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Bianca Censori needs help

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MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2025 11:19

Bianca Censori went to the Grammys in a see through mesh dress yesterday. Nothing is left to the imagination.

Is it some kind of coercive control? Is she just an exhibitionist?

And - surely inappropriate given he has numerous children who will see this behaviour too.

If this were in any other walk of life, it wouldn’t be allowed, and yet for some reason it’s allowed to play out in public like this.

Is it not just repeated indecent exposure?

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Lentilweaver · 03/02/2025 11:19

Weren't they meant to be getting divorced?

Floralnomad · 03/02/2025 11:21

It’s exhibitionism , I think the look she portrays is part of the game for them .

Mingenious · 03/02/2025 11:24

They should both be arrested and then she should be sectioned and given support to get away from the abusive arsehole. He little better to a pimp.

Turbo4 · 03/02/2025 11:25

Couldn’t help but see them splashed across the headlines this morning.

You are correct that if this any other every day person then they would probably be pulled in and tests done to see if they well enough, but because of their celeb status they are allowed to get away with this worrying behaviour.

To think a couple of years ago Kayne said he didn’t want his kids being brought up by Kim because of the outfits she has worn!

If I was Kim I would be getting legal advice to see if there was anything I could do to stop the kids having contact until it’s proven they are in a good state of mental health.

Floralnomad · 03/02/2025 11:26

@Turbo4 let’s face it she’s not much better .

YouDeserveBetterSoAskForIt · 03/02/2025 11:27

On the face of it, she looks a part of the game...

But she is constantly fiddling with the hem of the "dress" and doesn't look totally happy to me. She is constantly turning to Kanye for direction and he is telling her what to do at each point.

Kim Kardashian has said that he was quite opinionated on what she wore and would call her if he saw a photo of her in something he hadn't approved etc.

I do wonder how controlling he is and because Bianca isn't as famous as Kim, she may not have the sway to stand up to him. He can push her far further.

A woman in a healthy relationship with a healthy self esteem doesn't expose herself like that at a public venue. I have no issue with the human body and I am not sexualising her, but there are appropriate venues for nudity and this wasn't one of them.

Turbo4 · 03/02/2025 11:28

Floralnomad · 03/02/2025 11:26

@Turbo4 let’s face it she’s not much better .

She does seem to have calmed down since having kids though.

Landlubber2019 · 03/02/2025 11:29

Her behaviour is bizarre and she needs to be arrested and subject to a psych evaluation. I suspect she is in a toxic coercive relationship.

He needs to be kept well away from her, he is a massive risk to her and potentially other women

SwerveCity · 03/02/2025 11:30

She always looks completely dead behind the eyes. I think it’s his control over her. It’s almost like he enjoys humiliating her.

Caerulea · 03/02/2025 11:41

I actually started a thread about this early this morning but it's been hidden - no idea why.

It's horrible & bizarre behaviour but I don't think she's being coerced whatsoever. It's like some kind of game 🤷🏼‍♀️. What I find really distasteful is the way she plays as some kind of victim with the dead-eyed mannequin look.

Maybe it's high-brow art & social commentary on how women are treated?

Or...its attention seeking bullshit.

ChannelFiveDrama · 03/02/2025 12:08

The maddest thing in this sea of absolute insanity is the press pack shouting at her to look left and right so they could get their images. They should have said 'actually we'll sit this one out thanks, even we finally realise this is a woman being controlled and coerced'. The entire charade is horrific.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 03/02/2025 12:16

I think looking at their faces in the pictures that they are both either mentally unwell or on something.

Fitzcarraldo353 · 03/02/2025 12:17

@Caerulea I believe that was one of the threads that had the awful images posted on it last night so it was hidden for that reason. Nothing to do with the thread itself.

Americano75 · 03/02/2025 12:20

It's appalling that the media are losing their minds over the nudity rather than what is clearly an unhealthy, if not coercive relationship.

On a side note if I had a body like that I'd be in the buff most of the time.

Lunde · 03/02/2025 12:20

Is it drugs? Is it MH? Is it a Dom/sub thing? Is it performance art? Is it just for press attention?

I find it really hard to believe that she is a 30 year old architect.

Deadringer · 03/02/2025 12:23

I just googled and jesus yes she might as well be naked. I agree with pp, it seems to be some kind of game, she always looks very serious, almost sad when she is posing, but there are photos online where she looks very relaxed and is smiling. Whatever the reason though, it is weird. She has some body though.

Purif · 03/02/2025 12:23

based off her earlier designs before Kanye, completely see through nylon stocking “dresses” and porn looking metal dresses that hold you in a certain position. They’re both porn addicted attention seekers and we’re all being made unwilling participants in their kink.

JHound · 03/02/2025 12:24

Caerulea · 03/02/2025 11:41

I actually started a thread about this early this morning but it's been hidden - no idea why.

It's horrible & bizarre behaviour but I don't think she's being coerced whatsoever. It's like some kind of game 🤷🏼‍♀️. What I find really distasteful is the way she plays as some kind of victim with the dead-eyed mannequin look.

Maybe it's high-brow art & social commentary on how women are treated?

Or...its attention seeking bullshit.

It was hidden because of the troll attack we had when somebody posted images of child SA.

takealettermsjones · 03/02/2025 12:25

The whole thing is batshit imo. I am no prude but I dislike this almost as much as I dislike the popularisation of Only Fans, Bonnie Blue etc. Put some bloody clothes on.

If he wants to get some attention why isn't he walking around with his knob out? (Not saying I want to see it, obviously)

Yawningisinfectious · 03/02/2025 12:28

I think she needs to get arrested.
I don't really have much sympathy with her: they are playing out their sexual fantasies in public.

drivinmecrazy · 03/02/2025 12:29

Purif · 03/02/2025 12:23

based off her earlier designs before Kanye, completely see through nylon stocking “dresses” and porn looking metal dresses that hold you in a certain position. They’re both porn addicted attention seekers and we’re all being made unwilling participants in their kink.

I think this is the best summarisation of their relationship.
I think it's really disingenuous to those who've experienced coercive relationships.

I think she's as complicit as him.

Not a good representation of a healthy relationship either way.

cheezncrackers · 03/02/2025 12:32

I'm not sure what I think about them tbh, other than horror! I find their exhibitionism disgusting and inappropriate, particularly as he has four kids.

But is she complicit/consenting? I'm pretty sure her family/friends back in Australia tried to stage an intervention at one point (she had gone to visit them on her own), and she pretty much told them to butt out and mind their own business.

There are women who consent to being dominated within their relationships. Whether she is consenting at this point and whether she will always be okay with that decision, I guess time will tell.

PullTheBricksDown · 03/02/2025 12:42

Ideally the media would not cover it but of course no chance of that. Makes Kim K look like a model of dignity and I didn't ever think I'd be saying that.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 03/02/2025 12:44

It's totally illegal - but because they are rich and famous is allowed.
The Grammy's are basically a work event for them - imagine if we all started rocking up to the All Bar One to celebrate Keiths promotion in the buff!

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:46

It'a amazing that there are so many confident psychiatrists here who are able to diagnose based on SM pictures