Men... are u okay? What is the problem?

[LavenderSkiesxo]

I think this will be removed / deleted but i am not saying anything untrue. Or factually incorrect. But here goes...

Since having my little girl just over a year ago I have started resenting men. I dont know why as my partner isnt bad. I just see them in a whole new light.

Firstly, years ago women couldn't vote and it was the done thing that they would look after the children and home and men were the providers. But, many women (not all!) Now have careers, go to work, earn their own money. We can now vote. Aswell as have a career, many women still take on majority of the housework and childcare. Not because men always refuse but they just dont, we do things automatically. Men, just dont think.

The other day I was driving to visit family and saw a car with its hazards on in the slip road... they have broken down i thought. Nope. A man was standing behind his car pissing. It got me thinking, ive never seen a woman pissing at the side of the road. We just wouldn't, so how do men find themselves in this situation? My dog can hold its bladder until "walkies" so what's the issue?

I read that men commit like 91% of murders, most rapes are men and men mostly abuse their partners. Men are more likely to commit suicide, men dont open up and speak about their feelings.. some men transition to become "women" and fight to enter women spaces. I know women transition to men but you dont hear about them!

I just dont understand. Men.. what is the actual problem??? Apart from sperm, what is your actual purpose??

The posts on here today.. oh my man was messaging a coworker inappropriately and he cant get her moved as it'll be suspicious... WHAT!! Nah he has played his part, otherwise it would be as simple as, hey HR this person is being inappropriate and its making me uncomfortable, here are the messages 🤣🤣

Or the other one, my man spent lots of money on my credit card and refusing to pay up... WHAT🤣🤣

What the fuck, we all play our part to with enabling such shit behaviour.

Because it was outside my workplace, and the next day my colleague told me that she saw a man pissing there

@LavenderSkiesxo I completely agree.

Its not all men but it’s always a man.

@LeaderBee do you understand what the gender pay gap means? Your posts seems like you don’t.

We need an ama with men on here.

We can ask them questions like "why are you like that'

You’re angry that they couldn’t begin voting themselves and their men, and especially their children out of existence many years earlier? Is Switzerland a better country than say the UK or France right now? I think you’d agree it probably is. They’re behind in the liberal/socialist trajectory that we’ve all been sent down, in part since women began voting for the likes of new Labour etc and now the “Greens”.

Men have covered acres of internet with films of women being raped so they can watch and masturbate.

Not all men. But always men.

If you’ve never seen a woman peeing in the street, you obviously never had the dubious pleasure of clubbing as a teen in the late 90s/early 00s!!

Calling out on toxic behaviours has been done by classical authors for several centuries now - literally. Your list started with behaviours already described in Anna Karenin, many short stories by Maupassant, and (forgot who wrote) Phaedra. All done. People do not learn. Not one bit.

Myra Hindley, Rosemary West? Giving girls the impression that women are always safe let them kill girls.

Myra hindley and rose west while evil, got dragged into what they did by their male partners.

Myra said she never had any thoughts of killing until she met ian. I dont know exactly how true this is. But she said that he threatened to kill her family unless she joined him

🙄. There is a reason why Myra Hindley and Rose West gets mentioned in threads like these, they are notorious because they are RARE. I could name 20 male murderers and you wouldn’t have a clue who they were.

Edited to add - and there was a male accomplice, in both.

You know they have their own sites where they complain about women. Or they just use Facebook and don't care.

So you are doing alfresco weeing and then complain about men doing it?

Your viewed is skewed. I would suggest therapy to get to the bottom of it before you inadvertently pass your fears/views/anxieties on to your daughter. Yes, it's important that she knows how to stay safe, but you also don't want her to live in constant fear of every man. There's also a risk that if you continue with the men =bad, women = good rhetoric, your daughter will be blind to the idea of women being a threat.

Thankfully I don't know but I would hazard a guess that things have gotten worse since the increase in consumption and violence levels in Internet porn. I won't depress myself by clicking on the Incel reddit forum link.

But don't you agree that the belief woman = safe was a dangerous message? Do you think a woman offering them a lift made them feel it was safe.

Please give women some credit, a normal person, male or female, doesn't start torturing and murdering children just because they've met a nutter.

it's not true is it.

It isn’t all men but it happens that most stupid shit that happens has a man at the root of it. And I very rarely feel disrespected by a woman at work or see women disrespecting others, bur it regularly happens with men - becoming quite bored of it now.

Can we auto delete the spammy "well my son has been raised to be lovely and he would never xyz..." posts? They really clog up these threads.

All mothers think their sons are lovely, and most sons present as lovely young men to their mothers....

They might do if they were under fear of dying themselves. Apparantly ian said to myra "dont back out or i will kill you"

Poor little innocent women being dragged into torture and murder. We all need chaperoning as we obviously aren't capable of controlling ourselves if a man is involved.

Didn't RW commit her first murder when FW was in prison?

Gosh, this has become quite the two sided argument. I didn’t think many people will disagree with the gist of what op is saying I.e men do their job and are done while women do their job and then look after everyone and everything else…
Anyway, it’s an interesting thread.

No of course she was wrong.

But it was his idea. Not hers.

Yes and she went straight to the police like her brother in law did, or then again maybe she didn't.

You know she was a liar and manipulator don't you?