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Nicola Sturgeon STILL didn't know her husband stole £400,000

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Imdunfer · 01/06/2026 07:32

Follow on from previous thread.

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murasaki · 01/06/2026 18:58

Er... it's in your username.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 18:59

TirednessOnToast · 01/06/2026 18:33

Fine & handy it went to Court just after, eh?

Yes. The only people on the planet that didn’t know about it were Scottish voters.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:01

murasaki · 01/06/2026 18:58

Er... it's in your username.

Jesus. It’s a Joe Jackson song that was my earworm when I joined. Are you always this paranoid?

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:05

WearyAuldWumman · 01/06/2026 18:37

This has nothing to do with your despicable comment which suggests that women in prison deserve to be preyed upon.

I never said that and I have just lost every single bit of respect I had for you for implying I did.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:07

murasaki · 01/06/2026 18:52

It really wasn't intentional and I am sorry.

Thank you x

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 19:10

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:05

I never said that and I have just lost every single bit of respect I had for you for implying I did.

Wow, are you actually getting annoyed because you think someone implied something you didn't say?
How ironic, given that a few pages ago you were trying to put words into my mouth which I ALSO didn't say.
Weird how that works, isn't it?
Or are YOU allowed to do it but nobody else is?

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:10

murasaki · 01/06/2026 18:54

I don't think anyone is, they are just an extra level of risk that shouldn't be there. There is always a risk of violence, but no need to make it worse.

I’m honestly just saying that there are worse things in prison than a couple of trans women who will be in isolation anyway.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:15

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 19:10

Wow, are you actually getting annoyed because you think someone implied something you didn't say?
How ironic, given that a few pages ago you were trying to put words into my mouth which I ALSO didn't say.
Weird how that works, isn't it?
Or are YOU allowed to do it but nobody else is?

You did say it though.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 01/06/2026 19:16

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Zebrah · 01/06/2026 19:17

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:10

I’m honestly just saying that there are worse things in prison than a couple of trans women who will be in isolation anyway.

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There aren’t though are they? It’s just so degrading, having men in woman-face let into your single sex space as a punishment on top of your actual sentence. Your rights totally disregarded in an illegal manner.

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 19:18

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I’m typical Scottish nationalist. Chippy grievance mongerer. Probably the only form of conversation she knows.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:19

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 19:17

There aren’t though are they? It’s just so degrading, having men in woman-face let into your single sex space as a punishment on top of your actual sentence. Your rights totally disregarded in an illegal manner.

What is your experience of being in a women’s prison? It’s ok if you don’t want to say.

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 19:20

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:15

You did say it though.

NO. I did not.
You said I wanted NS to be raped.
I did not say that.

YOU said.....

"Do you think you need some therapy to figure out why you would celebrate a woman being raped?
Because I think you do.
Unfortunately, this is an anonymous forum.
But I think posting that hoping a woman is raped because it's "poetic justice" and "delicious" warrants an intervention from professional health services!

WHERE did I say I "hoped" she was raped? Or that I would "celebrate" her rape?

ALL your words and your imaginings.
Yet you have the gall to get upset when someone tries to put words unto your mouth.

What I said was that she should be made to share a cell with a convicted rapist, as she was happy for other woman to do.

You really need to brush up on your comprehension skills.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:21

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 14:12

It's just a pity she won't end up in jail with a lovely brick shitehouse of a rapist as a cellmate. Perfectly willing to allow this for other women though.

That would have been poetic justice on a delicious scale.

Here.

GooseCreekandtheRiver · 01/06/2026 19:22

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:21

Here.

It’s been explained to you several times what @HootyMcBoobys was saying. Other people understood it just fine.

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 19:22

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:21

Here.

Yes, and WHERE did I say, AGAIN, for the hard of thinking, that I "hoped" she would be raped?

Are you quite unwell?

ArabellaScott · 01/06/2026 19:31

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4glne43101o

'A transgender prisoner serving a sentence for murder has been charged with the sexual assault of a fellow inmate at a women's prison.
Alexandra Stewart, previously known as Alan Baker, allegedly attacked the woman at HMP Greenock.
Stewart - a biological male who identifies as a woman – was jailed for the murder of John Weir in 2013 and has been held in a women's unit in the prison since 2016.'

A general view of the entrace to HMP Greenock. A small, dark stone wall sits in front of the main building with the name of the prison on a white panel.

Trans prisoner charged with sexual assault in women's jail

Alexandra Stewart, previously known as Alan Baker, was charged over an alleged attack at HMP Greenock.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4glne43101o

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:31

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 19:22

Yes, and WHERE did I say, AGAIN, for the hard of thinking, that I "hoped" she would be raped?

Are you quite unwell?

I‘m fine thank you and have reported your post.

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 19:31

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:19

What is your experience of being in a women’s prison? It’s ok if you don’t want to say.

I don’t need to experience it - why would I? That would only give you my experience and the experience of those around me, statistically totally immaterial. Thankfully we have the law we can fall back on, which clearly states women’s spaces should be separated by biological sex. Thank goodness for For Women Scotland for ramming this point home for the hard of thinking in government.

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 19:31

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:31

I‘m fine thank you and have reported your post.

Wonder of wonders.

HootyMcBoobys · 01/06/2026 19:32

I was merely enquiring after your health, after your kind post asking how my time in prison was.

Why is this only working one way with you?

How odd.

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:33

Zebrah · 01/06/2026 19:31

I don’t need to experience it - why would I? That would only give you my experience and the experience of those around me, statistically totally immaterial. Thankfully we have the law we can fall back on, which clearly states women’s spaces should be separated by biological sex. Thank goodness for For Women Scotland for ramming this point home for the hard of thinking in government.

Because you therefore don’t have the right to speak for women in prison. They are ALL vulnerable.

Imdunfer · 01/06/2026 19:34

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 14:01

Has she did something personal to you?

What a very strange question. Don't you want politicians held to account for what they have done?

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Zebrah · 01/06/2026 19:35

Differentforgirls · 01/06/2026 19:33

Because you therefore don’t have the right to speak for women in prison. They are ALL vulnerable.

They are all vunerable and the majority of women in prison hace been sexually assaulted. Why on earth would you make them more vunerable by chucking men in with them? Why do they deserve that?