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AIBU to think something significant needs to be done by the government to stop these horrific events occurring?

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Northermcharn · Yesterday 19:11

'Afghan men 'fled UK in lorry after raping girl'

Mobile phone footage recovered from Safi's phone showed the men in the lorry laughing and gesticulating, which Hetherington said suggested they thought they "got away with it".

When they were found by French police in Calais on 3 December, they were returned to the UK.
Hetherington said the trio had no travel documents or identification and had given false names to French authorities.
After their real names were checked on police systems, they were arrested on suspicion of rape.
Sali, of St Werburghs, denies one count of human trafficking and two charges of rape.
Habibkheil, of Lockleaze, denies one count of human trafficking and one charge of rape.
Ahmadzai, of Redcliffe, denies one charge of rape and one charge of assault by penetration.
The 16-year-old also denied one charge of rape.
The trial continues.'

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx7rxj57zyo

The exterior entrance of Bristol Crown Court. It is a large sand coloured building with white columns outside the front, and large arched wooden double doors on the left.

Afghan men accused of fleeing UK after raping girl in Bristol

A jury is told three defendants left the country in a "deeply unusual" way after the alleged rape.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx7rxj57zyo

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AvantCharde · Today 01:17

WilfredsPies · Today 01:02

Well, yes, I’d suggest they were, seeing as the illegal crossings have increased dramatically since they had no obligation to You’re just circling back to your earlier point though, which I already addressed above. The numbers didn’t increase because of anything the French Police were or weren’t doing. The number of arrivals by lorry started decreasing because UK Border Force were doing a bloody good job with all of the money the government spent on security checks. The small boats started several years before Brexit and the traffickers realised how successful sending over small boats would be. And so the numbers began increasing.

And you’re quite right about the coastline. But surely you understand that Kent police wouldn’t have enough officers to patrol every Kent beach, 24 hours a day, in numbers large enough to destroy boats, arrest violent and armed traffickers, and 70 men determined to cross the channel, plus do their normal police work. Why would you think the French police would be able to do the equivalent in France?

Ok cool, it’s all just a massive coincidence that the illegal crossings have increased since Brexit, and with it the social problems we have now. Nigel is top bloke who definitely wouldn’t lie - knows oodles about running a country and sorting the various messes we’re in, and Reform is definitely the way forward. You can believe that version, and I’ll be very grateful that I have an EU passport and I’m not stuck here.

WilfredsPies · Today 01:40

AvantCharde · Today 01:17

Ok cool, it’s all just a massive coincidence that the illegal crossings have increased since Brexit, and with it the social problems we have now. Nigel is top bloke who definitely wouldn’t lie - knows oodles about running a country and sorting the various messes we’re in, and Reform is definitely the way forward. You can believe that version, and I’ll be very grateful that I have an EU passport and I’m not stuck here.

I don’t know whether you’ve just misunderstood or you’re being intentionally irritating. Either way, I’m going to bed after this, so believe what you like.

It’s not just all a massive coincidence. It’s an evolution. These traffickers consider themselves to be operating a business model. Like all business models, if one avenue of creating money becomes too high risk and high effort for low reward, they look to diversify into an easier way to make money. That’s exactly what they’ve done here. As I’ve already explained to you on several posts, the boats started increasing several years before Brexit and because they’ve been so successful, surprise surprise, they’ve increased the scale and others have joined them, hence the higher numbers. You would be beyond naive if you thought that traffickers, or any of the people using their services gave a shit about the Dublin Agreement. It wasn’t effective when we had it.

I think Nigel Farage is a self serving, greedy little toad who is only out to make as much money for himself as he possibly can, at the expense of the British public. Not only is he a banker, he’s a member of the raspberry trouser brigade. He doesn’t give a shit about the working classes and the thought of Reform getting in bloody terrifies me. I think they will damage the UK in ways that the Tories and Labour couldn’t even conceive. I’d destroy my ballot paper before voting for them. So you can take your ill informed and incorrect assumptions about my political allegiances and shove them in the same over privileged bubble you store your EU passport in.

echt · Today 02:23

Dnfs · Yesterday 23:42

He was never a part of HM Government

That's why I wrote sidelines. Hmm

LBFseBrom · Today 02:25

oldmothers · Yesterday 22:28

I’d like to see a fresh vote on the EU. I have absolutely no issue whatsoever with Eastern European/Ukranians settling here, they behave themselves and are respectful of our values.
id like to see 0 immigrants from Islamic countries whatsoever

We've had people from Islamic countries living and working alongside us for decades, their children and grandchildren now who are British, with no problem. There are bound to be some bad apples as there are in every ethnicity, they are the ones publicised.

Northermcharn · Today 07:26

RetiredFromExplaining · Yesterday 22:24

Most rapes in the UK are perpetrated by white British men.

There are 72,000 reported rapes in the UK every year (ONS 2025), so it’s not just asylum seekers or people from different cultures.

Of course this is shocking and horrifying, but these men were caught.

We must do more to prevent violence against women and girls full stop. Saying it’s just foreigners doesn’t help end that and is inciting hatred,

No one is saying 'it's just foreigners'. And no one is saying VAWG isn't an issue across the population. However you should look at the German data here. You'd probably say most rapes in Germany are committed by white German men, wouldn't you? Totally ignoring the per capita proportions.

In data from Germany (which as you know is similar to the UK), although they make up only 2.5 per cent of the population, asylum-seekers made up 13.1 per cent of all sexual-assault suspects in 2021.

Germany and the UK - not so different.

Germany is acknowledging the unspeakable - A pattern of criminality is shattering taboos
Andrew Hammel 2024

The Germany-wide statistics on sexual violence were sobering. An internal study by the German federal law enforcement agency, leaked to a Zurich newspaper, revealed that asylum-seekers have committed some 7,000 sexual assaults (ranging from groping to gang-rape ) between 2015 and 2023.

Although they make up only 2.5 per cent of the population, asylum-seekers made up 13.1 per cent of all sexual-assault suspects in 2021.

In 2023, there were 761 gang-rapes registered in Germany — almost two per day; 47.5 per cent of the suspects were foreigners. The frequency of such crimes — which were rare in Germany as late as the 1990s — has hovered between 600 and 800 per year for the past 7 years. The statistics go on for page after mind-numbing (or mind-boggling) page.

Nancy Faeser, Germany’s Interior Minister from the centre-left Social Democratic Party (SPD) also said something which would have been branded far-right provocation just a few years ago: “We have to talk about the rise in crime by foreigners”.

German politicos and journalists have long suppressed discussions of why certain groups of foreigners are overrepresented in crime statistics; Section 12 of the official German press code even forbids identifying the ethnic ancestry of criminals to combat “discrimination”.

Any references to “crime by foreigners” as a distinct problem were met with charges of xenophobia and racism. What has moved the Overton Window is a stream of grim crime statistics published by government agencies or, just as frequently, leaked to journalists.

https://archive.ph/QqLJo#selection-867.0-873.344 Accessible link

https://thecritic.co.uk/germany-is-acknowledging-the-unspeakable/

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Northermcharn · Today 07:30

LBFseBrom · Today 02:25

We've had people from Islamic countries living and working alongside us for decades, their children and grandchildren now who are British, with no problem. There are bound to be some bad apples as there are in every ethnicity, they are the ones publicised.

I agree and the same. However there's no getting away from the fact that 'bad apples' - or muslim extremists, are numerous. There are approximately 2 billion Muslims in the world, making Islam the second-largest religion and accounting for about 26% of the global population.

Do the maths - that's a lots of 'bad apples', even though it's only 'some'.

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EasternStandard · Today 07:32

LBFseBrom · Today 02:25

We've had people from Islamic countries living and working alongside us for decades, their children and grandchildren now who are British, with no problem. There are bound to be some bad apples as there are in every ethnicity, they are the ones publicised.

Are you including the Belfast perpetrator as a ‘bad apple’?

MandingoAteMyBaby · Today 07:33

Dollymylove · Yesterday 23:29

They need to round up every single one of the fuckers and kick them out straight back where they came from.Poland has the right idea. They refuse to take any of them

Do you know why Poland has that policy ?

Corianda · Today 07:34

Australia used planes to check their coast. We could use planes, helicopters or drones

Dollymylove · Today 07:39

Dnfs · Yesterday 23:42

I think about this. In the UK if attacked or robbed or burgled you cower in fear and hope they don't hurt you and let yourself get robbed. In America they think "no you can't" and neutralise the threat. The American mentality is today defend yourself and your property. People shoot home invaders dead.

And also if its a known/wanted criminal that you despatch, you might be in for a reward!! What's not to like 🤣

Bringing · Today 07:53

OonaStubbs · Yesterday 21:23

Are you prepared to accept beheadings in order to get your "high quality Eastern European" joiner? There are plenty of high quality British joiners btw. You just have to pay them their going rate.

What Eastern Europeans go around beheading people FFS?

EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 07:57

The people in charge don’t care. They care about re homing the people first and foremost. Whatever happens on the ground is a mental health issue. It’s a fucking joke.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · Today 08:01

Well I’ve woken up to news reports of protests leading to burning buses in Belfast and apparently the guy that had his neck sliced was a vulnerable Scottish guy who lived in neighbouring social housing to the alleged knife wielder. Another day of everything going well with multiculturalism in the UK 👍

MandingoAteMyBaby · Today 08:09

Corianda · Today 07:34

Australia used planes to check their coast. We could use planes, helicopters or drones

We do use drones, helicopters and aircraft.

EasternStandard · Today 08:11

MandingoAteMyBaby · Today 08:09

We do use drones, helicopters and aircraft.

Australia use different laws and those things.

MrsHeathcliff26 · Today 08:14

Australia uses off shore detention which is quite the deterrent. Unfortunately it’s our home grown crooks that make up most of the shootings and crime here but there’s a large contingent that means we have specific middle eastern crime task forces in our police force.

EasternStandard · Today 08:20

The perpetrator entered via Ireland. Australia doesn’t let people in unless they are legally able to. If you just rock up at the coastline you don’t get in.

Corianda · Today 08:29

MandingoAteMyBaby · Today 08:09

We do use drones, helicopters and aircraft.

And then do what - tell the coastguards to get out there quick and rescue them !!?

Corianda · Today 08:32

It was bringing in low paid east Europeans that shot our own builders/joiners in the foot. Hence few tradesman now - thanks Blair for trying to give ‘racist’ Brits a kicking -we got Brexit because of that

Oh and Blair seems to be a Trump fan now -you couldn’t make it up

RetiredFromExplaining · Today 08:42

Northermcharn · Today 07:26

No one is saying 'it's just foreigners'. And no one is saying VAWG isn't an issue across the population. However you should look at the German data here. You'd probably say most rapes in Germany are committed by white German men, wouldn't you? Totally ignoring the per capita proportions.

In data from Germany (which as you know is similar to the UK), although they make up only 2.5 per cent of the population, asylum-seekers made up 13.1 per cent of all sexual-assault suspects in 2021.

Germany and the UK - not so different.

Germany is acknowledging the unspeakable - A pattern of criminality is shattering taboos
Andrew Hammel 2024

The Germany-wide statistics on sexual violence were sobering. An internal study by the German federal law enforcement agency, leaked to a Zurich newspaper, revealed that asylum-seekers have committed some 7,000 sexual assaults (ranging from groping to gang-rape ) between 2015 and 2023.

Although they make up only 2.5 per cent of the population, asylum-seekers made up 13.1 per cent of all sexual-assault suspects in 2021.

In 2023, there were 761 gang-rapes registered in Germany — almost two per day; 47.5 per cent of the suspects were foreigners. The frequency of such crimes — which were rare in Germany as late as the 1990s — has hovered between 600 and 800 per year for the past 7 years. The statistics go on for page after mind-numbing (or mind-boggling) page.

Nancy Faeser, Germany’s Interior Minister from the centre-left Social Democratic Party (SPD) also said something which would have been branded far-right provocation just a few years ago: “We have to talk about the rise in crime by foreigners”.

German politicos and journalists have long suppressed discussions of why certain groups of foreigners are overrepresented in crime statistics; Section 12 of the official German press code even forbids identifying the ethnic ancestry of criminals to combat “discrimination”.

Any references to “crime by foreigners” as a distinct problem were met with charges of xenophobia and racism. What has moved the Overton Window is a stream of grim crime statistics published by government agencies or, just as frequently, leaked to journalists.

https://archive.ph/QqLJo#selection-867.0-873.344 Accessible link

https://thecritic.co.uk/germany-is-acknowledging-the-unspeakable/

We are not Germany.

We are known for being accepting and tolerant of hundreds of migrant communities. It is what makes Britain such an amazing place to live. Our capital is run by a Muslim mayor, who is as British as they come. And figures show that the more diverse a community is, the less likely they are to vote for far right parties.

It is fear and not experience that leads people to call for wholesale bans on immigration. And the high number of people on this thread wanting to ban Muslims and Black people from coming here tells me you haven’t spent time in environments where you encounter immigrants as people. You see them as a homogeneous mass of “invaders” who somehow threaten our way of life.

Our hospitals and care homes and hospitality industries are populated by migrants, so I hope you don’t get ill or need care or enjoy a takeaway from India or China.

Or maybe I do hope you get ill and need care because you might then encounter Mohammed and Aysha and Latisha and see that they are as human as you and I and have the same dreams, cares and worries that we do.

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