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If you owned Mumsnet what changes would you make?

275 replies

DameOfThrones · 31/12/2025 22:59

Disclaimer: Not 100% serious at all 😏

Mine would be to ban repeat offenders who don't return to the threads they start.

A mahooosive multicoloured sticky banner reminding OPs to include their kid's ages in the opening post, as it's nearly always relevant.

What would you add/remove/change?

OP posts:
HelpMeGetThrough · 01/01/2026 16:44

DameOfThrones · 01/01/2026 16:40

On her head.

😁

Tocsin · 01/01/2026 16:45

👏

brunettemic · 01/01/2026 16:47

I’d delete posts that say “all men/women/elephants/kangaroos/trees are [insert clearly false sfstement]” and then suspend the access of users that try to argue it as a fact.

Tryingatleast · 01/01/2026 16:51

Mookie81

it comes up in the posts I read! I think I’ve posted on this two or three times before and I’ve been here 15 years!!

DameOfThrones · 01/01/2026 17:06

brunettemic · 01/01/2026 16:47

I’d delete posts that say “all men/women/elephants/kangaroos/trees are [insert clearly false sfstement]” and then suspend the access of users that try to argue it as a fact.

Oh my God yes.

So many "Why are ALL people like? (insert whatever)"

Or someone experiences something clearly strange/unusual and asks "Is this the norm now?"

OP posts:
ilovesooty · 01/01/2026 17:56

Dragonflytamer · 01/01/2026 09:21

I'd ban posters who don't have the comprehension skills to understand a post if there is a single spelling/grammar error.

I'd ban non-parents - what on earth are they doing on mumsnet?

There are plenty of reasons to post on Mumsnet that have no relevance to parenting.

Brefugee · 01/01/2026 18:02

DameOfThrones · 01/01/2026 16:40

On her head.

Laughing Out Loud Lol GIF by Sky

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NotDarkGothicMama · 01/01/2026 18:04

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 01/01/2026 12:22

Id remove the ability to post any emoji that aren't the MN ones. Hmm is my absolute favourite

I've often wished for the MN hmm emoji to be adopted universally.

Ihatetomatoes · 01/01/2026 18:06

Ban the antisemites. Some have so many posts deleted. Seriously, just ban them and block their ip address.

HelpMeGetThrough · 01/01/2026 20:02

Ihatetomatoes · 01/01/2026 18:06

Ban the antisemites. Some have so many posts deleted. Seriously, just ban them and block their ip address.

Blocking an IP address achieves nothing, you don’t keep the same one, unless your ISP provides a static IP, which many don’t.

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 01/01/2026 20:14

Allow posters to edit their own posts, whenever they want; including in effect deleting them by replacing the post with a full stop.

Tell posters they can only argue with other people’s arguments.

Get rid of those annoying adverts, including those that look like threads.

BlueSlate · 01/01/2026 20:22

Introduce a basic reading comprehension test as part of the registration process.

Brefugee · 01/01/2026 20:23

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 01/01/2026 20:14

Allow posters to edit their own posts, whenever they want; including in effect deleting them by replacing the post with a full stop.

Tell posters they can only argue with other people’s arguments.

Get rid of those annoying adverts, including those that look like threads.

only if, as now, all edits are shown.

StarlightLady · 01/01/2026 21:25

BlueSlate · 01/01/2026 20:22

Introduce a basic reading comprehension test as part of the registration process.

I am fluent in both French and English, but are you suggesting that those who do not have English as their first language should be barred from posting?

Carla786 · 01/01/2026 21:26

Control the Sex board better.

Get the troll problem on AIBU under control

BlueSlate · 01/01/2026 23:39

StarlightLady · 01/01/2026 21:25

I am fluent in both French and English, but are you suggesting that those who do not have English as their first language should be barred from posting?

No.

Abitofalark · 02/01/2026 00:32

BeQuirkyMintScroller · 31/12/2025 23:47

Can we do something about the zombie threads? Only takes one poster to resurrect it and then others don't realise 🫠

Indeed it's maddening when you've been reading a thread for some time thinking it's a current one. Yesterday I was reading something when I noticed a message just above the text box where you would write a comment. I can't remember exactly but it was an alert about the thread being old and suggested considering an alternative to posting on it.
It's not heading them off at the pass but it is some help.

NewGirlInTown · 02/01/2026 03:53

I understand the need for ad revenue, but the ads that constantly move make me feel sick!
It’s a vertigo reaction; my eyes are focusing on reading the thread, but the ad movement drags my eyes away.
I’m absolutely sick of it, resorting to covering the top of my phone with a handkerchief but as you might imagine, this is very clunky and annoyingly when trying to move between topics.

Scorchio84 · 02/01/2026 04:57

ResusciAnnie · 31/12/2025 23:23

Bring the laugh reaction back immediately.

And make reactions visible to everyone.

Edited

Always this!

& yep my reactions should be available for everyone..otherwise where's the accountability?

Abitofalark · 02/01/2026 09:57

Number the comments on a thread. It's handy when referring back to a comment.

Make it possible to merge threads on the same topic. It's not unusual to see duplicates on the same subject in the same sub forum and people posting on both.

randomchap · 02/01/2026 11:16

Tighten up the registration process to stop the bots and spam.

Keep a public list of all the companies that try to advertise in this way. Name and shame them

DameOfThrones · 02/01/2026 12:53

randomchap · 02/01/2026 11:16

Tighten up the registration process to stop the bots and spam.

Keep a public list of all the companies that try to advertise in this way. Name and shame them

But that'll give them even more publicity on a public forum?

Not everyone will care enough to decide not to use them.

I do always report advertising immediately though as I hate it.

OP posts:
catpigeon · 02/01/2026 13:35

I have over 350 name changes. 😌

AnAcreAndAHaha · 02/01/2026 13:58

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Nucleus · 02/01/2026 16:46

catpigeon · 02/01/2026 13:35

I have over 350 name changes. 😌

And I thought I had a lot! 🤣
Which reminds me, haven't changed for a week or so...