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Bianca Censori needs help

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MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2025 11:19

Bianca Censori went to the Grammys in a see through mesh dress yesterday. Nothing is left to the imagination.

Is it some kind of coercive control? Is she just an exhibitionist?

And - surely inappropriate given he has numerous children who will see this behaviour too.

If this were in any other walk of life, it wouldn’t be allowed, and yet for some reason it’s allowed to play out in public like this.

Is it not just repeated indecent exposure?

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TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:46

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 03/02/2025 12:44

It's totally illegal - but because they are rich and famous is allowed.
The Grammy's are basically a work event for them - imagine if we all started rocking up to the All Bar One to celebrate Keiths promotion in the buff!

Maybe Keith would be delighted!

MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2025 12:48

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:46

It'a amazing that there are so many confident psychiatrists here who are able to diagnose based on SM pictures

Do you know many relationships in which the woman parades around naked outside, while taking instructions from her partner?

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TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:50

MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2025 12:48

Do you know many relationships in which the woman parades around naked outside, while taking instructions from her partner?

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Obviously not, but that doesn't mean Biance is mentally unstable

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 03/02/2025 12:51

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:50

Obviously not, but that doesn't mean Biance is mentally unstable

She doesn't look ok though. Like her expression is always one of slight fear and nervousness.
I agree we can't diagnose her mental state via SM but we can, and are, speculating that all is not well.

MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2025 12:52

@TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll there is definitely something not right - with either of them.

I don’t really believe she’s just an exhibitionist and loves it. I suspect she’s heavily under his influence and unable to escape it.

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BeaAndBen · 03/02/2025 12:52

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:50

Obviously not, but that doesn't mean Biance is mentally unstable

No, but my gods, the odds are high

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 03/02/2025 12:53

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 03/02/2025 12:44

It's totally illegal - but because they are rich and famous is allowed.
The Grammy's are basically a work event for them - imagine if we all started rocking up to the All Bar One to celebrate Keiths promotion in the buff!

😂 I think "Keith" would be delighted

But anyway, I'm not really sure if I am sad for her or not. Nobody can really know the ins and outs of a relationship I only hope she knows what she's doing and is wholeheartedly deciding of her own volition to parade her naked body for the world to gawp at.

Seems an odd desire, though.

ThePoshUns · 03/02/2025 12:53

She should have been locked up for indecent exposure.

takealettermsjones · 03/02/2025 12:54

I don't think you need to be a psychiatrist to suggest that someone who behaves in a way that's so wildly different from what's accepted as the cultural norm probably has issues of some description.

randomchap · 03/02/2025 12:54

ThePoshUns · 03/02/2025 12:53

She should have been locked up for indecent exposure.

Or her partner locked up for forcing her

She could be a victim here, not a criminal

Gowlett · 03/02/2025 12:55

She’s on Kanye’s payroll.
Getting paid plenty.

They’re not a couple.
Her job is to be his muse.

OnlyTheBravest · 03/02/2025 12:55

She should have been arrested for indecent exposure. There was absolutely no need to present herself in that way.

There were children present. Just how much lower can she sink.

SharpTiger · 03/02/2025 12:55

She should be arrested, and put on the sex offender's register. There was a very young boy standing about 10feet away from her. A regular person would be behind bars for that stunt by now.

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:55

BeaAndBen · 03/02/2025 12:52

No, but my gods, the odds are high

It makes me laugh; numerous threads on MN saying we can wear what we want where we want, yet for some reason, because this woman chooses to show her bits, she is mentally unwell!

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 03/02/2025 12:56

I wonder if she just lounges around in jeans and a hoodie at home?!

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:57

ThePoshUns · 03/02/2025 12:53

She should have been locked up for indecent exposure.

As should any woman topless on a beach, if you want to try that arguement

NovemberMorn · 03/02/2025 12:57

There is no way the GRAMMYS should have encouraged this, international publicity for them at the cost of a woman who seems to be drugged up to the eyeballs.

userlotsanumbers · 03/02/2025 12:57

What I can't get over, as I'm watching this presumed 'empowerment' exercise, is how well she's selling it to us as a recommended way of life. She looks so happy! So content and delighted with her lot. Makes me want to join in...oh wait....

LindorDoubleChoc · 03/02/2025 12:57

Why hasn't she been arrested? Is the law different in the US?

DemonicCaveMaggot · 03/02/2025 12:58

I have seen photos of her fully dressed when she is around friends or family and she looks happy and comfortable.

Whenever she is in one of those just about naked photos she looks uncomfortable enough to make me feel uncomfortable looking at it. I saw the video of her taking off the feather coat yesterday and it was like she was going to jump into a cold swimming pool and was dreading it If she is an exhibitionist she isn't very good at it. Tallulah Bankhead didn't get the reaction she wanted when she walked into a party so left and came in again stark naked. That's an exhibitionist who enjoys the attention. Bianca Censori doesn't look like she's enjoying it much. Either her husband is somehow forcing her into it or she's doing it for publicity, or it's some kind of weird art or psychology project and they'll be a huge reveal in a few months as to what it was all about.

takealettermsjones · 03/02/2025 12:59

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:55

It makes me laugh; numerous threads on MN saying we can wear what we want where we want, yet for some reason, because this woman chooses to show her bits, she is mentally unwell!

There's a time and a place. She's not in her own house or in a European sauna or on a nudist beach. She's at a (supposedly) prestigious award ceremony in front of the entire world.

I can't wear a bikini to church, or leather chaps and suspenders in court. If I stripped off on my local high street I'd (rightly) get arrested. There are decency laws for a reason.

MrsMoastyToasty · 03/02/2025 13:00

A loving husband would have said " come on Darling, I think you've overdone it . You'll catch your death of cold".

SlightlyJaded · 03/02/2025 13:00

I posted about her a few months ago - after the Italy trip where she walked round practically naked, dead behind the eyes and was photographed giving him a blow job on a boat in public view. I feel concern for her.

Although we just don't know, this smacks of controlling and coercive behaviour to me. Pre Kanye, she was 'playful' in her outfits but he has completely exploited that and pushed her to a place that feels like humiliation and degradation. I wouldn't be surprised if there was some kind of Dom/Sub thing going on, but whether she is completely proactively 'for' it, or just being forced into it, we can't know.

I have read that friends and family say she is less and less in contact and that she has pulled away from them and I think this, more than anything else, is what makes me think controlling. Oh and the fact that K is an fucking ego maniac who hasn't even tried to hide self delusions about himself.

She should absolutely be arrested for indecency and given a full psychiatric evaluation. She should also have some strong female/WA type support to find out what the fuck is going on.

MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2025 13:00

TheyAreNotAngelsTheyDontCareAtAll · 03/02/2025 12:55

It makes me laugh; numerous threads on MN saying we can wear what we want where we want, yet for some reason, because this woman chooses to show her bits, she is mentally unwell!

I’ve never seen a thread suggesting women should be going out for the evening completely stark naked.

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HornyHornersPinger · 03/02/2025 13:01

I think she's totally into it! At first I felt bad for her thinking he was probably coercing her but it's been going on too long now. Her family and friends have had plenty of time to intervene since we 1st saw her arse out, plenty of opportunity to 'rescue' her if that's what she wanted...
Nah, she's getting a kick out of it too, not just him.