Aibu - dont want to clean up diarrhea.

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I am absolutely LIVID my disgusting partner has caught our children's stomach bug and so far this morning i have found:

Diarrhea around the toilet bowl and underside of toilet seat.

Shitty pants on the floor of the bathroom (same distance from toilet as the bin).

Shit stains in the bed.

He has gone to work. Yes, I know.

My aibu is that unless bedbound you are NEVER too ill to clean up your own shit. I have never, ever been too ill.

To avoid a dripfeed YES he has done this before. Vomited all over toilet seat and floor and said was too ill to clean it up. Again I was furious. If you got out of bed to vomit you can quickly spray and wipe it.

So he was too ill to clean his own shit up
But not THAT ill as he can still go to work.....what a dirty disgusting pig

It’s not all men, but it is always men.

Christ, there are some disgusting males featuring in today’s posts.

This one is entirely revolting!! What a pig!! Please leave the shit where it is. Is there another bathroom/bed you can use, OP?

Leave the dirty bastard

Be passive aggressive and ring his mother or sister to ask them to clean up after DH as you’re busy will I’ll kids - that should shame him. I’d be tempted to ring his work and tell them he’s contagious and to send him home. I would kick him out over this entitlement and lack of respect

Next week, he will be wondering why you don’t want to have sex him.

There is nothing as unattractive as a man that acts like a child.

Under the toilet seat is the only thing I could forgive. Shit stains in the bed and on underwear on the floor absolutely not.

If it weren’t for the kids I would’ve left it for him to deal with. I wouldn’t care if it’s festering all day, I’m not his mum to clear up his poo. If that were me I would be mortified.

I have microscopic colitis and, at it worst, can lead to mishaps. Say no more! However, never, ever, have I left anything for any one else to see much less clear up. I would be absolutely mortified if anyone else knew. How can anyone have so little pride or dignity that they leave a mess for someone else to clean up.

LTB

this Is disgustinging

That is disgusting. I caught my ds stomach bug a couple of weeks ago. It left me feeling very poorly and exhausted but I made sure the toilet was well cleaned and infection control upheld, mainly as I didnt want to pass it on to the rest of the family. It isn't difficult for a grown adult and the fact he has gone to work to spread it round there is just ridiculous!

Why are you still living with this disgusting pig?

Sounds like he's having enough difficulty managing the one he already has.

Wow. How appalling of him. Having just come from the other thread about people being revolted by the sight of unflushed pee - this is what the disgust reaction is really for. Situations that can actually make you ill, aside from the complete disrespect of it all.

Disgusting, even when I had norovirus I left a pack of bleach wipes and a bottle of bleach next to the toilet and used them every single time I went to the loo.

I don’t understand how you can even look at him.

Why has this moron gone to work??

To shit over their toilet seat, and spread it a bit more?? Awful person. If he won’t pick up shitty pants from the floor he isn’t the sort of person to wash his hands. Imagine one of his colleagues catching it and taking it home to an elderly person or a mother and a new born.

What a revolting creature! My grandchild had Niro virus a few weeks ago whilst staying here. She tried to clear her own vomit up bless her heart and she is 6 !

I would leave it all for him to clean up.

Tell him to fuck off. Literally. Get out of your house and get out of your life. NOW.

I'm sorry, OP! That is gross!! Again, I have read this aloud to DH and he laughed and called him a dirty $%^! Said he should have at least warned you and offered to clean it later. Goodness. What a horrible start to your day!

I could not have sex with someone so disgusting

I cannot believe what I’ve just read. He is revolting.

Honestly MN is a parallel universe as to the sheer filth and scum they will tolerate.

Poor children being around him.
Really terrible.

Jesus wept! When i was in labour with my 3rd baby, bleeding heavily because there were complications and had diahorrea i spent a few minutes cleaning up the hospital toilet because it was my mess... they were just about to send someone in to look for me because they were worried I had collapsed in there. If I can manage that he can manage to sort his own mess out. Disgusting.

how can you bring yourself to be intimate with someone like that?

In a nice hotel, perhaps?

He can pay for it, as he's the one that shat in yours, OP.