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To think it's time to leave the ECHR?

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Sausagenbacon · 16/07/2026 20:05

www.thejc.com/news/uk/gazan-family-refugee-status-asylum-rejection-gwsq2c8b

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BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:30

Daafdjdnd · 17/07/2026 09:24

I researched the case online

As have I. A few right wing news sources with exactly the same report and not a single confirmation from the U.K. court’s database.

Where is the source that says the family is “safe” in Egypt and all 18 are non English speakers?

Tomikka · 17/07/2026 09:30

Daafdjdnd · 16/07/2026 20:35

All the stuff we want can be kept with domestic legislation.

It is in domestic legislation, and the ‘court’ in ECHR is a domestic court in the UK

EasternStandard · 17/07/2026 09:30

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:26

Couldn’t you just have stayed in India?

The government follows the law, therefore they have permission.

Why so angry at someone from India? It really is separate to how many Gazans we can take for asylum.

NotBreezy · 17/07/2026 09:31

inkognitha · 17/07/2026 09:22

It’s not hypocritical.

You claim you want to welcome foreigners in the UK and that they should be treated equally. Then, they must have the same rights to freedom of thought and expression. Even if you dislike their opinion. You’re the one who is hypocritical by not following your own principles.

I am a migrant, I am very happy to have been able to move here legally on a personal level, but there is too much immigration for the good of this country.

I moved here to live in Great Britain, for the British culture and history you probably self-hate, not to live in a collection of foreign communities and ghettos, not to replicate my own culture, not to live in a country that sidelines its own traditions, norms and citizens. And I have the legal right to express my opinion, whatever my personal situation is.

Who said you couldn’t express an opinion. ‘Legal right’ 😂

I am the daughter of brown hard-working immigrants. My mum and dad both worked from the 1960s till they retired. I am proud of them both, esp my mum. I love the UK, as do they. I was born here and don’t want to live anywhere else.

But hypocritical immigrants who benefitted from the UK and now want to pull the ladder up, make me cringe a lot. I see them IRL too.

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:32

Switcher · 17/07/2026 09:26

I think is also not true that it's about being white. Indians embrace British culture as well as their own, they are hard working and want to make friends. I enjoy being invited to Diwali evenings and holi and all that stuff, they come over for Xmas. I think the Muslim brotherhood is a pernicious ideology that has poisoned interfaith and intercultural dialogue to result in many Muslims wanting to live completely separately in the UK, and that is not a fun future.

Ahh yes, that great British celebration of Diwali.

Are you suggesting there aren’t areas of towns and cities which are almost exclusively Indian communities?

DuncinToffee · 17/07/2026 09:34

As always, this is about keeping all the rights for yourself and take them away from the people you don't like.

Now which one would people like to give up?

To think it's time to leave the ECHR?
RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:34

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:07

Not if they are at risk, and qualify for refugee status here, no I don’t. Which one of your vulnerable family members would you be prepared to sacrifice in that situation?

That’s the point.

Who qualifies as family? who is dependent on you?

I could see how my siblings, as children, could be dependent on me, but once they are grown up and have their own families then they don’t qualify anymore.

If someone wants their whole street to join them, then who pays for that?

The war in Gaza is over.

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:36

EasternStandard · 17/07/2026 09:30

Why so angry at someone from India? It really is separate to how many Gazans we can take for asylum.

It really isn’t. Someone who has benefitted from our generosity in welcoming immigrants, something the UK has done for centuries, telling me I should be against welcoming refugees is pretty hypocritical, no?

NotBreezy · 17/07/2026 09:36

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:34

That’s the point.

Who qualifies as family? who is dependent on you?

I could see how my siblings, as children, could be dependent on me, but once they are grown up and have their own families then they don’t qualify anymore.

If someone wants their whole street to join them, then who pays for that?

The war in Gaza is over.

I doubt this conflict will ever be over.

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:37

NotBreezy · 17/07/2026 09:36

I doubt this conflict will ever be over.

The war is over now.

SuffolkSun · 17/07/2026 09:39

Daafdjdnd · 17/07/2026 09:23

Not taking in any benefits, raising my bright intelligent kids. Teaching them some maths. They all thrive now.

So you didn't use the NHS or state schools? You didn't use electricity, water or gas, travel on public roads, use public transport, fly out of an airport? You never called upon the police for help? Never got a library card? Never enrolled your children into sports clubs or took them to a swimming pool? You just sat at home, raising your children and living your life without recourse to any of the infrastructure that taxpayers have paid for. And not working either, so not contributing. Marvellous.

DuncinToffee · 17/07/2026 09:40

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:37

The war is over now.

The ceasefire is being violated on a daily basis. Read/watch the news

EasternStandard · 17/07/2026 09:41

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:36

It really isn’t. Someone who has benefitted from our generosity in welcoming immigrants, something the UK has done for centuries, telling me I should be against welcoming refugees is pretty hypocritical, no?

It’s entirely separate as a system.
On being welcome how many refugees do you want to welcome from Gaza? Is it just the extended family in the op or should we take more Gazans?

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:42

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:34

That’s the point.

Who qualifies as family? who is dependent on you?

I could see how my siblings, as children, could be dependent on me, but once they are grown up and have their own families then they don’t qualify anymore.

If someone wants their whole street to join them, then who pays for that?

The war in Gaza is over.

Tell that to these people. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cqj1jqeyl5ro

Plenty of families are co-dependent. My elderly parents looked after my grandmother, and they were dependent on all my siblings. If I were forced to flee my country, which one of them would I leave behind?

The whataboutery of the “whole street” is ridiculous.

A Palestinian woman reacts during the funeral in Gaza City for several people killed in an Israeli strike on a police post in the Jabalia area (14 July 2026)

Israeli strike on police post in Gaza kills seven, officials say

A senior officer in the Hamas-run police force was among those killed in the strike, which Israel's military says targeted "terrorists".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cqj1jqeyl5ro

Lavender14 · 17/07/2026 09:43

This woman was also allowed by the home office.

And we've established that you do indeed utilise the benefits of taxpayers money in certain capacities as a sahm who is not contributing to taxes. Not that I think there's anything wrong with that - I just think it's crazy you want to pull the bridge up behind you for more vulnerable people.

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:43

DuncinToffee · 17/07/2026 09:40

The ceasefire is being violated on a daily basis. Read/watch the news

But there is a ceasefire. There is no all out war.

LagerLady · 17/07/2026 09:43

Surely, we can just ignore the bits about migrant rights, like the Danes do?

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:44

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:42

Tell that to these people. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cqj1jqeyl5ro

Plenty of families are co-dependent. My elderly parents looked after my grandmother, and they were dependent on all my siblings. If I were forced to flee my country, which one of them would I leave behind?

The whataboutery of the “whole street” is ridiculous.

18 people, at least 4 houses, is a small cul de sac.

Switcher · 17/07/2026 09:47

Lavender14 · 16/07/2026 23:21

Do you not understand that people fleeing genocide often become seperated? Which is highly, highly traumatic? Family reunification is important. If you became seperated from your child, the person you care for, your husband or the last family member you had alive would you not want to do everything possible to make sure they were safe with you? And if you were well set up in a place where you knew you could support yourself and get them properly established would you not choose that to be the place where everyone would come together?

It blows my mind how people hold other human beings to a standard they would never ever keep in reality if the roles were reversed.

It's dehumanising.

If that's a genocide, it has been remarkably ineffective.

DuncinToffee · 17/07/2026 09:47

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:43

But there is a ceasefire. There is no all out war.

The war is not over as long as the ceasefire is being breached.

You look at Gaza and think people are safe there? You have a problem with 18 people coming to the UK?

Daafdjdnd · 17/07/2026 09:47

NotBreezy · 17/07/2026 09:26

Taking all the benefits of being in this country, public services etc. Great your kids are bright: irrelevant though.

Completely relevant as they have or will soon have thriving careers. Again we never took a penny of welfare.

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:48

EasternStandard · 17/07/2026 09:41

It’s entirely separate as a system.
On being welcome how many refugees do you want to welcome from Gaza? Is it just the extended family in the op or should we take more Gazans?

It is all about immigration. Picking and choosing which route we have set out in law is ok for us to welcome makes a mockery of the system. Saying “that immigrant is ok, but this one isn’t” simply because of why they have come here is laughable, particularly from someone who continues to enjoy the services our government provides for all citizens - healthcare, education, infrastructure etc.

There are about a million displaced Gazans in Palestine. A tiny number of them want to seek asylum here. I’m happy for them to do so.

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:49

Daafdjdnd · 17/07/2026 09:47

Completely relevant as they have or will soon have thriving careers. Again we never took a penny of welfare.

You’re ok with the children who make up part of that 18 number to come here then? And the working age adults, who for all you know will be well capable of working?

SuffolkSun · 17/07/2026 09:50

Daafdjdnd · 17/07/2026 09:21

The home office actually wanted to say no and then a judge reversed it. The 18 can't speak English and will need taxpayer funding to live here. Can't they just stay in Egypt?

You're a migrant non-taxpayer.

I know it will be difficult to stretch your imagination, but indulge me. What if these family members learn English. What if these family members make dedicated efforts to get UK qualifications (education is highly prized in Gaza). What if these family members then get jobs and start paying tax. What if, as a result of the support the UK initially gave, they become high earners, paying lots of tax and supporting the community through, say, being doctors, or teachers.

Why, then they'll be no different to your children and husband. Different to you, of course, because you don't work and don't pay employment taxes.

BoredZelda · 17/07/2026 09:51

RodneyKitten · 17/07/2026 09:44

18 people, at least 4 houses, is a small cul de sac.

You know what their living arrangements will be? Jeez oh, the amount of inside information people have on this family is incredible.