Bonnie Blue

[Horseygirl95]

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

Yes but she’s pretty grim as well isn’t she. So it’s not a case of just the men being at fault.

No no, it’s her.

edit: that’s no absolving the men of any part in it btw, they’re gross too. But there comes a point where we have to hold women accountable for their shitty actions too, and she is the perfect example.

Everyone directly involved is beyond gross. Its really quite depressing that it is even a thing that has happened.

But if the men wouldn't join in because "we will not be enabling this behaviour" then they would be twats who dictate what women's behaviour should be...

I don’t see her as a victim - but theres be no market for her brand if it wasn’t for men

So Bonnie Blue is making men think women are just 'holes'? Are we really giving men that pass? Holding them to such a low standard - unable to figure out for themselves what is right and what is wrong?

Our pressing problem is not really BB. It's the men - otherwise usually found mingling among our daughters, sisters, friends - yet turning up to something like this with their identities hidden. Unable to partake without the protection of anonymity, as it will expose them as sexual predators.

Eh? Is this a case if men never being able to win?

I dont even hate her tbh, just cant relate

The men engaged in these sex sessions are GRIM

Surely, as a woman, youd want to just fuck other hot porn stars, if that's your thing, instead of the great unwashed general public 😭

Maybe she'll stop these sessions once shes made enough money and just switch to regular porn and only fans

I wouldn't go that far but I can't pretend I understand what she's doing.

It would be anathema to me. But at the same time I think the men are horrible and she should be protected.

Anything to put the blame on men or transpeople on this website sometimes.

She's responsible for her own actions, sometimes women aren't perfect examples of kindness and purity. She may be hypersexual, she may have been abused or she might just get off on what she does.

I would not at all be surprised at all if it turns out Bonnie is trans.

She’s scuzzy and so are the men who want to sleep with her.

This isn’t even mutual fun porn at this point say Rebecca. Who seems to spread the good the bad and ugly and even talks about the regular testing she pays private not nhs before any moaning and such.

This is shock value what can I do that’s more and more and more. OF closed her account I believe. Men think it’s a brag to sleep with someone who would sleep with genuinely anyone it’s pathetic.

She’s like the naughty kid always trying to one up. Or the guy at the pub who if your mate caught a 20lb fish next week he caught a 50lb and you mum danced with Danny dyer but his mum shagged him type. My TVs 60inches, well I’ve got the new not released yet too Secret 75” glass tv with retina control types.

milo I read on tattle (yes, I know) that she'd been kicked off OF for going too far for even them.

I am not googling her and OF to check, heaven knows what results I'll get.

She needs no protection - she actively chooses this and is not some vulnerable little quine.

I was appalled at the queue of men waiting for their “turn”. My nail tech, quite unprovoked, decided to show it to me 🤮🤮🤮 God almighty, it’s vile. I cannot get my head around why either they or she would want to do this? It’s not a path I would take for myself and I wouldn’t ever entertain a man who thought that doing that was ok. But then I am sure a lot of those men involved had wives and gfs who had no idea? It’s rank.
And if you reverse the genders? There is absolutely no way there would be a queue of thousands of women waiting to shag some pornstar.

Are you Scottish? Haven't heard that from anyone except Scot friend.

I just mean I wouldn't like any of my female friends to do this and I don't understand the thought process or detachment.

Why are these grim people in my face?! Rutting like dogs in the street. I have no wish to know about their gross gang bangs 🤮. Why start a thread on it op!?

It really doesn’t seem like much fun for anyone involved. They need new and better hobbies. Hockey? Netball? Anything but that really!

So much for feminism, eh?

I'm a feminist who doesn't believe sex work is empowering or helpful to the cause at all. For 1 Bonnie Blue, there are 1000s of women coerced, trafficked and forced into sex work by men who treat them as objects, or through some trauma. People like Bonnie Blue reinforce the fact that men using women's bodies is fine.

Whilst I think Bonnie Blue is an absolute disgrace with regards to the way she speaks about women and allows men to treat her body as a massive wank sock, I also think the men who are involved in this sordid farce and also to blame.

As someone previously said, 6 of one half a dozen of the other.

You could equally say "if SHE is enabling the behaviour of thousands of men then SHE is the problem and not them."

She has to take some responsibility, surely? I only found out she existed a few days ago and barely know anything about her but it's pretty clear what she's known for and it's a two-way street. Literally.

I disagree with the notion of a single woman being a home wrecker. Men who cheat are solely responsible for their own behaviour, and if it wasn’t with her it would be with someone else, they wreck their own homes. Though I do think it’s morally wrong to sleep with someone you know isn’t single. While in principle I can’t come up with anything wrong with whatever she’s up to with other consenting adults and profiting from it by filming it, I find it very difficult to understand. I do wonder if she has mental health issues.

I feel sorry for her ex/separated husband. Who’s name and face has been dragged though the media for being with her previously.

Who’d want to end up in the paper because their estranged husband or wife shagged 2,000 people in a day or wanted to do a “petting zoo”

A bit of both? Supply and demand and all that bollox

Does anyone really think that her fake vagina would be able to stand up to all that activity if she was trans?

Well I hope her surgeon did a good job as his work is getting quite a battering. Or that’s simply not true.