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Bonnie Blue

184 replies

Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 14:14

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

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Daisychain88 · 22/06/2025 15:53

They're both accountable in this situation. They're all adults & all know what they're doing. The only difference is she gains money from it & obviously men are paying her for a service. Just like prostitution really but on a high scale.

Insanityisnotastrategy · 22/06/2025 15:53

It's both. Both she and the men involved are equally vile.

PopThatBench · 22/06/2025 15:54

She’s scum. The men who turn up to have a go are scum.
Each are responsible for their own scumminess.
She isn’t holding “fuck me” events just because there’s a market for it, because otherwise, all women would be holding similar events. She’s holding those events because she’s scum.
The husbands and teenage sons are no better and are to hold themselves accountable.

daisychain01 · 22/06/2025 15:58

I don't have a clue who this woman is but she attracts pondlife. That isn't the total population of the male of the species, it's just the significant minority scum. And she is far from the norm as far as the female of the species is concerned.

shes welcome to them. They are welcome to her.

sad that a young woman has set her sights so low.

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 16:00

KimberleyClark · 22/06/2025 15:51

Does anyone really think that her fake vagina would be able to stand up to all that activity if she was trans?

I think it could be seen as quite the version of dilation trans women have to do to keep their opening open.

DeSoleil · 22/06/2025 16:02

Don’t be silly, she is motivated by earn g lots of money and will do anything to get it and is aided and abetted by her financial adviser who is also her mother.

She is the last person on earth who is being used!

She is using men to get money.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 22/06/2025 16:07

DeSoleil · 22/06/2025 16:02

Don’t be silly, she is motivated by earn g lots of money and will do anything to get it and is aided and abetted by her financial adviser who is also her mother.

She is the last person on earth who is being used!

She is using men to get money.

Her "financial adviser" is her own mother......? Sounds more like a pimp or madam to me.

IsThisOkorWhat · 22/06/2025 16:09

Surely she must be spreading sexual health diseases everywhere and the men of course
but this is such a health hazard

CranfordScones · 22/06/2025 16:18

She's the unclassy consequence of emancipation.

But you either believe: Her body, her choice, or you don't. And the same goes for the men...

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:31

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 15:47

I feel sorry for her ex/separated husband. Who’s name and face has been dragged though the media for being with her previously.

Who’d want to end up in the paper because their estranged husband or wife shagged 2,000 people in a day or wanted to do a “petting zoo”

Petting Zoo?? What on earth does that involve??

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 16:32

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:31

Petting Zoo?? What on earth does that involve??

I’m not 100% sure I’ve not googled it. I darent. But it’s what got OF to shut her down.

At a random guess she would be in a cage or some such and men could do what they want though the bars 🤷🏻‍♀️

edit. Or maybe just a free for all like an actual petting zoo where 20/30 people are in a fenced area and they again just go for it. Who knows with her mind

Minecroft · 22/06/2025 16:34

smallglassbottle · 22/06/2025 14:18

It's six of one, half dozen of the other if you ask me. The whole lot of them are like a bunch of feral street cats.

I agree. They are all gross.

purpleygrey · 22/06/2025 16:34

I think she’s equally as vile as the men that queue up for her.

I think her attitude to ‘barely legal’ if fucking abhorrent.

purpleygrey · 22/06/2025 16:35

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:31

Petting Zoo?? What on earth does that involve??

Tied up in a box for a few hours and men can do what ever they want to her.

cyvguhb · 22/06/2025 16:38

Jennps · 22/06/2025 14:38

That would make a lot of sense

In what way, it's a totally stupid rumour, I know from the various other threads on here and other places I've read that she has had a low key online presence since she was a child due to her hobby. Its an insane suggestion

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:41

purpleygrey · 22/06/2025 16:35

Tied up in a box for a few hours and men can do what ever they want to her.

Oh Dear Christ….I knew I shouldn’t have asked😮

cyvguhb · 22/06/2025 16:42

@Horseygirl95 can you explain how the argument settling process is going to work?

I often see posts that start like this and I cant imagine either side every goes, oh yeah, I'm totally changing my mind now that a few internet randoms have disagreed with me

Id love to know what you and your friend have agreed

CurlyhairedAssassin · 22/06/2025 16:43

CranfordScones · 22/06/2025 16:18

She's the unclassy consequence of emancipation.

But you either believe: Her body, her choice, or you don't. And the same goes for the men...

If she IS mentally unstable, or been pushed into it by a traumatic background or parents just wanting to make money out of her, or drugs or whatever else, then it ISN'T a choice at all. I don't believe she's actually having fun while doing that. Even if she states NOW that it's fully her choice, and that she is mentally stable, I expect that in the future she will have a breakdown when it all hits her and she realises that there is no changing what she's done and is full of regrets.

The question is, should society try to intervene in people making poor choices likely to impact their future mental health.

Ponoka7 · 22/06/2025 16:47

We see sex workers as vulnerable and usually victims, it's the men using their services that we hold criminally responsible. So initially, I'd say the problem is them. However there is a grey area. I do believe that she isn't fully mentally well and like with the last ten years of Katie Price, or Kerry Katona, Britney Spears, we are seeing what being unstable looks like.

Siriusmuggle · 22/06/2025 16:58

It’s both. She’s a grim minger with no morals who’s dim enough to think she’d empowered because she’s made so much money from it.
She isn’t trans, I know this because I’ve met family members years ago and her family’s Facebook history proves it.
Also brains don’t run in the family, again I have this first hand. A very close family member is thicker than pigshit and is dimmer than Bonnie herself.

Dangermoo · 22/06/2025 17:00

KimberleyClark · 22/06/2025 15:51

Does anyone really think that her fake vagina would be able to stand up to all that activity if she was trans?

🤢

Sadcafe · 22/06/2025 17:02

As a male I can honestly say I wouldn’t touch her with a proverbial barge pole, let alone any other bit of my body. The men clearly have zero respect for her or themselves but neither does she, a very sad , damaged young woman

LlynTegid · 22/06/2025 17:17

Both the men and Bonnie Blue are to blame.

The person who referred to the men as pond life are being too kind to them- at least pond life has a valuable purpose.

Gardenbumblebee · 22/06/2025 17:22

I find her fascinating in a way. She's from a naice, middle class family and grew up wanting for nothing. I really think she has a personality disorder as she's completely dead behind the eyes and the rage baiting is next level. Watching her in interviews is like watching an AI robot saying the most outrageous things it can think of.

It's estimated she makes around half a million a month on Only Fans. I've struggled my entire life and grew up poor but I couldn't do what she does even for twice the amount she makes. She has literally sold her soul for what? Fame, money? She could have got those with 'regular' pornographic content as she's very beautiful. I imagine she'll be studied after the inevitable downfall.

Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 17:43

JustPinkFinch · 22/06/2025 15:18

So Bonnie Blue is making men think women are just 'holes'? Are we really giving men that pass? Holding them to such a low standard - unable to figure out for themselves what is right and what is wrong?

Our pressing problem is not really BB. It's the men - otherwise usually found mingling among our daughters, sisters, friends - yet turning up to something like this with their identities hidden. Unable to partake without the protection of anonymity, as it will expose them as sexual predators.

Yes!!!!!!!!

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