AIBU to feel awkward about my cleaner's very revealing work outfit?

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My cleaner wears what i'd describe as an extremely skimpy gym outfit. I'm not sure of the exact name of clothes like this but hopefully you can imagine what I mean. It leaves basically nothing to the imagination - basically painted on fabric, and not much of it.

I get it (especially in these temperatures) - sweaty manual work, wear what your comfortable in, it's current fashion for people in their early 20s, want to show off body, whatever.

But I can't help but feel its a little inappropriate and awkward, especially when husband and other males are around in the house.
I don't want to make it a thing but AIBU? Would you say anything?

Are you thinking your husband is ogling her and feeling a bit jealous and insecure, If either of these are true then the issue is you both. Not her.

no of course there is not some appropriate level of clothes for a cleaner, as long as she’s dressed.

my hairdresser wears a sports bra and short leggings, looks great, she’s not trying to entice my husband and if I thought for one moment he was looking at her inappropriately I’d be speaking to him, not asking her to cover up,

But the discomfort is due to her own issues not the cleaner is doing anything wrong.

and she’s going to look like a right jealous insecure woman if she pulls her cleaner aside and says do you think you can cover up. If the cleaner has other options, then hopefully she tells her to fuck off.

I didn't say the cleaner was attractive, simply that if that's the case, and she happens to draw a glance from OP's DH, that's a natural reaction, and not a sexual perversion.

Honestly, OP, it sounds like this is more about your own insecurities than the other person. If you’re unhappy with yourself or the way you look, it’s easy to project those feelings onto others. Your cleaner could be wearing overalls and you’d probably still feel threatened.
Projecting your own self-doubt onto someone else isn’t fair. It might be more helpful to focus on addressing those feelings within yourself, rather than becoming fixated on things that are, frankly, none of your business.

A lot of these comments are still making assumptions about what kind of "gym wear" the cleaner has on; the only clue from the OP is that it's very close fitting. Until the OP comes back with a closer definition about what is being worn then I don't think anyone can really comment much - we've had everything suggested from scrunch bum leggings to teeny weeny shorts & tops.

I can understand wanting to do cleaning in close fitting clothing - loose clothing can swish around & get in the way, catch in things, loose t-shorts can dip into water & cleaning products. The fabric helps too, most decent gym wear is made to not absorb things like sweat so is likely to be easier to wash & not stain.

What makes a male attracted to a skimpily
dressed woman a "pervert"?

Gymwear are clothes that are suitable for exercising, and cleaning is enough of a physical job to qualify.

I don't see people wearing a bikini at the gym, at school or in the supermarket? It's social not considered "clothing", so why do you think it would be acceptable?

his jealous wife.

I can understand, I'd feel exactly the same. I do my own cleaning and I certainly couldn't wear tight fitting clothes/ gym gear in that heat, old loose cotton shorts and vest top would probably be more comfortable and cooler.

Sounds more like your insecurities that's problem not the cleaners clothes.

I’m fairly sure as a grown adult woman the cleaner is perfectly capable of deciding what clothing works for her,

Is she available Wednesdays? Asking for a friend! 😆

Depends on how skimpy,skimpy is, everything relative.
Of course she should be comfortable and cleaning is hard work especially in the heat.
But yeah IF her boob's are at risk of falling out then I would think thats not really suitable workwear, but ultimately i wouldn't say anything or care. my husband usually hides when the cleaner comes as shes chatty and he isnt! It's polite to get out if their way anyway so they can get on with the job, unless you have teenage sons I dont think its an issue, teen boys are likely to either gawp or hide. If they stared id be having words with them.not her, your DH, a grown man should be able to behave appropriately.

Yes, You would indeed think that.