To think men and women are not the same

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And that you would never find 100 women willing to have sex with the same man on the same day.

And women seem to be under pressure to pretend this isn't true.

This woman is just gross

I think the difference is, women would do it if the man was hot (think rock star/actor types). Men will do it with any woman who has a choice of holes.

I also think some of these men did it to be part of a challenge (assuming it even happened - I am not convinced).

I remember at uni a girl in my halls, after a party in the bar - put out an invite for any of the men who had attended to have sex with her that evening. I recall only three took her up on it.

OK, but the men??!
She was doing it for money. They weren't. They just lined up to stick their dicks in her, one after the other. They all agreed to be filmed and signed away any rights.

To quote a comment on one of the news articles: men will fuck a corpse, they didn't even care if she was breathing.

This is definitely not a "women do it too" situation!

Oh they’re gross too! I don’t get this at all… they clearly have no respect for themselves and how can she not feel totally disgusting and violated having that much sex?! Eurgh!!

I think that IS an example of women needing an emotional connection. Those women who would say yes to the guy from one directional, would do it because they’ve had a crush or “been in love” or obsessed with him for years. Young women get like that about pop stars. That’s not a good comparison for the example where 100 men shagged a women they’ve never seen or met before

Of course men and women are completely different when it comes to sex. How many men pay for their drug habit by having sex with women in cars? I'm going to guess literally none.

I think women are less likely to want to do this than men, and less likely to see it as a turn on. However, I still think you could find 100 women or 1000 women to do it.

Most men see women as objects.

Even your loving dh has in his past had a "slampiece" as I've heard men call women who they just were fucking.

Liking the way somebody looks is not “an emotional connection.”

Nor does it mean you have “had a crush on them for years”.

where 100 men shagged a women they’ve never seen or met before

Loads of women shag a man they had not previously met. We also don’t know this alleged 100 had never seen phillips do we?

2 women having sex with 100+ men in a day over thirty years out of tens of billions of men (2.7bn x 30yrs =61.4bn men) does make it unusual for men too. So unusual that it is microscopic.

They will pay for it by having sex with men in cars though.

And male sex workers who exclusively cater to women do exist.

That’s so mindblowingly misogynistic.

Women will have fuckbuddies but will never refer to them in a derogatory way

I agree that there would be 100 or 1000 women willing to have sex with the same man in a day (if it were physically possible).

There is nothing normal or usual about anyone wanting to have sex with 100 or 1000 men/women in one day.

I mean I don't think any man could do that but surely it would depend on the man - if someone famous offered it, I bet women would.

There's billions of women (and men) from all different walks of life.

”fuck Buddy” isn’t derogatory?!
Don’t forget boytoy, jackhammer and the like.

My point was that those young women / girls who are infatuated with pop stars DO feel they have an emotional connection with them. I stand by my point that it’s therefore not a god comparison

No it’s not.

Nor are “boytoy” and jackhammer is derogotary but it’s meant to be as it does not refer to the man, but the way a man has sex that is totally dismissive of his female partner’s pleasure.

But fancying somebody does not mean you are infatuated with them.

Liking the way somebody looks is just that. It’s not indicative of an emotional connection.

Do people really believe she had sex with 1000 men? I don’t.

Derogatory is subjective imho. I don’t agree that women never use derogatory terms to describe their “fuckbuddies”.

Agree with you here! Sex doesn’t require an emotional connection.

Well we agree to disagree. One direction were used as an example and I was running with that. Girls and women were screaming at them, like the Take That of my day. Screaming and fainting at the sight of those boys. This is infatuation and obsession and those girls believe they’re in love. So again, I think saying those girls/women would shag that guy from tht band, is not a good comparison to men lining up to shag this woman in the op’s example.

Of course men and women are not the same when it comes to sex.

Research has repeatedly shown that women are much less likely to want or enjoy a one night stand, and they are much more likely to regret it and suffer emotional consequences.

However, I think that there is a lot of pressure a younger women to 'do it like a man' - because that's feminism and equality isn't it 🙄

Lots of women complain that men on OLD are only looking for sex these days, but you can't really blame them. This is the culture that we've created.