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Nicola Sturgeon didn't know her husband stole £400,000

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Imdunfer · 25/05/2026 21:03

Really? She lived with this guy and didn't know? She had a camper van parked on the drive and didn't know he stole the money to buy it?

I don't buy it.

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AInightingale · 25/05/2026 22:53

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 22:48

With a woman? What?

There have been a few rumours about affairs with other women, but after her break up, she went to live with a well-known Scottish crime novelist and they seem to be very close.

ByGraptharsHammer · 25/05/2026 22:55

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 22:51

Interesting! If she IS lesbian (or maybe bi?) then that would mean back when Kezia Dugdale and Ruth Davidson were party leaders, all 3 of the major parties were led by lesbians.

Which begs the question- why have a Lavender marriage when Kezia & Ruth didn't need them? Surely SNP voters aren't more socially conservative than Tory and Labour?

No idea. This rumour has been kicking around for ages. You raise a good point. Why?

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 22:57

AInightingale · 25/05/2026 22:53

There have been a few rumours about affairs with other women, but after her break up, she went to live with a well-known Scottish crime novelist and they seem to be very close.

She's living with Val mcDermid?? The plot thickens!

Maybe mcDermid's next novel should be based on this...🤣

sweetgingercat · 25/05/2026 22:57

Thing is... years ago, in about 2015, I was visiting a Scottish friend and he told me that Ian Murray was very corrupt and there were lots of questions about big amounts of SNP money disappearing into the Murray coffers. So if I, an ordinary Gingercat from London, who only spent a couple of days purring in Scotland, had heard about it, I don't believe she hadn't. Someone would have warned her...

ChaseTheSin · 25/05/2026 22:59

OneTealShaker · 25/05/2026 21:33

A woke, self righteous leftie taking the piss. What’s new?

The further to the left a politician is, the deeper they have their nose in the trough.

See also:

Len McClusky, Unite union boss and a comrade to the working classes, who spent over £100m on a hotel project, with the union layer wiping £66m from its accounts. Workers’ subs spent well, then. Serious fraud office is investigating.

Labour first minister of Wales resigning over donations.

Starmers’s minister of anti corruption no less, done for corruption in Bangladesh. You couldn’t make this shit up.

Another Scottish one. Swinney is currently cheerleading for lord advocate who is defending claims of being a wrong ‘un.

Then there’s the blatant stealing and tax fraud by the likes of Angela Rayner. That would be big Ange who dodged stamp duty, while serving as a….wait for it….housing minister. Again, you couldn’t make this shit up.

Walter Titty was recently found to have fished council tax on his house boat also. Clearly, lying and claiming to be a boob hypnotist or that he worked for ministry of justice wasn’t exciting enough.

The further to the left these jokers are, and the more ‘progressive’ they are, the more likely the are to be corrupt.

Edited

What the fuck are you talking about? Reform have written the book on political corruption - not to mention the Tories during the pandemic lining all their friends pockets 🤬. Are they all left wing now? 🙄

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/05/2026 23:01

Given he had such political/power seeking aspirations of his own I think a lavender marriage would have been more of a benefit to him than to NS.

AInightingale · 25/05/2026 23:02

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 22:57

She's living with Val mcDermid?? The plot thickens!

Maybe mcDermid's next novel should be based on this...🤣

Yes, wasn't sure if I should name her but they seem to be quite open about it, a bit of a mutual admiration society, Val is always coming out to defend her and chuck the word 'misogyny' about. As a matter of fact, I read a VMcD novel a couple of years ago and Sturgeon featured in it, the murderer was arrested in Bute House.

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 23:02

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/05/2026 23:01

Given he had such political/power seeking aspirations of his own I think a lavender marriage would have been more of a benefit to him than to NS.

That's a good point! He could be gay himself.

StillCreatingAName · 25/05/2026 23:02

What was it about the two Fortnum & Mason advent calendars and a presumably diamond encrusted at that price high end salt & pepper set that made you not notice your husband was getting a little spendy?

Braveheart35 · 25/05/2026 23:02

AgnesMcDoo · 25/05/2026 22:12

I hate sturgeon but…

the camper van was parked at his mothers house in a different city

she was a bit busy being FM so it’s possible she actually didn’t notice

The 2k Lalique salt & pepper grinders that ‘just appeared’ on the kitchen table? Wouldn’t you notice???

ByGraptharsHammer · 25/05/2026 23:02

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/05/2026 23:01

Given he had such political/power seeking aspirations of his own I think a lavender marriage would have been more of a benefit to him than to NS.

Well it was supposed to be a mutual arrangement! The whole thing gets more bizarre the more detail comes out.

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/05/2026 23:03

sweetgingercat · 25/05/2026 22:57

Thing is... years ago, in about 2015, I was visiting a Scottish friend and he told me that Ian Murray was very corrupt and there were lots of questions about big amounts of SNP money disappearing into the Murray coffers. So if I, an ordinary Gingercat from London, who only spent a couple of days purring in Scotland, had heard about it, I don't believe she hadn't. Someone would have warned her...

Ian Murray? He’s labour is he not?

Ohcrap082024 · 25/05/2026 23:03

I will give NS the benefit of the doubt. Yes, it was an awful lot of money. But it was over 12 years. And it is possible that she never actually saw many of the purchases. The expensive pens, kitchenware etc… do we know for sure that NS actually knew of their existence?

The motorhome and the cars are harder to explain. But not if she was led to believe that the vehicles were not in his name, leased etc.

He may well have exaggerated his sources of income, investments etc.

I know it is incredulous but we have all seen on her many women post about discovering shocking secrets after a long marriage. Husbands living double lives with other families, massive gambling debts, tens of thousands of pounds hidden away. Yes, she should have asked questions but he was her husband and she trusted him.

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 23:03

AInightingale · 25/05/2026 23:02

Yes, wasn't sure if I should name her but they seem to be quite open about it, a bit of a mutual admiration society, Val is always coming out to defend her and chuck the word 'misogyny' about. As a matter of fact, I read a VMcD novel a couple of years ago and Sturgeon featured in it, the murderer was arrested in Bute House.

I wouldn't have expected that! I'll check for the reference.

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/05/2026 23:03

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 23:02

That's a good point! He could be gay himself.

There have been as many, if not more, rumours about him than NS.

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 23:06

Re Val mcDermid, she is still married to a woman named Jo. So unless they have an open relationship, maybe she is just a friend to Nicola? Certainly this doesn't rule out the lavender marriage possibility though.

RanyaJerodung · 25/05/2026 23:07

Ohcrap082024 · 25/05/2026 23:03

I will give NS the benefit of the doubt. Yes, it was an awful lot of money. But it was over 12 years. And it is possible that she never actually saw many of the purchases. The expensive pens, kitchenware etc… do we know for sure that NS actually knew of their existence?

The motorhome and the cars are harder to explain. But not if she was led to believe that the vehicles were not in his name, leased etc.

He may well have exaggerated his sources of income, investments etc.

I know it is incredulous but we have all seen on her many women post about discovering shocking secrets after a long marriage. Husbands living double lives with other families, massive gambling debts, tens of thousands of pounds hidden away. Yes, she should have asked questions but he was her husband and she trusted him.

Oh, come on. She was a senior politician with contacts and clout. She was in charge of Scotland! She isn't naive. She must have wondered how it was all being funded, knowing the importance of being squeaky clean.
No, I don't believe it for a minute.

RanyaJerodung · 25/05/2026 23:08

Braveheart35 · 25/05/2026 23:02

The 2k Lalique salt & pepper grinders that ‘just appeared’ on the kitchen table? Wouldn’t you notice???

Of course you would! "A bit busy" 😂

Sunshine1500 · 25/05/2026 23:09

She knew but she’ll get away with it

ByGraptharsHammer · 25/05/2026 23:09

Jane379 · 25/05/2026 23:06

Re Val mcDermid, she is still married to a woman named Jo. So unless they have an open relationship, maybe she is just a friend to Nicola? Certainly this doesn't rule out the lavender marriage possibility though.

I don’t think there is a suggestion that Val is anything but a pal. The lavender marriage rumour has been rattling around for years, predating the fraud.

ThePieceHall · 25/05/2026 23:11

RealFeminist · 25/05/2026 22:50

JIST BECAUSE A WUMMAN SIGNED OFF THE ACCOUNTS AND WIS RUNNIN THE PAIRTY AND WIDNAE LET EMBDY ELSE SEE THE ACCOUNTS PEOEPLE HUV TAE JUMP TAE COCNLUSUIONS

So happy to see you here.

Firetreev · 25/05/2026 23:11

There have been rumours around for the best part of a decade that Sturgeon wasn't living with her husband, but with another woman. These are rumours, and I'm not sure how much credence to give them, but it would explain her not knowing. I'm no fan of the SNP, just in case anyone thinks I'm trying to make excuses for Sturgeon.

JaneFondue · 25/05/2026 23:11

Braveheart35 · 25/05/2026 23:02

The 2k Lalique salt & pepper grinders that ‘just appeared’ on the kitchen table? Wouldn’t you notice???

Plus the £110 pencil sharpener!