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To think men and women are not the same

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B0xes · 15/01/2025 08:08

And that you would never find 100 women willing to have sex with the same man on the same day.

And women seem to be under pressure to pretend this isn't true.

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JHound · 16/01/2025 15:03

MidnightMeltdown · 15/01/2025 14:10

Of course men and women are not the same when it comes to sex.

Research has repeatedly shown that women are much less likely to want or enjoy a one night stand, and they are much more likely to regret it and suffer emotional consequences.

However, I think that there is a lot of pressure a younger women to 'do it like a man' - because that's feminism and equality isn't it 🙄

Lots of women complain that men on OLD are only looking for sex these days, but you can't really blame them. This is the culture that we've created.

In today’s episode of “women are always to blame for men’s behaviour”…..

Onetimeonly2024 · 16/01/2025 15:28

B0xes · 15/01/2025 15:52

They are not representative of all men. No. But surely we need to acknowledge that there is something inherently different in the male psyche that compels them to do these things in a staggeringly higher proportion than women. To take a dreadful example, how many men did Dominic Pelicot manage to recruit, in only a 20 mile radius, to commit such a serious sex crime. Even in the most densely populated area, I think you'd have a hard time finding one woman who wants to use an unconscious male for her own gratification. I know people will make spurious claims to the obvious flaws regarding the mechanics of this, but they are deliberately ignoring the point.

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Totally agree op. I think a lot of men have very different views to women when it comes to sex and power.
How many women would visit a brothel and pick out a man to shag them? Particularly if said man may be underage or may have been trafficked? How many would want to (assuming it was physically possible) have sex with a man who had been drugged into unconsciousness?
How many female flashers are there? Or rapists?
These are not things that women do.

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