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To ask which city you'd move to in England if you didn't live there already

301 replies

CurdinHenry · 18/07/2026 18:51

I am thinking about it. Would prefer not London tbh although appreciate that's where the jobs are (and in some ways it's probably the easiest fit for outsiders).

Where is friendly, has stuff to do, jobs and the like. I think my answer is going to end up being Newcastle (but I like York).

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Crikeyalmighty · 19/07/2026 10:02

NC543210 · 19/07/2026 05:19

I was born in Birmingham and am saddened to see it not mentioned on here. It has a fabulous city centre close to the countryside lots of history.
I'd move back but think I've been out priced now.
That said I'm not far away only an hour on the train.

I'd move to Sheffield if not Birmingham.

Suprise to see York mentioned so much been a few times and think it has a horrible heavy atmosphere and is always so incredibly busy.

Also surprised to see Cheltenham mentioned so much. Partly because it isn't a city haha but mainly because it is so dull with vile traffic. I work there and have never once thought this is a place I'd like to live.

I guess it depends what you like doing - I am there at moment for a weekend - it has a ton of festivals, lovely cafes and bars up in Montpellier, nice vibrant area up the Bath Road , lovely well kept gardens - I guess one persons dull is another persons ordered- wheteas I worked on Birmingham years ago and hated it

Goldenbear · 19/07/2026 10:09

Certain parts of West London only.

ThatLemonBee · 19/07/2026 11:28

CurdinHenry · 18/07/2026 22:31

What's better about it than England?

it’s a different country so a different city . I’ve lived in England 20 years before going to Scotland and I’m definitely not going back lol 😜 for me it’s way better but that’s my perspective.

CurdinHenry · 19/07/2026 12:09

ThatLemonBee · 19/07/2026 11:28

it’s a different country so a different city . I’ve lived in England 20 years before going to Scotland and I’m definitely not going back lol 😜 for me it’s way better but that’s my perspective.

Why is it better?

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ServietteUnion · 19/07/2026 12:48

London - first, last and always. If money were no object I would move back there tomorrow. I also like Bristol, Norwich and Brighton. And Wells and Chichester, though tbh I think they feel more like towns even though technically they're cities. Not much love for York, Exeter or Bath. I think Lincoln has a very strange atmosphere, like you're being watched, and agree with a pp that Cambridge feels like a party you've gatecrashed. I enjoyed visiting Oxford and Liverpool but don't know them well enough to say more. I detest Manchester. I know you only asked about England, but fwiw I like Bristol way more than Cardiff, and Glasgow more than Edinburgh. My favourite city is Strasbourg (definitely not within your parameters). Hope you find what you're looking for.

Ifeellikechickentonightchickentonight · 19/07/2026 13:25

Supersleepysheepy · 18/07/2026 19:36

I used to work there and did find a few areas to feel unsafe. I think all cities have this though.

Yeah there are maybe a few streets or estates like that, but perhaps more so historically as they've gentrified hugely in the last decade or so.

When we were trying to figure out where exactly to buy I looked up the crime stats and they are pretty tame all over Bath. The so-called rough areas are similar to some of the most desirable parts of e.g. Bristol or London. That's one of the things I love about living here. There's really nowhere that's properly scary.

The worst area is the city centre apparently, maybe the Georgian architecture sets people off 😅

CurdinHenry · 19/07/2026 13:29

Edinburgh has been totally fucked by the cyclist culture, mounds of dog shit and the unaccountable electric bikes sponsored by the council plus the Oxford Street dodgy geezerisation of princes street

Find it boggling that anyone would want to live there but I suppose some places must be worse

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ThatLemonBee · 19/07/2026 13:45

CurdinHenry · 19/07/2026 12:09

Why is it better?

Peoples way of being , nhs is better I get appointments on the same day and maternity care is way better , school is smaller and do much more , prettier ( no need to explain this one ) , cleaner ( no need to explain this either ) . I should add I do not live in Edinburgh I said Edinburgh because you asked about a city and it’s the prettiest city in the U.K. hence my answer . But as far as Scotland or England I would never go back to living in England

ThatLemonBee · 19/07/2026 13:46

CurdinHenry · 19/07/2026 13:29

Edinburgh has been totally fucked by the cyclist culture, mounds of dog shit and the unaccountable electric bikes sponsored by the council plus the Oxford Street dodgy geezerisation of princes street

Find it boggling that anyone would want to live there but I suppose some places must be worse

Really I love it , but I wouldn’t what to live in any city . I find it mind boggling anyone would want to live in any city specially London , Birmingham or manchester as they are just so dirty and crime filled

InTheVanguard · 19/07/2026 16:16

LancashireButterPie · 19/07/2026 07:51

Cork, Oban, Exeter or Truro would be the dream,
However due to family commitments, Wrexham is looking more likely.

@LancashireButterPie I’m in a lovely village just outside Wrexham. Wrexham has had its ups and downs over the years but is now getting more investment than before (and it is now a city, hence the investment). And, if all else fails you’ll also be near Chester!

geumsun · 19/07/2026 16:21

Birmingham for me.

ARingtoit · 19/07/2026 16:24

Sheffield

DamnFineWoman · 19/07/2026 16:24

I’m from York but live in the Dales atm. We go regularly to see family and imo York has really taken a downturn in the last few years. Poor choice of shops, lots of homeless folks and unpleasant drunks on a weekend. Traffic is horrendous!

we are seriously considering a retirement in London!

Jasmin71 · 19/07/2026 16:28

York

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 19/07/2026 16:51

If you want a big city then possibly Newcastle. My choice though would always be for one of the smaller cathedral cities such as Lincoln of Hereford

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 19/07/2026 16:54

Minasama · 18/07/2026 22:48

Oxford, Worcester or Birmingham.

Oxford’s terrible. Vastly overpriced, crowded and you can’t easily get a car into the city, or even park it outside your own house in some areas.

CurdinHenry · 19/07/2026 17:00

ThatLemonBee · 19/07/2026 13:46

Really I love it , but I wouldn’t what to live in any city . I find it mind boggling anyone would want to live in any city specially London , Birmingham or manchester as they are just so dirty and crime filled

Well, we need to work and don't fancy spending half our lives transporting to and from it I guess. Personally I'd go mad living somewhere I needed a car. Fair play if you have a no car lifestyle somehow.

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MerryUmberHedgehog · 19/07/2026 17:04

Too cold up north and they speak funny

bittertwisted · 19/07/2026 17:04

BlueMum16 · 18/07/2026 20:23

We often go to Chester for food/drinks. We have a couple of favourite bars for people watching. It's seems like a beautiful city.

I am guilty of not appreciating it’s beauty, and craving the excitement and vibrancy of Liverpool.
this thread has inspired me to take a big bike ride around my city and appreciate it.
Still love Liverpool more than any other city. However Newcastle is amazing, I always knew it had a Liverpool vibe, but until visiting it had no appreciation of how beautiful, compact, historic and interesting it is. I can really imagine living there, plus close to the coast and beautiful countryside

PetulaGordeno · 19/07/2026 17:14

bittertwisted · 19/07/2026 17:04

I am guilty of not appreciating it’s beauty, and craving the excitement and vibrancy of Liverpool.
this thread has inspired me to take a big bike ride around my city and appreciate it.
Still love Liverpool more than any other city. However Newcastle is amazing, I always knew it had a Liverpool vibe, but until visiting it had no appreciation of how beautiful, compact, historic and interesting it is. I can really imagine living there, plus close to the coast and beautiful countryside

I’ll get the train in and see you down Lark Lane. I look like Petula Gordeno anyway (old, knackered) so I will probably be in Keith’s Wine Bar on the red vino, talking about my famous youth.
I am not born and bred, so my accent isn’t up to scratch, but I can revert to the lingo when required.

shortsaint · 19/07/2026 17:15

I wanted to clarify my earlier point as I was being silly. Cardiff is a FANTASTIC city, and, given your criteria (apart from the England bit!) does fit the bill. I lived there and it was just the bilingual stuff that put me off, but, indeed, part of the charm.

Reading through this thread, you could pretty much live in most places, depending on budget. Because the whole point of cities is that they are large, and there are always desirable areas.

Are you really looking for a TOWN?

VividDeer · 19/07/2026 17:16

So happy to see a few votes for Cardiff

hididdlyho · 19/07/2026 17:29

First York (because it was the closest city I was born to and DH has family living there). Second, Durham (because I was at uni there and it always instantly felt like a second home). Third choice is Leeds where a lot of my friends from school/college moved to and I've made a business in the city; although it's never felt like 'home' in the same way though.

malefields · 19/07/2026 17:35

With stupid money, London.

With comfortable money, a nice coastal area. I just want to be close to the sea. Maybe Whitby?

CovenOfCheeses · 19/07/2026 22:01

LadyEleanorRosalindWhitethorn · 18/07/2026 22:01

yes there headquarters is in London, i love espionage and its partly why i prefer london, that and the Egyptians at the British museum

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There are Egyptians? Reform really need to deport them.

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