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To think men and women are not the same

102 replies

B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:08

And that you would never find 100 women willing to have sex with the same man on the same day.

And women seem to be under pressure to pretend this isn't true.

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Yourfootisinmysirachamayo · 15/01/2025 08:10

Where have you seen women under pressure to pretend it isn't true? I don't feel any pressure

Didimum · 15/01/2025 08:14

I think you’d find 100 women willing to do this. Though a good number may likely work in the sex industry in some capacity, if they they weren’t otherwise compensated or paid. Saying that, 100 women isn’t a lot – there are billions after all from all walks of life and beliefs and preferences.

I don’t feel pressure in any way, it’s just what I think.

Newhi · 15/01/2025 08:15

I’m not sure who is putting pressure on you to be one of 100 women to have sex with a man in one day, but they sound unhinged. Just stop interacting with them.

DaDaDoDaiDa · 15/01/2025 08:17

What are you referring to, OP? Is this something in the news or on social media?

ShadowsOfTheDays · 15/01/2025 08:18

100 women?

What in the straw man...

WhatWouldJeevesDo · 15/01/2025 08:18

Well, most women wouldn’t be willing to have sex with a man who had to do 99 others on the same day, no. A hundred women worldwide might simultaneously fantasise about sex with one particular particularly desirable man.

3rdCoffeeThisMorning · 15/01/2025 08:21

Well that is VERY hypothetical since I don't think man could physically even do 100 women in 1 day.
IF one could, I am sure they would find 100 women in the vast amount of women.

Wolfpa · 15/01/2025 08:21

I doubt you would find a man capable of it either.

ImNotThereAmI · 15/01/2025 08:21

I understand what you mean op. I had a talk with a friend of mine about how there are a lot of men in the world who behave at different levels of disrespect towards women. Whether it’s doing something like your example, sexually harassing women at work, seeing prostitutes, the men who raped giselle picot, men who murder women. In my mind, these things are vastly mainly male behaviours and crimes. Her response was that there are a lot of women who do awful things too. I know this gets discussed a lot on here and always gets heated but I just don’t know what to say, I was staggered. Just seemed like a denial of the awful male problem that exists

Happyinarcon · 15/01/2025 08:22

Yes there’s a lot of pressure to pretend the opposite of reality in pretty much every sphere of life at the moment.

Garlicnorth · 15/01/2025 08:24

It's about the recent spate of young women having sex with ridiculous numbers of men for publicity and pay. The pressure OP refers to isn't about joining a queue to shag some man with a permanent erection, it's pressure to admit "women would do it too if the sexes were reversed".

Nah. Queueing up for a two-minute fuck alongside 99 other blokes is as skeevy as hell, and women just wouldn't be that skeevy.

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/lily-phillips-devastating-worry-future-34433469

Lily Phillips' upsetting fear about future after sleeping with 100 men in a day

As Lily Phillips enters 'training' ahead of her controversial 1,000-man event, people are upset after hearing OnlyFans star's concern about her future

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/lily-phillips-devastating-worry-future-34433469

B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:24

Wolfpa · 15/01/2025 08:21

I doubt you would find a man capable of it either.

But it's happened several times. There's no difficulty finding groups of men who all wants to have sex with a woman they don't know. There was Annabel Chong in the 90s and that girl the other month who didn't seem to have a great time but wants to go from 100 to 1000 in a day. I'm surprised you believe this is unusual for men.

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ImNotThereAmI · 15/01/2025 08:25

Garlicnorth · 15/01/2025 08:24

It's about the recent spate of young women having sex with ridiculous numbers of men for publicity and pay. The pressure OP refers to isn't about joining a queue to shag some man with a permanent erection, it's pressure to admit "women would do it too if the sexes were reversed".

Nah. Queueing up for a two-minute fuck alongside 99 other blokes is as skeevy as hell, and women just wouldn't be that skeevy.

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/lily-phillips-devastating-worry-future-34433469

Agree

ImNotThereAmI · 15/01/2025 08:25

B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:24

But it's happened several times. There's no difficulty finding groups of men who all wants to have sex with a woman they don't know. There was Annabel Chong in the 90s and that girl the other month who didn't seem to have a great time but wants to go from 100 to 1000 in a day. I'm surprised you believe this is unusual for men.

I think pp was saying a man isn’t capable of shagging 100 women in a day

Hoppingabout · 15/01/2025 08:26

What about over 1000 men in 12 hours (which has apparently now happened)?

There were harems in the past so I'm sure if a man had the necessary stamina (which I doubt) he would. I can't imagine the women would be so keen.

Letlooseonthedanse · 15/01/2025 08:26

B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:08

And that you would never find 100 women willing to have sex with the same man on the same day.

And women seem to be under pressure to pretend this isn't true.

Perhaps they needed workers and were getting paid they would - but to do it for free, have it filmed as part of an ‘experience’ not so much.

myplace · 15/01/2025 08:27

B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:24

But it's happened several times. There's no difficulty finding groups of men who all wants to have sex with a woman they don't know. There was Annabel Chong in the 90s and that girl the other month who didn't seem to have a great time but wants to go from 100 to 1000 in a day. I'm surprised you believe this is unusual for men.

I think @Wolfpa was suggesting you’d struggle to find the man for the job of servicing 100 ladies, rather than finding the 100 men, which we know they did.

B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:35

myplace · 15/01/2025 08:27

I think @Wolfpa was suggesting you’d struggle to find the man for the job of servicing 100 ladies, rather than finding the 100 men, which we know they did.

Oh I see, yes

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B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:39

Wolfpa · 15/01/2025 08:21

I doubt you would find a man capable of it either.

Sorry, shouldnt be posting like this before I've had my coffee I'm a bit slow. Capability isn't so relevant as it's more of a thought experiment - but theoretically the male could be passive, full of viagra and ladies can just hop on and off a minute at a time. Would any woman want to do that? Certainly not 100. Yet I'm sure plenty of men would volunteer

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Startinganew32 · 15/01/2025 08:46

Nah. Queueing up for a two-minute fuck alongside 99 other blokes is as skeevy as hell, and women just wouldn't be that skeevy.

Surely the skeeviest one here is the woman wanting to shag 1000 men in a day for no reason other than fame?
Anyway it’s not possible for a man to have sex with that many women in a day but I’m pretty sure you’d find women who were up for it if they could.

PerambulationFrustration · 15/01/2025 08:46

I think you would find 100 women to do this. Easily more than 100 on onlyfans.
Increase in social media views seems to be everything for some people and that includes lots of women.

Hoppingabout · 15/01/2025 09:04

PerambulationFrustration · 15/01/2025 08:46

I think you would find 100 women to do this. Easily more than 100 on onlyfans.
Increase in social media views seems to be everything for some people and that includes lots of women.

Agreed. It's terribly, terribly sad. Those girls are damaged people, even more so now presumably.

Rachmorr57 · 15/01/2025 09:05

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Spondoolies · 15/01/2025 09:15

Wolfpa · 15/01/2025 08:21

I doubt you would find a man capable of it either.

They only need to enter each one once, they don’t need to finish! 😬

Festschriften · 15/01/2025 09:20

OP, I get that you say you're slow before coffee, but surely you can see, however undercaffeinated, that this is a really poor basis for any kind of thought experiment, given that you have to completely reimagine male physiology and female sexual pleasure in order to do it?

There's an expression from where I grew up 'If my aunt had balls she'd be my uncle', meaning roughly 'If something were hypothetically entirely different, then the result would be entirely different.'

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