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Sandals and crusty feet at work

462 replies

Offherrockingchair · 28/06/2026 19:47

AIBU to think that walking sandals and flip flops are not professional workwear? Yes, it’s been ridiculously hot, but I don’t want to see brittle yellow toenails, crusty dry skin and, in one case, flakes and chunks of skin hanging off the manky trotters of my colleagues 🤮 At the very least, if we are going to be subjected to your toe cleavage, have a pedicure first. And don’t get me started on the smelly ones!

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feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:34

MaturingCheeseball · 29/06/2026 11:41

There should be standards of dress. That doesn’t mean suit and tie or in this case brogues or court shoes, but frankly feet can be pretty off putting. What if you were faced with a consultant in walking sandals with hairy toes? A solicitor who turned up in flip flops? The manager of a supermarket with peeling plasters on their feet?

Hairy toes are the absolute pits. On either sex. 🤢

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 09:38

Should hands also be covered ? They are body parts after all

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 09:38

feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:34

Hairy toes are the absolute pits. On either sex. 🤢

Body hair is natural.

What's wrong with you, dear?

I don't stare at feet long enough to see whether they're hairy. My gaze is eye level.

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 09:40

I dislike most perfumes and some laundry detergents are so vile that I cross the street rather than walk behind them. And plastic faces make me twitch

that doesn’t mean u think I have any right to dictate that others ditch the chemical

Anarchy99 · 30/06/2026 09:40

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 09:29

Say what now @Anarchy99 ? If you read my post, instead of jumping to conclusions, you will see that I said that no one needs to be manicured or pedicured or covered in make up - just clean and tidy as a courtesy to yourself and those around you.

I did read your post.

You don’t ‘owe’ anyone else a thing when it comes to your own appearance.

If I wore open toed shoes then you would see I have next to no toenails and the soles of my feet are probably not great. Do I owe it to others to take care of how my feet look if they don’t bother me?

feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:44

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 09:38

Body hair is natural.

What's wrong with you, dear?

I don't stare at feet long enough to see whether they're hairy. My gaze is eye level.

Nothing's wrong with me, thanks, dear. 🙄 And just because something is 'natural' doesn't stop it being ugly.

I don't stare at feet either, the 'don't look then' retorts on this thread are tiresome. It's not about staring or even consciously looking, people have eyes and they see things, whether they want to not.

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 09:46

Well we shall have to agree to differ @Anarchy99 as I do think we owe our colleagues the courtesy of being clean and tidy in the workplace. I think that is just good manners and respectful of other people.

I also think we owe ourselves the courtesy of looking after the only body that we have - but that is a whole other subject in itself.

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 09:48

feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:44

Nothing's wrong with me, thanks, dear. 🙄 And just because something is 'natural' doesn't stop it being ugly.

I don't stare at feet either, the 'don't look then' retorts on this thread are tiresome. It's not about staring or even consciously looking, people have eyes and they see things, whether they want to not.

But how? They are not ever in your eyeline unless you are deliberately looking. It really is harder to notice anyone's feet than it is to not look at all.

feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:49

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 09:48

But how? They are not ever in your eyeline unless you are deliberately looking. It really is harder to notice anyone's feet than it is to not look at all.

Does nothing at floor level ever catch your eye, then?

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 09:50

feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:44

Nothing's wrong with me, thanks, dear. 🙄 And just because something is 'natural' doesn't stop it being ugly.

I don't stare at feet either, the 'don't look then' retorts on this thread are tiresome. It's not about staring or even consciously looking, people have eyes and they see things, whether they want to not.

You must be staring at hairy toes long enough to consider them 'the pits'.

Raise your gaze, dear. Be confident.

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 09:50

feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:49

Does nothing at floor level ever catch your eye, then?

No. Not unless I'm deliberately looking down which is pretty much only on streets where I know there's a high chance of dog poo to be wary of.

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 09:53

feistyoneyouare · 30/06/2026 09:49

Does nothing at floor level ever catch your eye, then?

Some of us actually have good posture and walk with our heads held high.

Lowering my eye level to the ground to observe the appearance of feet is not something I do.

I look at faces. I don't look at feet.

Jk987 · 30/06/2026 09:59

It’s basic grooming! If you’ve got any pride sort your feet out before exposing them in the workplace!

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 10:04

Hugely amused by those whose glance never deigns to descends below eye height! I'm relieved to say that I can observe floor to ceiling whilst at work and moving around the world. Fortunately that means that I can observe to get up for someone wearing a foot boot (as in medical) on the tube. I could see when my children's shoe laces were untied or the hem of my colleague's skirt had come undone and I could offer her a needle and thread to put a few stitches in before she went into a meeting.

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 10:04

Jk987 · 30/06/2026 09:59

It’s basic grooming! If you’ve got any pride sort your feet out before exposing them in the workplace!

What's basic grooming? I would say keeping clean is and anything else is extra and entirely optional.

Some people think treatments and removing dead skin and painting your nails and all kinds of extras are required. I disagree.

BrownBookshelf · 30/06/2026 10:06

This thread must be quite a read for the foot fetishists.

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:08

BrownBookshelf · 30/06/2026 10:06

This thread must be quite a read for the foot fetishists.

Absolutely.

There are many in this thread, including a man who's jealous of other men wearing sandals.

I've read it all 🤣

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:08

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 08:24

Brushing is basic cleaning, same as washing your feet. Flossing is highly recommended but not actually essential.

All this special cleaning and removing skin and moisturising and oiling is all a completely optional set of steps above and just being clean.

Many people are quite happy being clean without worrying about being aesthetically pleasing to some other random person's arbitrary level.

Flossing teeth is absolutely essential. The ignorance on this thread is catastrophic.

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:10

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 10:04

What's basic grooming? I would say keeping clean is and anything else is extra and entirely optional.

Some people think treatments and removing dead skin and painting your nails and all kinds of extras are required. I disagree.

Removing dead skin is basic fundamental hygiene. Nail varnish is cosmetic though, like lots of cosmetics, can also be useful for camouflaging bits of you that aren't especially nice to look at.

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 10:15

Dead skin comes off when you wash and towel dry . basic hygiene nothing fancy.

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 10:15

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:08

Flossing teeth is absolutely essential. The ignorance on this thread is catastrophic.

Disagreement about the difference between cleanliness and aesthetics is not ignorance.

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:21

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:10

Removing dead skin is basic fundamental hygiene. Nail varnish is cosmetic though, like lots of cosmetics, can also be useful for camouflaging bits of you that aren't especially nice to look at.

Are you a dentist and podiatrist?

Melarus · 30/06/2026 10:25

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:08

Flossing teeth is absolutely essential. The ignorance on this thread is catastrophic.

Seeing as you regularly pay 18 euros for a special soap that you use only on your feet, Ceramiq, I'd venture to say you are not a reliable authority on what constitutes essential hygiene

MrsShawnHatosy · 30/06/2026 10:33

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 09:53

Some of us actually have good posture and walk with our heads held high.

Lowering my eye level to the ground to observe the appearance of feet is not something I do.

I look at faces. I don't look at feet.

Have you never tripped over an unexpectedly deep step or unexpectedly raised part of the pavement? Are all surfaces totally flat where you live? I live on a tree lined street, old, rooty trees and the pavements are very uneven.

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:35

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 10:15

Dead skin comes off when you wash and towel dry . basic hygiene nothing fancy.

No it doesn't, as the whole basis of this thread has amply demonstrated.