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To think that Tom Hardy is a misogynist?

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 15:39

He's been fired from Mobland for being hard to work with

Apparently he's been like this on other sets and seems to enjoy intimidating women, with Helen Mirren and Charlize Theron being named

I reckon he gives misogynist vibes and no longer find him sexy 😒😒

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/tom-hardy-enraged-co-star-37196479.amp

Tom Hardy 'enraged' co-star Helen Mirren on set leading to MobLand axing

New details about why Tom Hardy was reportedly sacked from Guy Ritchie's gangster series MobLand have emerged

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/tom-hardy-enraged-co-star-37196479.amp

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:17

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/05/2026 17:10

Oi, hands off Mrs!
You've already cast him aside, can't change your mind now! But you are also completely correct and I never usually go for the psycho 😮😂.

I'm honestly gonna have to find someone new! 😄

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:18

WonderfulSmith · 26/05/2026 16:34

I hate when people start thread but refuse to say what about and just claim ‘it’s everywhere’

Hes been fired from mobland!

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:20

ThatCyanCat · 26/05/2026 16:46

She's out of her incredibly talented mind.

😄😄😄 she is bless her

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:21

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 26/05/2026 16:47

Some of us do know celebrities. Some celebrities are our loved ones.

It’s not just a bit of fun. These are people. Some are abusers, some are victims.

And the ones who are awful often get away with it because of the power they have due to celebrity culture.

Which celebs do you know? 👀👀👀

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MarmiteMakesMeHappy · 26/05/2026 17:22

I’ve worked with him - albeit a few years ago - but on a feature so quite intense 12 weeks of everyone living in close quarters with nowhere to hide. He was professional, a good laugh and v down to earth. He was also gracious and respectful.

things might have taken a turn of course, but that was my experience.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:26

bellsofnorwich · 26/05/2026 16:41

He was bloody terrible as Heathcliff.

Was that the recent one? With margot Robbie?

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:27

MarmiteMakesMeHappy · 26/05/2026 17:22

I’ve worked with him - albeit a few years ago - but on a feature so quite intense 12 weeks of everyone living in close quarters with nowhere to hide. He was professional, a good laugh and v down to earth. He was also gracious and respectful.

things might have taken a turn of course, but that was my experience.

Are you a woman or a man?

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sunhat100 · 26/05/2026 17:28

meltingmoaner · 26/05/2026 16:29

Tbf, turkey teeth aren’t attractive either particularly on their own. It’s the face as a whole that tends to work or not.

There are many stages between shit teeth and Turkey teeth. With his money, he could go to a proper dentist, and have natural teeth done.

GertieLawrence · 26/05/2026 17:29

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:16

Rescue me because I have been burned 😭🙄

Just don’t say “fanny”. Even if you are actually 12.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:30

GertieLawrence · 26/05/2026 17:29

Just don’t say “fanny”. Even if you are actually 12.

no way lol GIF by The Leith Agency

Okay

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inickedthisname · 26/05/2026 17:31

TY78910 · 26/05/2026 16:59

Wasn’t there an article / interview where he said he swings both ways?

I didn’t know that! I’ve never read anything about him, but my BiL idolises him and insisted I was absolutely way off when I said this. I just looked it up and you’re right, he did say that. Well there you go then.

Hilbobilbo · 26/05/2026 17:32

I thought he was privately educated but pretends to be a rough bloke. A friend saw him and his wife out having lunch, kids etc, said that he was doing absolutely nothing, letting the wife run around and make sure the kids were ok. He always strikes me as hard work so im surprised so many people go mad over him.

Jon Hamm, although im obsessed with Mad Men, really hurt someone badly in his youth. And also is an alcoholic. Again strikes me as a Peter Pan type, long term partner then splits after like 15 years and he gets with some young one who likes to party!

MarmiteMakesMeHappy · 26/05/2026 17:33

@mumofoneAloneandwellI am a woman. There were quite a few woman on set and nobody had any issues. We all ate and drank together several nights a week (he did choose to hang with crew often) so plenty of opportunity for bad behaviour to make an appearance, but honestly, nothing.

But as I said - a few years back so things could have changed.

Smellofthegorse · 26/05/2026 17:45

I hope these stories about being disrespectful generally aren’t true or they are exaggerated. Tom Hardy plus dog or dogs I find incredibly attractive.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/05/2026 17:47

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:17

I'm honestly gonna have to find someone new! 😄

If it helps narrow it down then Timothee Chalamet gives me the ick, so I definitely wouldn't be fighting you for him 💀.

MissUnicorn · 26/05/2026 18:05

I have absolutely nothing to add, except to say @mumofoneAloneandwell, I snorted at every one of your gifs. 😂😂😂

123teenagerfood · 26/05/2026 18:08

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 16:18

See he gives me gross short man syndrome vibes

Hes no john hamm

John Hamm, the guy done for horrific hazing! He is derranged.

LaurieFairyCake · 26/05/2026 18:08

Agree to the short man vibes

I wouldn’t touch him with yours

He’s an ugger, don’t fancy him at all

notatinydancer · 26/05/2026 18:11

ImInTheCooler · 26/05/2026 16:03

i don't care enough to know what he's done or why, but I would sit on that man's face in a heartbeat.

😂

notatinydancer · 26/05/2026 18:15

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 17:26

Was that the recent one? With margot Robbie?

No 2009. With his wife playing Cathy. Shocking. I’ve actually never seen a good Wuthering Heights.

Grendel7 · 26/05/2026 18:28

LostTheButter · 26/05/2026 15:42

I don't really care. He's hot.

Sorry,who is tom hardy? We are all hot its 30 degrees out there!

LostTheButter · 26/05/2026 18:29

Grendel7 · 26/05/2026 18:28

Sorry,who is tom hardy? We are all hot its 30 degrees out there!

Some misogynist actor bloke with bad teeth, as far as I can gather, thus far.

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 26/05/2026 18:40

I’ve met him. Perfectly lovely man from what I have seen. Polite, interesting, thoughtful. Sorry guys.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:46

notatinydancer · 26/05/2026 18:15

No 2009. With his wife playing Cathy. Shocking. I’ve actually never seen a good Wuthering Heights.

Season 6 Ugh GIF by Parks and Recreation

The coverage of the new one just disappeared 😫 which is how you know it wasn't good

Same as Babygirl with Nicole Kidman

I sat watching it, twas dull and weird and not remotely sexy

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/05/2026 18:47

MissUnicorn · 26/05/2026 18:05

I have absolutely nothing to add, except to say @mumofoneAloneandwell, I snorted at every one of your gifs. 😂😂😂

Cant Stop Alycia Debnam-Carey GIF by NETFLIX

😄 thank you girl

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