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To think people that don’t round up ages are odd

130 replies

Sweetypie88 · 26/05/2026 22:52

Friend is 30 late July and is still saying he’s 29 when I was that close to my 30th I was just saying I was 30

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BertieBotts · 26/05/2026 23:36

In Germany it's bad luck to do this. It's thought of as tempting fate. It's also bad luck to wish someone happy birthday before their actual birthday, they say that if you do this the person might die before their birthday so it's incorrect to wish them a happy birthday in advance (or "round up" as you call it...)

German customs can be a little bit dark.

Toober · 26/05/2026 23:38

I've always found rounding up odd! If I'm turning 30 on a certain date, I'm 29 until that date.

Frazzledmummy123 · 26/05/2026 23:39

Total click bait post. OP has vanished.

Wordsmithery · 27/05/2026 00:38

You're odder.

Anarchy99 · 27/05/2026 00:40

I think it’s odd to round up once you are an adult as it’s the sort of thing that children do to make them sound older.

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 27/05/2026 00:40

I’m sure I’ve read this before, so either OP is reposting something or there’s more than one of these odd people around.

queenmeadhbh · 27/05/2026 00:41

Does anyone remember the poster who rounded up her kids ages? Like, in front of them? “She’s 8” about a 7 year old?

steff13 · 27/05/2026 00:42

I have to ask people their age as part of my work. It is one of my biggest pet peeves when I ask, "what is your age, please?" And they respond, "I'll be 30 in July." If I had wanted to know your age in July, I would have asked, "what will your age be in July?"

Anarchy99 · 27/05/2026 00:45

steff13 · 27/05/2026 00:42

I have to ask people their age as part of my work. It is one of my biggest pet peeves when I ask, "what is your age, please?" And they respond, "I'll be 30 in July." If I had wanted to know your age in July, I would have asked, "what will your age be in July?"

Exactly - being able to say how old you are shouldn’t be that complicated 🤣

Seeingadistance · 27/05/2026 00:48

Harhar · 26/05/2026 23:08

Yeah, they’re really odd. I round up my door number too. I live at number 4 but I always say 5.

😁

Seeingadistance · 27/05/2026 00:50

queenmeadhbh · 27/05/2026 00:41

Does anyone remember the poster who rounded up her kids ages? Like, in front of them? “She’s 8” about a 7 year old?

Yes! I was thinking I had seen a thread about rounding up ages before.

outerspacepotato · 27/05/2026 00:51

They're saying their age. Why would you round up or down? If you're 29, you're 39, not 28 or 30.

PollyBell · 27/05/2026 00:54

When I get in a lift and want to go to level 6 I just press 10 because of rounding

YourWinter · 27/05/2026 00:56

Don’t be daft.

This year I’ll be 70, DD will be 40, DGS will be 10. Until our birthdays we are 69, 39 and 9. You might like to lie about your age but I’m pretty sure most people tell the truth.

XenoBitch · 27/05/2026 00:58

queenmeadhbh · 27/05/2026 00:41

Does anyone remember the poster who rounded up her kids ages? Like, in front of them? “She’s 8” about a 7 year old?

I remember a thread on the Covid board where OP said her 16 year old was "pretty much 17" for the purposes of getting the vaccine.
I mean, try that if they want to get into a night club.

AutumnClouds · 27/05/2026 01:06

Hmm. Is this another thread that elicits lots of personal information from people (their and their families exact ages), and to which the OP never returns?

Itiswhysofew · 27/05/2026 01:09

That doesn't make sense.

pinck · 27/05/2026 01:11

Sweetypie88 · 26/05/2026 22:52

Friend is 30 late July and is still saying he’s 29 when I was that close to my 30th I was just saying I was 30

My husband turns 40 in 21 days and there is literally zero chance he’s going to start telling people he’s 40 before he actually is, because why the hell would he 😭 Nor am I going to start claiming I’m 37 a month early when I am objectively, measurably, legally 36 until June 26. WTF is wrong with you, literally nobody does this?!?

Confuserr · 27/05/2026 01:13

StrictlyCoffee · 26/05/2026 23:22

Don’t be daft OP.

my birthday is tomorrow but I’d still not round up today!

Happy birthday!

Confuserr · 27/05/2026 01:16

PomplaMouse · 26/05/2026 23:01

Wow, you got quite a few bites, surprisngly.

I'll round up to 6/10.

Obviously inspired by the classic Arsenal twitter feud (perhaps in honour of them winning the PL)

To think people that don’t round up ages are odd
SpiritAdder · 27/05/2026 03:37

Once you get past 50, you will be rounding down 😅

fluffydoglove · 27/05/2026 03:37

I hate people who round up age’s your the odd one op
My age is my age until my birthday then it changes and not before
I know someone whose birthday is in September and once we get to Christmas she’ll add a year on it totally confuses me why anyone would do that plus I always think she’s another year older than she actually is ..it’s crazy

steff13 · 27/05/2026 03:40

SpiritAdder · 27/05/2026 03:37

Once you get past 50, you will be rounding down 😅

I speak with a lot of elderly people for my job, and often they can't remember their age. But they can usually remember their birthday. So I can do the math if they can tell me when their birthday is. 😁

NoGarlic · 27/05/2026 03:45

This is like Chinese / Arab / Jewish ages (I can't be bothered to check) isn't it? They start counting from one, so the date 12 months after they were born is their 2nd birthday.

busyd4y · 27/05/2026 03:50

steff13 · 27/05/2026 03:40

I speak with a lot of elderly people for my job, and often they can't remember their age. But they can usually remember their birthday. So I can do the math if they can tell me when their birthday is. 😁

So you mean date of birth? How would knowing their birthday help with working out their age?

I can't sleep because of the heat so pretty tired but I can't work that one out

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