Husbands chastity cage

[BeShyPlumLeader]

I recently found a metal chastity cage (for a males anatomy) in my husbands cupboard. Obviously a bit of a shock.

For background - marriage isn't good, no sex for over 2 years, separate beds, talk of separating. Stayed together because of the kids tbh. I wouldn't be surprised if he was getting it elsewhere tbh. But a .... cage!? Wtf...

What would u think? I don't want to tell him I've found it (yet)

No, I think your hamster is doomed though.

I think you might be clutching at straws unfortunately. Either hide it and see if he says anything or leave it on the bed for him to find. If you can’t get on his phone you’re not going to get any answers without a conversation

What would u think? I don't want to tell him I've found it (yet)

Why not?

So you can get to as many posts as possible out of the thread?

It varies, but decent ones are not all that cheap. Still, at least you didn't discover him wearing it. Possible options. Make up a fantasy about being a keyholder and say you'd like to try that.

Yes! Though I have heard of resemblance to a hamster.

didntlike, I had never heard of such a thing but couldn't resist googling and found some odd looking things that apparently vibrate and give pleasure.

Honestly, if you are only sharing a house now and no longer actively together, is it any of your business?

This thread is so funny 😂Thanks for the laughs.

I'm sorry you're going through this OP. I know it's a funny subject but I'm sure this time in your marriage is difficult.

I’m sorry to hear about this OP. Hope it gives you the push to put him behind you. Sorry that sounded suggestive…On another flippant note, the recommended threads below lists ‘rat cage recommendations’.

He will have paid someone to act as a dominatrix and they will have ordered him to wear one. I knew someone who used to be a (semi) dominatrix and this was a common theme.

Divorce.

I think I’d probably go down the domineering route and be more assertive telling him what you want rather than discussing it.

if he wants a dominatrix, I’d probably take advantage of that….. not sexually but definitely for your well being.

😂😂😂

Well... perhaps not lol

But the man refuses to engage with me about separating unless I back him into a corner, and when I do he will then start to tell me all the things I (and my teenage daughter) do wrong. He is, in his eyes, perfect and can do no wrong. Yet he has bondage equipment sat in his wardrobe, hidden but not particularly out of reach of our small children if they decided to go hunting.

So forgive me for being slightly curious about other people's opinions on it ay?

Just present him with it and ask for a divorce.
The relief will be overwhelming. For both of you.

Are you sure it’s not one of those useful items from Lakeland to stop bananas getting squashed in your packed lunch? 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

What are you on about? Please do one

A friend did get his wife to knit my late husband a willy warmer when he was training for the London Marathon.

It was lurex. The willy warmer, not the Marathon.

Wow! Aren't you lovely.

OP would definitely know if he was a cuck.

I will confront him with it eventually. I'm genuinely just shocked and want to think about how best to deal with it...

It has given me a push to crack on with separating though yes

Do what?

You don't want to tell him you found it (yet) and you won't even post a photo of it 🤷‍♂️

And we’re absolutely SURE it’s not something to transports bananas in from Temu?! 😂😂

If anything he was always more dominant in bed. As well as bloody selfish.

Like I say it's been over two years since we had sex though

🤣

I do miss the laugh reaction.