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Bianca Censori needs help

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MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2025 11:19

Bianca Censori went to the Grammys in a see through mesh dress yesterday. Nothing is left to the imagination.

Is it some kind of coercive control? Is she just an exhibitionist?

And - surely inappropriate given he has numerous children who will see this behaviour too.

If this were in any other walk of life, it wouldn’t be allowed, and yet for some reason it’s allowed to play out in public like this.

Is it not just repeated indecent exposure?

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GingerEden · 04/02/2025 01:52

ChannelFiveDrama · 03/02/2025 12:08

The maddest thing in this sea of absolute insanity is the press pack shouting at her to look left and right so they could get their images. They should have said 'actually we'll sit this one out thanks, even we finally realise this is a woman being controlled and coerced'. The entire charade is horrific.

^^ This, absolutely.

k1233 · 04/02/2025 02:36

ChannelFiveDrama · 03/02/2025 12:08

The maddest thing in this sea of absolute insanity is the press pack shouting at her to look left and right so they could get their images. They should have said 'actually we'll sit this one out thanks, even we finally realise this is a woman being controlled and coerced'. The entire charade is horrific.

Totally agree - they're loving the debauchery and by doing so, ensuring it's continuation. If they the made a point of taking no photos or video the behaviour would change.

EasyTouch · 04/02/2025 05:09

Dontlletmedownbruce · 03/02/2025 20:33

@Dollychopsporkchops says: If anything one could argue that she’s using a man with a vulnerable mental health condition and a long and documented mental health battle…

This is what my take is. He is very rich and very mentally ill. She was nobody until she married him (as far as I'm aware). She is the winner here. The worst of course are the organisers of an awards ceremony who allow this to continue and the press who encourage it. Soon she will have a public divorce and get loads of press attention as a result. And in years to come when money gets tight she'll be writing biographies every 2 years and documenting her plastic surgery, a bit of a Katie Price type.

Kanye is a cunt on top of being bipolar.
It's him being a life long cunt that is the engine for his lifelong bad treatment of women.
His mother coddled his being a cunt. She neglected him in so much convinced herself and him that his being a cunt is a symptom of his being a genius.
On her parental watch, her Gen X child became a porn addict whilst still in school.
How does a Gen X child become a porn addict in an era when hand held digital screens and immediate access aren't a thing?
Worse, she did not find out retrospectively, she was made aware at the time by his teachers......he has been infringing his perversion on unwilling people for decades.
Kanye is a nonce. He's been a nonce. His sexuality is tied up with infringement, women as vessels/sex toys, being a cuck, being pegged, showing porn to people without their consent, public sex in sight of people without their consent, controlling how a woman dresses, being downlow.
Shit, It would not surprise me to see him reveal himself to be an autogynephilic transwoman in his old age as no woman will be able to meet his exacting , degrading standards in order to facilitate his orgasms... apart from himself, of course.
It's all there. Oldest/only child, neglectful/dominant mother, porn addled, need for control/to submit, histrionic, pathologically attention seeking, misogynist supreme......

Lighterlilly · 04/02/2025 07:44

There is a video circulating of Bianca sitting on a bar top, doing karaoke to Adele’s rolling in the deep, after the naked Grammy’s thing. She is wearing a transparent body stocking and no underwear, at all. The images of her going into the venue dressed like that make it clear. She is clearly enjoying herself.

as much as Kanye likely is all the things he is accused of, there is no doubt Bianca is an exhibitionist and attention seeker, and a very proactive participant in this.

as hard as it is to understand, they are two fucked up people. He thinks it’s art and clearly gets off on it, and she is loving it. The straight faces are simply the art thing. If you watch her at the Grammys it is clearly rehearsed, and they’d planned this. Friends think it is a shared kink. Which is likely accurate.

Devon24 · 04/02/2025 08:01

I think it’s up to every establishment, including those that host the Grammys to set some standards of decency when it comes to their guest’s attire, and they should be refused entry unless they can wear clothes that cover their basic modesty.

If they were refused entry everywhere they might rethink their PR strategy..

quantumbutterfly · 04/02/2025 08:05

EasyTouch · 04/02/2025 05:09

Kanye is a cunt on top of being bipolar.
It's him being a life long cunt that is the engine for his lifelong bad treatment of women.
His mother coddled his being a cunt. She neglected him in so much convinced herself and him that his being a cunt is a symptom of his being a genius.
On her parental watch, her Gen X child became a porn addict whilst still in school.
How does a Gen X child become a porn addict in an era when hand held digital screens and immediate access aren't a thing?
Worse, she did not find out retrospectively, she was made aware at the time by his teachers......he has been infringing his perversion on unwilling people for decades.
Kanye is a nonce. He's been a nonce. His sexuality is tied up with infringement, women as vessels/sex toys, being a cuck, being pegged, showing porn to people without their consent, public sex in sight of people without their consent, controlling how a woman dresses, being downlow.
Shit, It would not surprise me to see him reveal himself to be an autogynephilic transwoman in his old age as no woman will be able to meet his exacting , degrading standards in order to facilitate his orgasms... apart from himself, of course.
It's all there. Oldest/only child, neglectful/dominant mother, porn addled, need for control/to submit, histrionic, pathologically attention seeking, misogynist supreme......

..disturbing, I object to men being called cunts though, on the fwr board they would tell you he's not warm enough or deep enough to be a cunt, he's more of a wanker I expect.

SallyWD · 04/02/2025 08:28

Lighterlilly · 04/02/2025 07:44

There is a video circulating of Bianca sitting on a bar top, doing karaoke to Adele’s rolling in the deep, after the naked Grammy’s thing. She is wearing a transparent body stocking and no underwear, at all. The images of her going into the venue dressed like that make it clear. She is clearly enjoying herself.

as much as Kanye likely is all the things he is accused of, there is no doubt Bianca is an exhibitionist and attention seeker, and a very proactive participant in this.

as hard as it is to understand, they are two fucked up people. He thinks it’s art and clearly gets off on it, and she is loving it. The straight faces are simply the art thing. If you watch her at the Grammys it is clearly rehearsed, and they’d planned this. Friends think it is a shared kink. Which is likely accurate.

I agree. I used to think it was all him but now believe she's a very willing participant.

Lighterlilly · 04/02/2025 08:40

SallyWD · 04/02/2025 08:28

I agree. I used to think it was all him but now believe she's a very willing participant.

Absolutely. She clearly gets off on it. No woman who is being coerced sits on a bar top doing karaoke asically naked like that. She is later dancing and licking his face. In the same nude look.

likely had nerves doing it, at the Grammys, as it was so extreme and the excitement and euphoria hit after,

tnis is a kink , she gets off on it, you can see how ecstatic she is in the bar, and she’s all but naked and trying to command attention. You don’t climb on top of the bar otherwise, and Kanye isn’t paying her any attention.

this isn’t some coerced woman, this is someone who gets off on getting naked in public, and Kanye for some reason thinks it’s art, and enjoys it. They are going to more and more extremes to get the same kick out of it.

pair of freaks.

Judgejudysno1fan · 04/02/2025 09:34

PullTheBricksDown · 03/02/2025 12:42

Ideally the media would not cover it but of course no chance of that. Makes Kim K look like a model of dignity and I didn't ever think I'd be saying that.

She's posed nude top some years back. I think shes probably one of the most beautiful and gorgeous women in the world but that made me dislike her, big tinem

Lighterlilly · 04/02/2025 09:56

Judgejudysno1fan · 04/02/2025 09:34

She's posed nude top some years back. I think shes probably one of the most beautiful and gorgeous women in the world but that made me dislike her, big tinem

I don’t know what tinem is, but I don’t feel she’s even close to being one of the most beautiful or gorgeous women in the world, she’s attractive wirh a nice figure, but no more, images of her naked a few years back suggest she’s had a boob job,

I can’t imagine disliking someone simply as you think they are attractive.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 04/02/2025 10:05

Lighterlilly · 04/02/2025 09:56

I don’t know what tinem is, but I don’t feel she’s even close to being one of the most beautiful or gorgeous women in the world, she’s attractive wirh a nice figure, but no more, images of her naked a few years back suggest she’s had a boob job,

I can’t imagine disliking someone simply as you think they are attractive.

I think that poster meant to say this has made her dislike Bianca Censori 'big time.'

I also have to say, she is really not particularly attractive (IMO.) I would say a 5 out of 10. If you google her, it's hard to find a really nice photograph of her. She is very ordinary.

eyesontheball · 04/02/2025 10:07

ChannelFiveDrama · 03/02/2025 12:08

The maddest thing in this sea of absolute insanity is the press pack shouting at her to look left and right so they could get their images. They should have said 'actually we'll sit this one out thanks, even we finally realise this is a woman being controlled and coerced'. The entire charade is horrific.

Yep. Instead they are shouting 'wow' and 'beautiful' - male and female photographers - like trying to make her feel comfortable.
Nobody laughed! lol.

Lighterlilly · 04/02/2025 10:16

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 04/02/2025 10:05

I think that poster meant to say this has made her dislike Bianca Censori 'big time.'

I also have to say, she is really not particularly attractive (IMO.) I would say a 5 out of 10. If you google her, it's hard to find a really nice photograph of her. She is very ordinary.

Ah ok, big time makes sense.

I don’t think she’s a 5 out of ten either, or very ordinary, you must be amongst all very attractive folks if you think she’s just a five. I think she’s attractive, I won’t score her, as I find that heinous.

takealettermsjones · 04/02/2025 11:59

Devon24 · 04/02/2025 08:01

I think it’s up to every establishment, including those that host the Grammys to set some standards of decency when it comes to their guest’s attire, and they should be refused entry unless they can wear clothes that cover their basic modesty.

If they were refused entry everywhere they might rethink their PR strategy..

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I agree. Don't they have any standards? From Will Smith slapping someone at the Oscars and not getting kicked out to this ridiculousness - I thought these academies were supposed to be prestigious.

ThePolarBearWhoLostHisCrown · 04/02/2025 12:02

CheekyPombear · 04/02/2025 01:15

I hope you never find yourself in the grip of a controlling narcissist.

I have been thanks. I was married to one for 10 years.

I don't know whether I think BC is being controlled. As others have said she dresses like this away from him. And let's face it, it's just one step away from what we are used to - almost everything on show is nothing new.

Mrsbloggz · 04/02/2025 12:53

Just put it away Bianca FFS, or at the very least grow a big bush 🤦🏻‍♀️

SayyestotheDog · 04/02/2025 13:29

I wonder what the press would do in other countries - in Italy they were fined? (Not sure) or at least there was some pushback to their antics in Venice (simulating oral on him). I’d just love it if everybody was like eeeuwww put it away & gave them zero attention. Or frogmarched them out. I know even debating it is fuelling the fires. The sad thing is that red carpet looks have been pushing the envelope for years in terms of exposing yet more & more of the female form & it accounts for a large part of many female performers’ success sadly. The extent to which they will sexualise themselves is central to them having any success. It’s pretty gross. Have they predominantly been male fashion designers (I don’t know?) making their own name out of their clients wearing stupidly scanty “gowns” as much as the desperate need to ensure you dominate in terms of press attention. It’s all so ridiculous esp when you have the likes of Kim K tottering in a corset she can’t even breathe on just to get that attention. It’s all really gross. And pointless!! I agree with a PP that the fashion/music/pop world has morphed into porn & festish culture where extremes seem to be the only thing going for it & are horribly normalised in everyday music videos, red carpet & fashion shows.

Mrsbloggz · 04/02/2025 13:34

They won't care about being fined, when you have no shame whatsoever there is no such thing as bad publicity.
The only disincentive would be for them to be completely ignored, for no one to pay them any attention or show any interest in them, for them not to appear in any way shape or form in the media.
I can't see that happening, unfortunately ☹️

CalicoPusscat · 04/02/2025 13:37

She's very attractive.

I don't know what the pair of them are up to though, they baffle me.

Mingenious · 04/02/2025 14:07

CalicoPusscat · 04/02/2025 13:37

She's very attractive.

I don't know what the pair of them are up to though, they baffle me.

She could be if she didn’t look completely dead behind the eyes, it’s like the lights are on but no-one’s home.

CalicoPusscat · 04/02/2025 14:15

@Mingenious I wouldn't like her to design a dress for me!

Phelicity · 04/02/2025 14:55

I think she’s a willing participant but acts under his direction - presenting as a mannequin.The dead-eyed expression is part of the performance (& probably part of the turn-on for him).

It might be their idea of performance art.

Lighterlilly · 04/02/2025 17:20

Phelicity · 04/02/2025 14:55

I think she’s a willing participant but acts under his direction - presenting as a mannequin.The dead-eyed expression is part of the performance (& probably part of the turn-on for him).

It might be their idea of performance art.

Yes, I think when she’s pretending it’s art to appease him and get him to go along with it, she does the deadeye serious thing, you can see when she’s socialising, in a similar state of nudity, she’s very animated.

MoonWoman69 · 04/02/2025 21:33

I can't even see a dress?! She looks totally naked to me! Just zoomed in on a pic, where's the mesh?!

PullTheBricksDown · 04/02/2025 22:56

MoonWoman69 · 04/02/2025 21:33

I can't even see a dress?! She looks totally naked to me! Just zoomed in on a pic, where's the mesh?!

When she was turned away from the cameras, just after she dropped the coat, she tugs down the hem of the dress and you can see there is one then!