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AIBU to admit to sister that DH probably vandalised her bathroom but wasn’t responsible for all of it?

87 replies

AliceNotInChains · Yesterday 09:42

Last night we went to my sister’s for dinner. During the evening someone wrote “cunt” on the bathroom mirror in what appeared to be shit (turned out to be Nutella but obviously with it being the bathroom it was immediately assumed to be shit).

My sister was the one who found it and came marching downstairs demanding to know who had done it looking at DH and I. Obviously I didn’t do it and I don’t think she would have done it herself so that leaves DH and BIL. Personally I think BIL is most likely as he does childish stuff all the time, sister is fuming that I’m blaming him but both are denying it. AIBU to think it’s obvious that I’m going to believe DH over BIL??

As the evening went on someone threw wet toilet roll at the bathroom ceiling. I suspect this may have been DH but still he’s denying it. AIBU to tell sister that the toilet roll was probably DH but not the mirror or would this just give her the excuse to blame him for both??

OP posts:
Springtimeinsunshine · Yesterday 11:31

As the evening went on someone threw wet toilet roll at the bathroom ceiling. I suspect this may have been DH

Why are you with someone who you suspect could be this pathetic and immature? I dislike my stbx for many reasons but I wouldn't have dreamt he would be capable of doing something like this.

Why are you still with your pathetic DH @AliceNotInChains ? Grow up and get rid of him.

Funkypigeons · Yesterday 11:32

Jeez, you lot are the pits. Were you raised by wolves or what.

BillieWiper · Yesterday 11:33

What a load of nonsense.

Slightyamusedandsilly · Yesterday 11:35

dayslikethese1 · Yesterday 09:49

Why would anyone do this?

They don't. Or not past the age of 12.

Mumsnet isn't always real life.

whippersnapper55 · Yesterday 13:20

Do you just make this stuff up? Why??

SamphiretheTervosaur · Yesterday 13:24

Summer holidays have barely begun...

TreesinthePark · Yesterday 13:29

Proud (or embarrassed, not sure) to say I clocked on and recognised OP straight away in the first post!

TicklishMintDuck · Today 10:13

Is this a joke? Why would any adults would think that this is normal behaviour? Why are you writing this online? It has to be fake for clicks, surely.

Pherian · Today 10:16

AliceNotInChains · Yesterday 09:42

Last night we went to my sister’s for dinner. During the evening someone wrote “cunt” on the bathroom mirror in what appeared to be shit (turned out to be Nutella but obviously with it being the bathroom it was immediately assumed to be shit).

My sister was the one who found it and came marching downstairs demanding to know who had done it looking at DH and I. Obviously I didn’t do it and I don’t think she would have done it herself so that leaves DH and BIL. Personally I think BIL is most likely as he does childish stuff all the time, sister is fuming that I’m blaming him but both are denying it. AIBU to think it’s obvious that I’m going to believe DH over BIL??

As the evening went on someone threw wet toilet roll at the bathroom ceiling. I suspect this may have been DH but still he’s denying it. AIBU to tell sister that the toilet roll was probably DH but not the mirror or would this just give her the excuse to blame him for both??

Who behaves like this over the age of 12 ?

I honestly wouldn’t invite you two over for dinner again since clearly one of you has not learned how to act in public.

Packofsix · Today 10:18

How old are you all? 5?

SqueakyFromme · Today 10:21

He should have used peanut butter, Nutella is entirely the wrong shade to masquerade as poo. Just let him know for the next time.

AwayWiththeGoblins · Today 10:21

5128gap · Yesterday 11:14

Admit nothing. It's pretty obvious what happened here. Your MiL snuck in and wrote on the mirror and the neighbours 5 feral children threw the toilet paper on the ceiling from their garden.
I would suggest immediate no contact with narcissist MiL and that your sister contacts the school so the teachers can sort out the neighbour kids. Then go no contact with the teacher, your sister and husband. As for DBil, you should get you ducks in a row and LTB. He's a red flag.

I think the crows should be involved somehow.

HGHGHG · Today 10:24

YABU as the Lidl version of Nutella would be a much better shout.

It is more sticky, and has little bits in, so looks more like poo and would have done a better job.

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · Today 10:26

AwayWiththeGoblins · Today 10:21

I think the crows should be involved somehow.

Instead of a kangaroo court
A crow court
Let the crows decide
Justice from the beak.

SqueakyFromme · Today 10:26

HGHGHG · Today 10:24

YABU as the Lidl version of Nutella would be a much better shout.

It is more sticky, and has little bits in, so looks more like poo and would have done a better job.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Greypanda86 · Today 10:29

Is this real? You think your husband has potential for throwing wet toilet paper on your sisters bathroom ceiling and you still choose to be in a relationship with such a wanker

Moellen54 · Today 10:31

Surely FAKE..

or I hope it is

MsIceSandwich · Today 10:34

I wish the crows would take away your Internet access.

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · Today 10:36

MsIceSandwich · Today 10:34

I wish the crows would take away your Internet access.

Would that happen after the crow (cook)report programme on TV

Besidemyselfwithworry · Today 10:37

AuntieBiotics · Yesterday 09:43

You all sound like children. Seriously.

This!
how absolutely pathetic
poor kids of these adults too what awful role models if they find that sort of thing funny. How revolting

BauhausOfEliott · Today 10:39

You again, OP?

MsIceSandwich · Today 10:43

For everyone outraged by their behaviour, OP makes this up for engagement. I don't know if she thinks she's a comedy genius (she's not) or what, but it's all bollocks.

Lostinbrum · Today 10:46

Why does MN not ban this person

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · Today 10:51

Not what you asked but...
Who really lives like this?

Balloonhearts · Today 10:51

How old are you people? You sound like a bunch of 12 year olds, Jesus, grow up.

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