting in", I'm afraid I don't really see the point. If it's got indoor seating, it's probably not quite the real thing.

The proper way is to queue outside some tiny, nondescript shack, then find somewhere to sit on the beach or the harbour wall, keeping one eye on the seagulls. Anything else rather spoils the flavour.

Seeingadistance · Yesterday 21:13

I was at a seaside town on Thursday evening, walked along the prom then sat on the beach to eat a fish supper, listening to local pipe band practising and being stared at by seagulls.

Splendid!

Xmasbaby11 · Yesterday 21:31

we will be going on holiday to Devon for 2 weeks, self catering. We won't be eating out much due to cost, but we will have fish and chips by the beach one evening. We did it last time and it was lovely. Just because something only takes an hour, it doesn't mean it's not special. We don't live by the coast so it's a bit of a treat for us, and we won't be going out many evenings (mostly just daytime). I'm not sure what is wrong with giving that as a holiday experience. It's not something I would post on social media or similar, but we'd plan it as a family.

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