Husbands chastity cage

[BeShyPlumLeader]

I recently found a metal chastity cage (for a males anatomy) in my husbands cupboard. Obviously a bit of a shock.

For background - marriage isn't good, no sex for over 2 years, separate beds, talk of separating. Stayed together because of the kids tbh. I wouldn't be surprised if he was getting it elsewhere tbh. But a .... cage!? Wtf...

What would u think? I don't want to tell him I've found it (yet)

I would also be interested in who holds the key. I think the time has come to divorce OP.

If you read the thread u would see that I did post a link to it but MN blocked it!

Why is everyone so suspicious on MN? Why on earth would someone make something like this up??

You're making quite an assumption there. You don't need the username - your post made it obvious.

Having his dick locked in a banana holder might explain that.

A while ago I met a man (dog walking of all things) whose company manufactures these chastity cages for men. It's very local to me and I had never known. Couldn't wait to Google it when I got home. I told my work colleagues the next day and they all Googled it too, so the search history of my workplace, which is church linked, is rather eyebrow raising!

And how would OP do that if she doesn't have the key?

A photo isn’t a link, if you took the photo you can upload it here

Reported. Idiot.

I have no idea what this is and definitely don't want to google it. As pictures aren't allowed, could someone describe what it looks like and how it is used? Also how do so many people just know this stuff? Can't imagine it's routine?

I’d repurpose it as a banana hanger on the kitchen worktop and see if he notices.

The PP didn't ask for a link?

They asked for a photo.

Just looked it up on google. They sell them on amazon! Bit of an odd contraption.

Pop divorce papers in it and put it back where you found it?

I'm so sorry, OP, that must be such a discombobulating thing to find.

Think of a penis ring with a cage attached, there is space between the ring and cage for the balls. It looks barbaric but certain folks like that sort of thing...

@BeShyPlumLeader it's a shock to find, what do you want to do?

Is the key there? Do you have access to his bank account? Some like to pay online can girls etc to ‘control’ their chastity belt

Is it like this?

Assuming this is true then you really need to make sure you have everything ready so you can start divorce proceedings. If he won’t talk to you about it then you have to take the first step.

But maybe just double check he doesn’t have a hamster hiding somewhere first…

Who thinks of designing this type of contraption.
Nothing is shocking these days.

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Also when posts like these turn up I always suspect there is man behind them looking to draw unsuspecting women into talking about his kinks so he can get his jollies.

There is a sex topic OP, why not post this there?

Probably very biased because I had an ex 20 years ago who was into this kind of thing and worse but I would find it really creepy and be worried about he's been looking at online. My ex used to wear his in public and at work and I found the idea of basically involving the public in your kinks revolting. If you're not having sex, you're probably not talking about it either? I wouldn't mention it, to what end really?

Oh yes... the man was horrible to me, and selfish in bed. But I should have put out to hold on to him! Seriously?

Like I said, we are looking to separate (instigated by me I may add), and I'm not UPSET at this find, but a bit baffled and shocked. I genuinely wondered what people would think if they found it, and if they thought it could be a joke from a friend or if he's actually into weird stuff like this.

But either way - the marriage is basically done.

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Tbf I wouldn't know what a chastity cage looks like. Is like a cricket box with a big lock on it?

I have no way to prove it to you but I'm not a man I'm a normal mum who reads the AIBU emails that come through and just thought I'd post it.

I didn't know about the sex thread - next time I have some bizarre thing to ask I'll ask on there!

Rub itching powder all over it or chilli powder depending on your mood. 😅