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To ask which city you'd move to in England if you didn't live there already

301 replies

CurdinHenry · 18/07/2026 18:51

I am thinking about it. Would prefer not London tbh although appreciate that's where the jobs are (and in some ways it's probably the easiest fit for outsiders).

Where is friendly, has stuff to do, jobs and the like. I think my answer is going to end up being Newcastle (but I like York).

OP posts:
LadyEleanorRosalindWhitethorn · 19/07/2026 22:03

CovenOfCheeses · 19/07/2026 22:01

There are Egyptians? Reform really need to deport them.

thats omg talk, the Egyptian's are very welcome in the uk.

AlwaysExtraHot · 20/07/2026 09:38

LancashireButterPie · 19/07/2026 08:07

Yes quite! We need a "what the fuck" emoji.

TBF she’s explained why.
i think it’s great that people have different (sometimes surprising!) interests.

mrsneville · 20/07/2026 10:11

BoogWoog · 18/07/2026 20:34

Can't say I'd leave London, not much to do anywhere else.

Agreed, since they closed the mines and the mills we all just sit twiddling our thumbs all day. Thankfully in London they have things like 'shops' 'cafes' 'parks' and 'museums'.

DurdleSnore · 20/07/2026 10:43

Norwich 100%

Netcurtainnelly · 20/07/2026 12:01

To live near a nice beach would be nice.

Swiftie1878 · 20/07/2026 12:03

Liverpool.

Piggywaspushed · 20/07/2026 12:20

Cambridge, York, Sheffield or maybe Lincoln but I'd have to live at the top side of Steep Hill.

But Glasgow over all of those if we are allowed outside England.

Netcurtainnelly · 20/07/2026 12:23

Forest of Dean . Maybe.

Abracadabra12345 · 20/07/2026 13:33

Chesterfield

I love that unlike some cities named here, it’s not going to attract loads of tourists / hen and stag parties because it’s just a decent, practical town. It also has an excellent M & S and a good range of shops, And of course it’s the gateway to the Peak District. For anyone not wanting to be tied to their car, it has fantastic bus and train links and is near Sheffield, Matlock and of course the Peak District

I don’t live there, just stayed a few times so maybe it has a hidden dark side but then, don’t many towns and cities? ( OP’s update said we could include towns)

CloudPop · 20/07/2026 14:25

Bristol

AlwaysExtraHot · 20/07/2026 15:08

Abracadabra12345 · 20/07/2026 13:33

Chesterfield

I love that unlike some cities named here, it’s not going to attract loads of tourists / hen and stag parties because it’s just a decent, practical town. It also has an excellent M & S and a good range of shops, And of course it’s the gateway to the Peak District. For anyone not wanting to be tied to their car, it has fantastic bus and train links and is near Sheffield, Matlock and of course the Peak District

I don’t live there, just stayed a few times so maybe it has a hidden dark side but then, don’t many towns and cities? ( OP’s update said we could include towns)

Used to live near there. Personally I think it's a hole, and really down at heel these days.
Sheffield is also a gateway to the Peak District and has fantastic bus and train links. It's that bit bigger and more interesting/lively. If I had to live in that area again, I'd go for Sheffield every time.

MsSquiz · 20/07/2026 15:20

I’m Newcastle born and raised, so my second choice would be York

BoogWoog · 20/07/2026 17:04

mrsneville · 20/07/2026 10:11

Agreed, since they closed the mines and the mills we all just sit twiddling our thumbs all day. Thankfully in London they have things like 'shops' 'cafes' 'parks' and 'museums'.

And lovely restaurants with a wide variety of cuisines. So much to do..so much going on..so much excitement.

igelkott2026 · 20/07/2026 17:59

123teenagerfood · 18/07/2026 22:34

York is so overrated, very poor roads, traffic is awful and there are only 3 taxis to serve the whole City.

The only reason traffic is awful is because people won't cycle or use the park and rides. It needs an expensive congestion charge. It's small and accessible and nobody needs to use their flippin car to get into the centre.

I think it's lovely - I lived there for a year and ds was at university there. But you do need to avoid it on a Saturday evening if you don't want to see a load of undignified middle aged women with their tits hanging out. I am not being ageist or sexist, that's what I saw there. But I suspect that's true of most UK cities -for some reason getting drunk and showing as much cleavage as possible is considered to be fun.

igelkott2026 · 20/07/2026 18:04

VividDeer · 19/07/2026 17:16

So happy to see a few votes for Cardiff

Cardiff is lovely. In fact in some ways I like it more than Edinburgh but it will never have the cityscape.

I like the cityscape of Stirling too but haven't been there for a long time. I know a lot of places have gone downhill. But the biggest overrated place for me is St Andrews. What is exciting about a ruined cathedral and a golf course? I'd rather go to Dunkeld for ruins .

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 20/07/2026 18:38

Manchester in summer London in winter

NCTDN · 20/07/2026 21:32

PetulaGordeno · 19/07/2026 17:14

I’ll get the train in and see you down Lark Lane. I look like Petula Gordeno anyway (old, knackered) so I will probably be in Keith’s Wine Bar on the red vino, talking about my famous youth.
I am not born and bred, so my accent isn’t up to scratch, but I can revert to the lingo when required.

Edited

Is Keith’s still there? Their cake done warm as a pudding with ice cream was delicious!

PetulaGordeno · 21/07/2026 14:38

NCTDN · 20/07/2026 21:32

Is Keith’s still there? Their cake done warm as a pudding with ice cream was delicious!

Was last time I went although the whole street is different now - more user friendly, bars, restaurants.
I can remember having my graduation meal at Maranto’s back in the day.

FreddysFingers · 22/07/2026 03:57

Liverpool

InOverMyHead84 · 22/07/2026 04:30

Live in Winchester.

Always liked the look of Manchester. Vibrant and easy to navigate with extremely easy links to the rest of the North.

MinnieMountain · 22/07/2026 06:09

I'm going to annoy you OP, but - St David's. I'm from the area and DH and I plan to move there once DS leaves home.

Kaaardiffgalnow · 22/07/2026 06:34

shortsaint · 18/07/2026 22:58

Oxford - too snooty
Cardiff - too Welsh
Worcester - too parochial
Manchester - lost Burnham
Newcastle - too far north
Edinburgh - too full of tourists
Bath - also too full of tourists
York - too wet (every time I’ve been there)
London - too up itself
Bristol - too up itself

Quite happy where I am 😃

Cardiff - too Welsh 😂 Almost like it's the capital city of Wales and not in England then?

Crikeyalmighty · 22/07/2026 13:36

InOverMyHead84 · 22/07/2026 04:30

Live in Winchester.

Always liked the look of Manchester. Vibrant and easy to navigate with extremely easy links to the rest of the North.

Out of interest-Have you actually been? I like Liverpool and Leeds but in all fairness don’t like Manchester and have been lots with work - I find it really claustrophobic and very few areas unless going a long way out I would actually want to live - even the areas that are considered to be nice I didn’t find particularly nice relative to other places. I guess it’s horses for courses, maybe if I was 28 again rather than early 60s I would love it - whereas I do quite like Winchester which I’ve also been to a few times.

InOverMyHead84 · Yesterday 02:50

Crikeyalmighty · 22/07/2026 13:36

Out of interest-Have you actually been? I like Liverpool and Leeds but in all fairness don’t like Manchester and have been lots with work - I find it really claustrophobic and very few areas unless going a long way out I would actually want to live - even the areas that are considered to be nice I didn’t find particularly nice relative to other places. I guess it’s horses for courses, maybe if I was 28 again rather than early 60s I would love it - whereas I do quite like Winchester which I’ve also been to a few times.

I have been to Manchester. Had fun.

My home town is being destroyed by London overspill moving here pushing out the locals. It's lost its soul.... But, it's my home. I don't need to leave, will fly the flag until it's meaningless.

Crikeyalmighty · Yesterday 18:31

InOverMyHead84 · Yesterday 02:50

I have been to Manchester. Had fun.

My home town is being destroyed by London overspill moving here pushing out the locals. It's lost its soul.... But, it's my home. I don't need to leave, will fly the flag until it's meaningless.

Yep, I get you - it does change places and the vibe —- a biggie in Manchester is if you look for areas to live- I know loads of mumsnetters won’t agree with me , but apart from altrincham which I didn’t mind and saddkewirthxareawhich I like but is a fair way out and a bit of a depressing drive into Manchester I honestly didn’t really like anywhere that much - even raved about areas like Didsbury or chorlton - maybe I’ve just got used to a lot more green space around! we did consider it at one point as had a fair bit of business there at that time.