To ask where women get their....

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I didn't want the thread to be raunchy as that's not what I'm asking.
I often read about women saying on threads how it's so easy for women to get D if they want. I'd like to know where these women speak off and why it's so easy but so difficult for me!
Lighthearted really. But I'm in my late 30's and being singe is no fun at all when you love sex like I do!
I don't understand where I'm going wrong...
I'm relatively attractive. Definitely not a stunner but certainly not hideous!
I have a job and a nice home. I'm a good friend and genuinely a really nice person! So I don't understand my predicament at all 😂
I know no one can give me an answer but where does all this 'it's so easy to find a man for sex' come from?

FWBs. Works very well for me.

Very effective : Hold eye contact whilst eating a banana.

The most effective : Hold eye contact whilst eating two bananas.

I’m in my 40s, fat and average looking. I am married, happily so. At work there are at least 3 men I could shag by just saying the word if I wanted. 2 of whom are married, one has a girlfriend. Some men can be led by their dicks and think about repercussions only if forced to do so.

Work a few shifts in a petrol station. Lots of men offering there to the women on the kiosk. Pump D please! 😁

My hairdresser, late 50s, average in every way, but confident, regularly sex from lads on the building site down the road. Good sex too she reckons. She’s picked up men in Tescos too, and reckons she has a couple of customers (female) whose husbands she shags by arrangement as the wives don’t want sex anymore but don’t want their husbands to leave and know she won’t run off with them as she likes variety too much.

It's more slang now, comes from algorithms on social media picking up the word dick so people keeping it safe to not get banned

I started dating again at 43 when my partner and I became poly, a few years ago now. I was surprised how easy it was to get likes on apps, but I guess I shouldn't have been! I tend to use Feeld and OkCupid just as they're best for non-monogamy (which if you're looking for casual or FWB you may as well go that route). Always a better dating scene for women. I prefer meeting people IRL (kink & poly events for me, but I've also been speed dating etc) but as long as you have the time to trawl through the numerous guys online you'll find the apps are a good way. If you really just want a quick hook up, there's a website called Fab Swingers, but it is a total minefield on there