Bonnie Blue

[Horseygirl95]

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

I would have no idea who this woman is if there weren't constant posts here about her.

Does she buy ad space on MN?

I think she’s scuzzy and scummy as fuck. And so are the men that sleep with her. Both as bad as each other. YABU, she’s not a victim.

It's six of one, half dozen of the other if you ask me. The whole lot of them are like a bunch of feral street cats.

No she is responsible for her own behaviour.

I know that’s quite a novel idea, you know actually being held to account for your own behaviour, but sometimes, just sometimes, it’s helpful to not try and blame your parents, teachers, neighbours, society, your cat, for your behaviour.

She is no victim, nor is she some kind of role model for emancipation, as made out in these quarters. So much for feminism, eh?

Well its both really isn't it they wouldn't be able to sleep with her if she didn't allow it and she wouldn't be able to sleep with them if they didn't turn up
It's not a good look either way.

Yet another thread about this woman!

Why give her the publicity?

Why this obsession with someone who isn't worth any head space at all.

Honestly, can you imagine associating with someone like that. Just being in proximity of her would make you want to go take a shower.

Of course it’s always the men’s fault - not this excuse of a woman - she’s far fae blameless.

💯 YABU OP

YABU

Part of having equal rights is taking responsibly for your actions. You are dong all women a massive disservice by saying that they are not responsible for their bad choices.
Frankly it is bordering on sexism.

She is mentally unstable if you ask me and needs some serious therapy .

A lot of the male species will accept anything if it’s offered to them . Just like a dog accepting a piece of meat that’s been rolled on the floor . They ain’t fussy and are hardly going to turn their nose upto it coz it’s a piece of meat .
Both sides are disgusting .

I think this is firmly a case of both as bad as each other. She’s disgusting for doing it and for, I don’t know, glamorising it as such and they’re disgusting for partaking and generally being shitty, gross humans.

She'll do anything for money, that's on her.

She is responsible for her own behaviour. I do however think any woman who disrespects her own body the way she does must have serious, serious mental health issues.

There are rumours on X that they used to be a man and someone has posted a picture of her (him) from before their transition.

That would make a lot of sense

I think she’s a silly girl who has no idea of how significantly this is going to affect her life on the long run

She’s a disgrace and so are the men that engage with her. All as bad as each other.

She’s revolting. So are the men. I wish everyone would stop giving her publicity.

I think it’s disgusting personally, which is why I wouldn’t watch it. But the disgustingness is the result of everyone involved, both her and the men she has sex with.

I think that the damage done to her will be enormous, and to those watching and thinking that it’s normal behaviour or acceptable to be aroused by.

Why are people so obsessed with someone selling sex? All you're doing is driving traffic to her OF.

IMO she's the ultimate attention seeker and an absolute troll.

She's being as outrageous as she can for clicks.

It's sad and embarrassing and she is 100% complicit.

At this point, the only way I could ever see myself having sympathy for her was if it came out that she has a history of SA or that she has been coerced into these actions.

At the moment I just think she's a POS and any man who comes within 100 metres of her is too.

Whose home is she wrecking?

Both are grim. It's appalling and I'm sick of seeing her face everywhere. You're right in the sense that she only does it because there is a market for it, but she is predatory, inflammatory and deserves no empathy.

She's the absolute antithesis of feminism. Just sending out the abhorrent message to certain types of men that women are simply there to be used as a hole. No true social interaction at all. It's utterly depressing as a woman to know that this is what female emancipation has brought us to. In my view she is betraying all women, and the fact that impressionable teenage girls and boys are growing up viewing this as just another thing that some people do for likes, like it's no big deal, is appalling.