Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Bonnie Blue

184 replies

Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 14:14

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

OP posts:
EnhancedVampireEyeballs · 25/06/2025 09:52

TuttiFruittiSweets · 25/06/2025 05:46

You are the one being ‘daft’. It was you that said “Some women are born sluts. Fact. It’s in their nature. It is such a strong driving force in them that nothing and no one can influence them or change them for the better.”

Change your name to JerrySpringer. It would suit you better.

Yeah, agree with this, @Jerrypicker. You literally said, verbatim

"Some women are born sluts. Fact".

So if some women are born sluts, you must be able to look at an infant or toddler and think "there's a born slut".

Hideous language from you. You ought to be disgusted with yourself.

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/06/2025 09:52

MyUmberSeal · 22/06/2025 14:17

I think she’s scuzzy and scummy as fuck. And so are the men that sleep with her. Both as bad as each other. YABU, she’s not a victim.

This

whitewineandsun · 25/06/2025 09:54

ohyesido · 22/06/2025 14:39

I think she’s a silly girl who has no idea of how significantly this is going to affect her life on the long run

Probably. Doesn't mean she shouldn't be expected to take responsibility for her own actions.

3luckystars · 25/06/2025 09:57

I think the men using her are DEPRAVED.

Separately, I think she has lost her way and feel sorry for her.

Jerrypicker · 25/06/2025 10:03

EnhancedVampireEyeballs · 25/06/2025 09:52

Yeah, agree with this, @Jerrypicker. You literally said, verbatim

"Some women are born sluts. Fact".

So if some women are born sluts, you must be able to look at an infant or toddler and think "there's a born slut".

Hideous language from you. You ought to be disgusted with yourself.

“You ought to be disgusted with yourself”
😆
No Miss, save your preaching for the classroom.
I’m laughing at your pearl-clutching 😆
It’s not my fault you are reading your own translation into what I wrote.

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 25/06/2025 10:13

"Some women are born sluts" is a bizarre and moronic thing to say. Fact.

oldwhyno · 25/06/2025 10:17

It takes two (or more) to tango

OrangePineapple25 · 25/06/2025 10:35

I think it’s strange to feel sorry for her. I know money isn’t everything but she’s controlling her narrative, in control of all her actions and is now filthy rich. From a quick google she’s apparently now worth £43m so she could stop tomorrow and never work again.

Conversely most, or should I say many, sex workers are vulnerable women, trafficked and kept hostage, addicts, with awful traumatic pasts and presents.

I know it’s not a race to the bottom but I have no pity for Bonnie who’s gone out and made her own choices. I pity the women who aren’t. That doesn’t mean I like her, or hate her. I feel indifferent.

TuttiFruittiSweets · 25/06/2025 12:15

Jerrypicker · 25/06/2025 09:49

No point arguing with a stubborn idiot. You read whatever you want into whatever you want. I don’t care.

You are the idiot! Read your own posts.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread