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To think that Tom Hardy is a misogynist?

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 15:39

He's been fired from Mobland for being hard to work with

Apparently he's been like this on other sets and seems to enjoy intimidating women, with Helen Mirren and Charlize Theron being named

I reckon he gives misogynist vibes and no longer find him sexy 😒😒

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/tom-hardy-enraged-co-star-37196479.amp

Tom Hardy 'enraged' co-star Helen Mirren on set leading to MobLand axing

New details about why Tom Hardy was reportedly sacked from Guy Ritchie's gangster series MobLand have emerged

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/tom-hardy-enraged-co-star-37196479.amp

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:47

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/05/2026 17:47

If it helps narrow it down then Timothee Chalamet gives me the ick, so I definitely wouldn't be fighting you for him 💀.

😄😄😫 the ballet hater

He is a walking ick - even Kylie jenner cant make him cool

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Charlize43 · 26/05/2026 18:50

inickedthisname · 26/05/2026 16:54

I’ve always thought he’s secretly (or subconsciously) gay…

Didn't he once say he'd been a rent boy?

Although so many say they were when they are on the up, as it makes them appear 'edgy' and 'gender fluid' before they marry and have kids and then go on to leave their wives for someone their daughter's age.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:50

Did you ever watch Call me by your name, @AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta - that peach eating scene scarred me for life

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Bigsteppingatones · 26/05/2026 18:55

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:46

The coverage of the new one just disappeared 😫 which is how you know it wasn't good

Same as Babygirl with Nicole Kidman

I sat watching it, twas dull and weird and not remotely sexy

Did you mean "Babygirl" or "Wuthering Heights" was dull & weird? The premise of "Babygirl" made me want to see it...

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 19:00

Bigsteppingatones · 26/05/2026 18:55

Did you mean "Babygirl" or "Wuthering Heights" was dull & weird? The premise of "Babygirl" made me want to see it...

Babygirl was dull and weird sorry

That said, i only got about halfway through

The premise was very strong and then noone talked about it, and I saw why

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mummybearSW19 · 26/05/2026 19:03

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 26/05/2026 18:40

I’ve met him. Perfectly lovely man from what I have seen. Polite, interesting, thoughtful. Sorry guys.

I have met him too. I thought he was either Shy or rude…. Lovely missus tho.

Blueblell · 26/05/2026 19:03

It sounds like he has pissed Dame Helen off and she probably has more friends. He sounds like a bit of a twat.

MauriceTheMussel · 26/05/2026 19:04

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 19:00

Babygirl was dull and weird sorry

That said, i only got about halfway through

The premise was very strong and then noone talked about it, and I saw why

Agree - the trailer was better than the film

VeganSteakAndFries · 26/05/2026 19:34

MrsShawnHatosy · 26/05/2026 16:24

What, even Keanu Reeves?

oi! Leave keanu out of it!!!

SmugglersHaunt · 26/05/2026 19:42

I’ve long suspected he’s a twat. He’s another ex public schoolboy masquerading as an East End hard nut like that other fool Guy Ritchie (son of a Lord), of which Julie Burchill famously said: ‘the only way he got that scar on his cheek was if he fell off his pony on to his silver spoon’

JLou08 · 26/05/2026 19:45

Outwiththenorm · 26/05/2026 16:20

Is he a method type actor? So if he’s an arse on a show he thinks he can / should be an arse in real life when not filming?

I've not watched the show, but the article said the character is charming, unlike how Tom acts behind the scenes. So he's not doing a good job of the method acting if all in the article is correct.

lornad00m · 26/05/2026 19:54

Him being misogynistic would not surprise me at all. He's got a chip on his shoulder about being a posh boy. So is constantly trying to prove he's a hard man. Kinda' like Guy Ritchie.

Never liked him. Not that great an actor. And not much to look at.

likelysuspect · 26/05/2026 19:57

He's got a funny voice as well.

TYforty · 26/05/2026 19:58

I have met him 4 times, once in a professional capacity, once at a signing and twice in a personal/social setting.

In every situation he was an utter gentleman. Engaging, funny and seemed to be deeply interested in everyone he talked to.

And I'm an old feminist battleaxe, so I have a good radar for BS.

TYforty · 26/05/2026 20:00

He also smells devine 😅

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 20:00

TYforty · 26/05/2026 19:58

I have met him 4 times, once in a professional capacity, once at a signing and twice in a personal/social setting.

In every situation he was an utter gentleman. Engaging, funny and seemed to be deeply interested in everyone he talked to.

And I'm an old feminist battleaxe, so I have a good radar for BS.

And I'm an old feminist battleaxe

Yes!

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24caratgoldlabubu · 26/05/2026 20:41

Rumour has it that he is pro-Palestine and Helen Mirren is openly pro-Isr*el. He was late to set a couple of times so she asked for him to be fired.

What I've heard, anyway.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 20:43

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 20:00

And I'm an old feminist battleaxe

Yes!

@TYforty I meant to say that thats a good thing!! Wasn't being insulting, I promise xx

I love bashing men and love feminist women ❤️

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Sartre · 26/05/2026 20:45

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 16:18

See he gives me gross short man syndrome vibes

Hes no john hamm

Short man syndrome is an awful term. I’ve met plenty of lovely short men and utterly awful tall ones. Height has zero bearing on someone’s personality and I have no clue why women think taller men are hotter.

I don’t know anything about Tom Hardy really so can’t comment. If this is only really being spoken about in the DM, I’m at pains to listen to a word. Also intrigued by rumours circulating about him being homosexual when he’s in a 2 decade long relationship with the mother of his children but like whatever.

batshitaboutcatshit · 26/05/2026 21:49

He’s autistic and neurotypical people often don’t like the autists.

He seems a nice guy to me - never heard anything misogynistic from him. Only really hear about nice things he’s done.

Also, making digs about his appearance is not on.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/05/2026 21:52

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:50

Did you ever watch Call me by your name, @AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta - that peach eating scene scarred me for life

Excuse Me What GIF by slicedbread

No. But being a glutton for freaking punishment morbidly curious I just had to look it up. And FML that ick has just gone up a whole new level!!!

FunMustard · 26/05/2026 21:56

Jon Hamm @mumofoneAloneandwell ? This Jon Hamm? https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-14639675/tortured-pledge-mark-sanders-jon-hamm-fraternity-abuse-allegations.html

If you don't want a DM article there's plenty of older ones from various sites - this was just the most recent one I could find.

Don't disagree with you overall though, although I cynically believe they're all misogynists until proven otherwise.

Read heartbreaking words of pledge who was tortured by Jon Hamm

Former Sigma Nu pledge Mark Sanders detailed the harrowing abuse he allegedly suffered at the hands of Hamm and others while at the University of Texas.

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-14639675/tortured-pledge-mark-sanders-jon-hamm-fraternity-abuse-allegations.html

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 22:14

FunMustard · 26/05/2026 21:56

Jon Hamm @mumofoneAloneandwell ? This Jon Hamm? https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-14639675/tortured-pledge-mark-sanders-jon-hamm-fraternity-abuse-allegations.html

If you don't want a DM article there's plenty of older ones from various sites - this was just the most recent one I could find.

Don't disagree with you overall though, although I cynically believe they're all misogynists until proven otherwise.

although I cynically believe they're all misogynists until proven otherwise.

This is wise

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 22:15

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/05/2026 21:52

No. But being a glutton for freaking punishment morbidly curious I just had to look it up. And FML that ick has just gone up a whole new level!!!

😄😄😫 I know omg

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bellsofnorwich · Yesterday 01:33

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:26

Was that the recent one? With margot Robbie?

No, the recent one was Jacob Elordi. Hardy did one years ago.