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Can't Believe What I've Just Seen at a Wedding

216 replies

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 06/09/2025 18:15

Afternoon wedding, on a beach. Bride in traditional wedding dress, guests mostly in smart normal wedding attire.

One guest was in a wedding dress. A proper, full on wedding dress. Strapless, corset back, full length, big full skirt with a TRAIN.

The bride had asked guests not to wear white and it wasn't white but bloody hell, who would do that? She looked amazing in it but I simply can't understand the thought process. I've no idea who she was other than a friend of the bride, close enough to go to the hen night, but I'm pretty sure the bride wouldn't have said this dress was OK if she'd been asked. She wasn't a bridesmaid, literally just a guest with no other role to play at the wedding( unless she's going to step up and sing Don't Cry For Me Argentina at the reception later which is possible I suppose!)

I'm just gobsmacked that someone would do this.

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LaurieFairyCake · 06/09/2025 18:38

What colour was it? Sounds like a ballgown?

NotReallySure · 06/09/2025 18:46

Definitely need to know the colour..... Photo if possible!

Rightandwrong · 06/09/2025 18:46

So how did the bride react? Or didn't she?

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 06/09/2025 18:50

It is a very pale pink. Ball gowns don't tend to have trains, I think it's a wedding dress she's maybe had dyed.

The bride didn't react as she didn't really see it- the guest was in the congregation and the bride was getting married.

The reception starts in ten minutes so I guess the bride will see it then!

OP posts:
CalzoneOnLegs · 06/09/2025 18:51

Get a pic

Evaka · 06/09/2025 18:51

Omg, this is gold. Pic pllllsssssssss.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 06/09/2025 18:53

Pics or it didnt happen! 👀👀👀

(I dont doubt you but need to see 😭)

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · 06/09/2025 18:53

Jaysis.
Photographic evidence is required @Bulbsbulbsbulbs ! 😂

DonewhatIcando · 06/09/2025 18:55

Pic or its not true 😂
Im following for the blow up!

mummysmagicmedicine · 06/09/2025 18:58

I can’t understand what would go through someone’s head to do that!

FuzzyWolf · 06/09/2025 18:59

From the description, it sounds like there is no wag that anyone can think it’s an appropriate wedding guest attire unless pre-approved by the bride. It’s definitely not a joint wedding or anything like that?

BeltaLodaLife · 06/09/2025 19:00

You have to get a sneaky photo and post it here!

Tonkerbea · 06/09/2025 19:01

Someone has main character syndrome.

TheWonderhorse · 06/09/2025 19:01

You can't put a photo, too outing. Diagram? 😉

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 06/09/2025 19:03

I once attended a wedding where the MOB wore a full length white dress with a veil. 😲

Simplelife1 · 06/09/2025 19:06

Really??? You're at a wedding but posting on MN?? WHAT A LOAD OF BS

BabyBadaBing · 06/09/2025 19:09

Simplelife1 · 06/09/2025 19:06

Really??? You're at a wedding but posting on MN?? WHAT A LOAD OF BS

There'll be no photos, as it's 'outing'

MrsPinkCock · 06/09/2025 19:11

We need photos!

Lemonadegg · 06/09/2025 19:19

Photos or it didn’t happen

godmum56 · 06/09/2025 19:19

is it your wedding?

Echobelly · 06/09/2025 19:21

Other end of the scale, could it be someone who's never been to a wedding and thinks you're supposed to wear something like that? I never went to a wedding until I was in my 20s, maybe she looked up 'wedding outfit ideas' and barked up totally the wrong tree?

Laiste · 06/09/2025 19:23

pic pic pic pic pic pic

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 06/09/2025 19:25

Actually I came home in the 'down time' photos etc. I posted because I was just so surprised by it.

And of course I can't take a photo of a stranger and post it on the internet!!! Christ. But she looks a bit like this, without the straps and with a train.
share.google/T8zR5bPLk7WHlVaWi

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QueenOfTheDarkAges · 06/09/2025 19:27

I believe you OP. I've been at a wedding where the same thing happened, so much so that people in the street thought the guest was the bride. We were all (bride included) incredulous. I do not understand how anyone can think this is appropriate!

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 06/09/2025 19:29

Why Is Your Subject Line Capitalized Like AI Wrote It?

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