HolyCheeses and Mary… the spreadsheet, the bullshit bingo and the aftermath. Part deux

[HolyCheeses]

Was asked to start a thread.

started a thread.

you will need to pay me for the paint for the kids bedrooms, after all they chose it

@HolyCheeses if you are not going to tell him until next week, how are you communicating with him in the meantime? Do you think he has any inkling that you have changed your mind?

followed by asking if either of the kids want to come and be his lodger

Me too!

But I let you choose the paint colours for their bedrooms…how can you leave me?

“I don’t know how you can do this to us” “ the kids will be devastated”
Thanks for the new thread!

Spreadsheet Spreadsheet Spreadsheet

"But you were fully on board with the plans in my head that didn't bother discussing with you, '

• Sad face.

BB: But I’ve done a big shop and filled up the freezer! I bought a big bag of frozen sweetcorn for you and now it will go to waste as I don’t like it!
I did a spreadsheet of our food preferences, hours of work now pointless.

BB: sigh, the dogs will miss each other too

Checking in!

WhoTF has voted OP is unreasonable??!! Mind blown…

BB: You will never find another man as good as me. I worked hard to create this home for us and our families. You are throwing it all away and will end up old and alone. No-one else will ever want you.

He's unbelievable!

I'm going with "but I was going to ask you to marry me 😫💔"

But this was supposed to our home!

When will you break the news to him @HolyCheeses ?

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BB - I’m doing this for all of us.

Yes big time. Although most of the messages are asking for decisions regarding design etc
Im sending occasional messages

Don’t want to dump by text doesn’t sit right with me.

BB. The dogs might have to be rehomed.

Just posting my Bullshit Bingos from the other thread as a PMK.

BS Bingo

"You do realize that this means the end for us" (Yes, yes I realize you will have already told him this. He'll say it anyway)

"Your DC will be so disappointed"

"We can always negotiate" (this will be said in an effort to get you 'in the door' at a lower rate and then demand you increase your 'contribution' after you have no place else to go)

@HolyCheeses Sorry if I've missed it, but do you know when you'll be speaking to him?

We have to wait until next week to hear his responses! This is worse than waiting for the next episodes of The Testaments to land.

Enraged on your behalf op!

I admire your scruples in a face to face dumping but I’m not at all sure he deserves them!

If you don’t like this spreadsheet, I have others …