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To ask you about your partner's pants

118 replies

TheTwirlyPoos · 20/11/2024 21:53

Right. DH has asked me to ask this

Does you DH/ partner whatever go commando when they are in normal everyday clothes?

YABU - yes they do and it's normal
YANBU - no that's odd

Totally lighthearted!

OP posts:
itsmylife7 · 20/11/2024 21:55

you first.

ainkeepsfalling · 20/11/2024 21:56

It's odd

TheTwirlyPoos · 20/11/2024 21:56

DH does it all the time and I think it's weird!

OP posts:
Bigearringsbigsmile · 20/11/2024 21:58

Absolutely weird and unhygienic and yucky. What if he got run over by a bus?

UpUpUpU · 20/11/2024 22:01

My partner is, ahem, very well endowed. He needs to wear underwear. He sleeps naked though

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 20/11/2024 22:02

He wears pants. There's enough washing to do already, I wouldn't thank him for adding 7 pairs of trousers to the pile each week.

Willsnbills · 20/11/2024 22:03

No, he wears boxers.

INeedAnotherName · 20/11/2024 22:04

Absolutely weird and unhygienic and yucky.

Agreed.

TheTwirlyPoos · 20/11/2024 22:04

This is so enormously gratifying.

So I bet from these responses that you're saying your partner's don't do this...

OP posts:
SmalllChange · 20/11/2024 22:04

No, I'm not married to Richard Madeley.

SensibleSigma · 20/11/2024 22:05

The world needs more than one layer of fabric between it and arses.

SmalllChange · 20/11/2024 22:05

Bigearringsbigsmile · 20/11/2024 21:58

Absolutely weird and unhygienic and yucky. What if he got run over by a bus?

They'd have to be some heavy duty pants to protect him from that.

JustJoinedRightNow · 20/11/2024 22:06

I hope he does his own laundry OP - gross

KnittedCardi · 20/11/2024 22:06

YANBU. It's odd, and unhygienic.... How do I put this, when, men tend to dribble post wee...... So no, yuk.

JustJoinedRightNow · 20/11/2024 22:06

SmalllChange · 20/11/2024 22:05

They'd have to be some heavy duty pants to protect him from that.

Lol

edwinbear · 20/11/2024 22:09

Utterly grim not to wear pants. His trousers must stink.

murasaki · 20/11/2024 22:13

As said above, its a hard no to 7 pairs of trousers in the wash per week, and a total no to a man who wears no pants who doesn't think you'd need new trousers every day.

XmasMarkets · 20/11/2024 22:13

No!

LuluBlakey1 · 20/11/2024 22:14

No.

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 20/11/2024 22:19

No.
DH has so many pairs of boxers it’s ridiculous. And as he’s sporty and changes them after exercise, we end of about 14 pairs a week in the wash. Sometimes more.
but I’d rather that than everything hanging free

SwingTheMonkey · 20/11/2024 22:19

He doesn’t go commando under daytime clothes, ever, thank god! If you were wearing jeans, wouldn’t it chafe?!

tolerable · 20/11/2024 22:22

2 who never did one who always did(but not for long-lol)

Printedword · 20/11/2024 22:26

I thought it was women that worried about vpl 🤣

GlovesScarfAndBoots · 20/11/2024 22:28

I don't think any of my partners have ever gone commando to my knowledge. DH appreciates a bit of support from boxer briefs and would hate to feel everything flopping around.

Floogal · 20/11/2024 22:32

My DH wears briefs 🩲 🩲.