To ask where women get their....

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I didn't want the thread to be raunchy as that's not what I'm asking.
I often read about women saying on threads how it's so easy for women to get D if they want. I'd like to know where these women speak off and why it's so easy but so difficult for me!
Lighthearted really. But I'm in my late 30's and being singe is no fun at all when you love sex like I do!
I don't understand where I'm going wrong...
I'm relatively attractive. Definitely not a stunner but certainly not hideous!
I have a job and a nice home. I'm a good friend and genuinely a really nice person! So I don't understand my predicament at all 😂
I know no one can give me an answer but where does all this 'it's so easy to find a man for sex' come from?

D? What's D? If you're not grown up enough to say it, you're not grown up enough to be doing it.

For me, it was ex partners. When I was single - and they knew I was single, I would sometimes get a "hey, how are you?" Text every few months. If I followed that up it would almost certainly end up in a sexual encounter if I had wanted it to be.

So yeah, any ex partner or old male colleague/friend etc.

Just go clubbing and make eye-contact?

Women on here who talk about online dating make it sound like that would be what your after

It probably isn't hard to get. Whether it will be enjoyable is another question!

ex partner I can understand.
Old male friends and colleagues though?!

D?

I don't like being singed either.

I have no idea what this thread is supposed to be about!

Can’t work it out from the post, no?

The only single people I know all use online dating apps!

If you just want no-strings sex with a good looking stranger of your choice, then hookup apps, nightclubs, and (if you’re in London) parties like TG, KV, Decom etc are your friend. It’s not that difficult. You can often turn into a longer term FwB arrangement if it goes well.

If you prefer to build a connection first before any sex then it’s probably a lot more effort.

Any women can get dick of they want. As long as they're not choosy like. There are slim pickings out there. You have to sift through the pervs, the ones that won't use condoms, hygiene etc.

Ultimately you have to feel safe with whoever you want to shag. That's why a lot of people go for ex shags on occasion.

Dance partner I think

Tinder

😂 great typo!

Anyone remember that tea advert?

“I could do with a D!”

D?

On the remote off-chance this isn’t a joke thread - OP if you want casual no-strings sex, you could have it tonight. In half an hour in fact. Just go on to any dating site, say that you want just sex, and you will get 100 replies within a few minutes.

Tinder or Bumble

Ah, so it means Dick.

Why couldn't you just say that?

I didn't want the thread to be raunchy as that's not what I'm asking

Yeah, right.......

Yeah okay

Getting DICK is the easiest thing in the world

I'm in my 50's and could literally smile and make eye contact with any bloke roughly my age and have him back at my house in an hour and I am NOT a looker

Men are pathetic

Walk into any bar, any building site, anywhere guys are and shout any one up for it and you'll get half a dozen, unless your confidence is misplaced. Also kebab and chicken shops after midnight. How do I know? My hairdresser told me and she is nearly sixty and regularly has no strings sex with men half her age.

Lol she wasn't being coy. It's literally just slang used quite frequently nowadays.