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To ask you about your partner's pants

118 replies

TheTwirlyPoos · 20/11/2024 21:53

Right. DH has asked me to ask this

Does you DH/ partner whatever go commando when they are in normal everyday clothes?

YABU - yes they do and it's normal
YANBU - no that's odd

Totally lighthearted!

OP posts:
BarbedButterfly · 21/11/2024 13:07

He does go commando on occasion. I only wear undies if I am wearing a skirt. It is a sensory thing for me, can't stand the feeling under trousers. We both sleep naked.

nam3c4ang3 · 21/11/2024 13:07

ewwww his trousers must smell of bum and willy. GROSS op. 😂😱

fantasmasgoria1 · 21/11/2024 13:10

My husband wears trunk boxers. He said he would never go commando as he says it would be uncomfortable . He likes to feel supported!

Mischance · 21/11/2024 13:11

Post pee dribbles and skid marks - on his TROUSERS!! What can he be thinking of? It is gross - I'd divorce him.

BeensOnToost · 21/11/2024 13:11

This makes me think of those repulsive men who wear jogging bottoms with no pants and you can see their cocks through their trousers. It's like getting an unwanted dick pic 🤮

Even worse when you see them rummaging down there.

randomchap · 21/11/2024 13:19

Absolutely not

Going commando is just fucking odd

Dangerous too with zip flies

KStockHERO · 21/11/2024 13:19

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 13:02

People keep saying that but not why

Because vaginas leak juices.
Because having trouser material rubbing on your minge isn't ideal.

JFC.

OP - My DP wears boxers in the day. Specifically Saxx boxers which tuck all the gubbins in a nice little pouch. He sleeps naked.
No pants = instant ick. Pervert vibes.

Bigearringsbigsmile · 21/11/2024 16:47

KStockHERO · 21/11/2024 13:19

Because vaginas leak juices.
Because having trouser material rubbing on your minge isn't ideal.

JFC.

OP - My DP wears boxers in the day. Specifically Saxx boxers which tuck all the gubbins in a nice little pouch. He sleeps naked.
No pants = instant ick. Pervert vibes.

This!

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 21/11/2024 16:51

No!! 🤢

Jazz7 · 21/11/2024 16:51

DH is ex commando and says they wear pants in the field for hygiene reasons. Have to stay well. Also wears them day to day for same reason. No idea where expression came from

Porcelainpig · 21/11/2024 16:54

His balls go commando, judging by the holes in the gusset. Best of both worlds I guess. 😂

sweetpickle2 · 21/11/2024 16:59

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 12:58

They just aren't necessary except in certain situations. That's just more laundry to do. Plus if you're wearing even moderately tight trousers, then you get panty lines.

Does that mean you don't wash your trousers every day even though you have your genitals on them?

I'm not clean freak but that is minging sorry.

Stickthatupyourdojo · 21/11/2024 17:03

Porcelainpig · 21/11/2024 16:54

His balls go commando, judging by the holes in the gusset. Best of both worlds I guess. 😂

GrinGrinGrin

My ex didn't wear pants. In hindsight I should have taken that as the first red flag.

thiswaypleasethankyou · 21/11/2024 17:05

DH would be horrified by this idea!

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 21:43

sweetpickle2 · 21/11/2024 16:59

Does that mean you don't wash your trousers every day even though you have your genitals on them?

I'm not clean freak but that is minging sorry.

I usually wear my trousers/skirts once and then I wash them in between, with the exception of jeans (with which I wear underpants.)

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 21:47

KStockHERO · 21/11/2024 13:19

Because vaginas leak juices.
Because having trouser material rubbing on your minge isn't ideal.

JFC.

OP - My DP wears boxers in the day. Specifically Saxx boxers which tuck all the gubbins in a nice little pouch. He sleeps naked.
No pants = instant ick. Pervert vibes.

I guess my vaginal secretions aren't as precipitous as others', because I don't leak through my skirts/trousers. (With the exception of times when I'm bleeding/ovulating, but then of course I don undies and a sanitary pad.) I wash bottoms in between wears.

With looser bottoms, it feels better to go without fabric against the coochie. but to each their own, I guess.

Futurethinking2026 · 21/11/2024 21:49

SmalllChange · 20/11/2024 22:05

They'd have to be some heavy duty pants to protect him from that.

This made me laugh wayyy more than it should have.

RockyFowlboa · 21/11/2024 21:50

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 21/11/2024 13:05

You could wash one or two pairs of trousers a week plus seven pairs of knickers, or seven pairs of trousers. Seven pairs of trousers is a lot more by volume and weight so is more washing.

You wear the same two pairs of trousers a collective total of 7 times a week!? Don't you sweat in them?

I could never. For me, it's 7 bottoms and 7 pairs of undies, or 7 bottoms and no undies (unless needed)

Bunnyhair · 21/11/2024 21:50

My DH wears boxers.

I don’t see how it could be at all comfortable to have your tadger abraded by denim or wool. But then what do I know.

MaryGreenhill · 21/11/2024 21:51

No never

Futurethinking2026 · 21/11/2024 21:52

DH does go commando in the house a lot these days under loose joggers or bed shorts.

He wouldn’t go out commando generally but we have occasionally popped out after he’s got into his ‘comfy’ clothes.

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 21/11/2024 22:25

Futurethinking2026 · 21/11/2024 21:49

This made me laugh wayyy more than it should have.

Me too - a literal LOL.

Disturbia81 · 21/11/2024 22:33

SensibleSigma · 20/11/2024 22:05

The world needs more than one layer of fabric between it and arses.

This! Same with gym leggings etc. Fluids and smells definitely gather in the fabric in contact..
And don't get me started on the women who go knickerless in skirts and dresses. 🤢

Disturbia81 · 21/11/2024 22:36

nam3c4ang3 · 21/11/2024 13:07

ewwww his trousers must smell of bum and willy. GROSS op. 😂😱

🤣

RockyFowlboa · 22/11/2024 00:30

Disturbia81 · 21/11/2024 22:33

This! Same with gym leggings etc. Fluids and smells definitely gather in the fabric in contact..
And don't get me started on the women who go knickerless in skirts and dresses. 🤢

Why would you ever find out that women are pantless in skirts and dresses unless the garments in question were extremely short?

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