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To take up a bigger table than needed in a cafe?

453 replies

Egit · 30/03/2026 13:43

To try to use a bigger table in a cafe?

I know it’s not always possible, such as during busy times, and I would never ‘hog’ a larger table for myself.

But during quiet times… such as right now! I’m in a cafe on my own with 2 dogs and I’ve sat myself at a 4 seater table.

I actually hate 2 seater ones. They are just too small and I get claustrophobic with all the clutter of cutlery, condiments, sides of veg etc.

I like to spread out!

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BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 21:33

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YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 21:46

my local coffee shops and those I’ve visited whilst on holiday are full of people with dogs

Well that's what a lot of people are complaining about.
And then dog owners say there's loads of dog free cafes we could go to.
There aren't. We don't get a choice.

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 21:46

auserna · 31/03/2026 20:41

But you've just said you're on your own...

The roast was Sunday, the lone cafe visit Monday HTH.

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 21:53

Well complaints have worked locally so fingers crossed the tide will turn elsewhere

I work in a charity shop that has always allowed dogs in. They kept a little bag of doggy treats under the counter. Then we got a new manager a couple of years ago. After mopping up two piles of doggie poo in one day she lost it and printed a 'sorry no dogs' notice on the door. A couple of the customers were up in arms, some kept forgetting and bringing them in and had to be ejected. It took about a month for it all to settle down but it's fine now. No dogs past the door.

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 21:54

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 21:46

my local coffee shops and those I’ve visited whilst on holiday are full of people with dogs

Well that's what a lot of people are complaining about.
And then dog owners say there's loads of dog free cafes we could go to.
There aren't. We don't get a choice.

I was responding to PP saying that the tide was turning and coffee shops were stoping dogs going in.

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 21:58

Oh no really does think she’s the boss of all coffee shops! St patron saint of coffee shops!

Unpleasant? Do you realise which of you is coming over as unpleasant?

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 21:59

A silly entitled person who doesn’t like dogs in cafes FFS! Thinks they make the rules 🤣🤣

Unpleasant.

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:00

And childish.

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:02

Gloriiiiia you do seem to enjoy proving that you are not a very nice person. Dogs are so much nicer that a lot of humans

It's like a bloody kindergarten in here sometimes.

Gloriia · 31/03/2026 22:02

Halfadoy · 31/03/2026 21:14

Gloriiiiia you do seem to enjoy proving that you are not a very nice person. Dogs are so much nicer that a lot of humans.

I have a dog, she's lovely. We go on walks and have fun with lots of other responsible owners. She doesn't come to cafes. I've no idea why this means I'm 'not a very nice person'.

Gloriia · 31/03/2026 22:03

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 20:58

Oh no @Gloriia really does think she’s the boss of all coffee shops! St @Gloriia patron saint of coffee shops!

Shes’s going to single handed ensure that dogs are banned by all coffee shops!

Correct. 100% success thus far 🤗.

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:04

It’s the voices in her head…

Gloria is unpleasant. And this OP is polite and reasonable.

OK.

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 22:05

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YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:05

I was responding to PP saying that the tide was turning and coffee shops were stoping dogs going in

I know.

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 22:07

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:04

It’s the voices in her head…

Gloria is unpleasant. And this OP is polite and reasonable.

OK.

I’ll come back at anyone that name calls me the way she has!! You expect me to just take it?

And you’re obviously not aware of the lyrics to the song Gloria? Never mind, it’s lost on you!

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 22:08

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:05

I was responding to PP saying that the tide was turning and coffee shops were stoping dogs going in

I know.

It’s probably best if you quote me or @ me, it’s getting difficult keeping up with you answering me, so I can respond?

Onleemoi · 31/03/2026 22:09

I think they got the alias (Gloria) that you've been living under (Gloria)

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:09

I’ll come back at anyone that name calls me the way she has!! You expect me to just take it?

I think you should go do some ironing or something.

Besafeeatcake · 31/03/2026 22:10

Claustrophobic is an irrational fear of confined spaces. You don’t like clutter. Completely different things. YABU.

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 22:10

Onleemoi · 31/03/2026 22:09

I think they got the alias (Gloria) that you've been living under (Gloria)

But you really don’t remember ……

Gloriia · 31/03/2026 22:11

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 22:07

I’ll come back at anyone that name calls me the way she has!! You expect me to just take it?

And you’re obviously not aware of the lyrics to the song Gloria? Never mind, it’s lost on you!

I haven't 'name called' anyone, I've said dogs should not be in cafes especially massive dobermans and considerate, responsible owners would not do it. This seems to upset I think because you know I'm right.

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:11

It’s probably best if you quote me or @ me, it’s getting difficult keeping up with you answering me, so I can respond?

It's not best for me. I'm not bothered whether you respond or not.

BoogieTownTop · 31/03/2026 22:12

YeaVerily · 31/03/2026 22:11

It’s probably best if you quote me or @ me, it’s getting difficult keeping up with you answering me, so I can respond?

It's not best for me. I'm not bothered whether you respond or not.

Righto!!

Its a wonder you go to the effort of c&p and bold then…

Egit · 31/03/2026 22:35

auserna · 31/03/2026 20:41

But you've just said you're on your own...

This was the day before. I went to 2 cafes on consecutive days.

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Egit · 31/03/2026 22:40

Besafeeatcake · 31/03/2026 22:10

Claustrophobic is an irrational fear of confined spaces. You don’t like clutter. Completely different things. YABU.

I know. I just couldn’t think of another word to describe it and figured people on here would be smart enough to understand what i meant

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