To ask where women get their....

[womenloveittoo]

I didn't want the thread to be raunchy as that's not what I'm asking.
I often read about women saying on threads how it's so easy for women to get D if they want. I'd like to know where these women speak off and why it's so easy but so difficult for me!
Lighthearted really. But I'm in my late 30's and being singe is no fun at all when you love sex like I do!
I don't understand where I'm going wrong...
I'm relatively attractive. Definitely not a stunner but certainly not hideous!
I have a job and a nice home. I'm a good friend and genuinely a really nice person! So I don't understand my predicament at all 😂
I know no one can give me an answer but where does all this 'it's so easy to find a man for sex' come from?

I wouldn't say that because you will get creeps. Just use flirty pics and say something vague like you're open to having fun and seeing what happens...that's code for wanting no strings without being too graphic

I thought standard old sites were chock full of men looking for sex and trying to use them as hookup sites (?)

I've sent you a pm

😳 fantastic!

For my colleague it was the man on Tinder saying- I'm in LaLaLand for the weekend and interested in hooking up, blah blah blah...

For me - I get a regular 'fix' from my ex.

At other times you just need to look good, smell good and put yourself in someone's way. Dropping the handkerchief per se.

By just being brazen and direct about it.

How many PMs from men have you received on here?

Back when I was single and in that phase at a similar age… old acquaintances from Facebook.

1. Post a flirty selfie
2. Note which single guys “like” it
3. Message them, “Hey, long time no see! How are you?” Etc
4. They reply and ask if you want to catch up
5. Voila

This.

This sounds about right 😊

Feeld. I found it relatively easy last year to have no strings with some guys

Wish me luck guys... I've just changed my status online asking if any hot guys want to hook up!

I surely won't go through meeting randoms but I'm so curious to see if the offers suddenly come in!

You might mean dick, you might mean dildo, you might mean anything. How would I know what you mean, I don't do cheap shags and don't advertise for them. Unless you frequent places like Tindr, you're not going to know the lingo. Same as non MNers don't always know what YABU means. Grow up, Jesus.

@Balloonhearts I think you need to grow up if you can't read the OP and figure out what D is within a minute or two.

Love this response

Why is it capitalised? The op not you, that means a man called Richard. Op if you want no strings sex you'll need to be able to say words in full I think.

@Balloonhearts I wonder why it annoys you so much? 😁
If she feels more comfortable sayng D and I like everyone else figured out what she meant then let her.

Very strange how intolerant and ragey people are on here. 🤭

Why would I? I don't sleep around so how would I know the abbreviations?

@Balloonhearts If I just wanted a dildo I wouldn't be asking for advice on here would I? Are you really mean and rude by nature?

I'm not ragey about it, I just think if people are asking a question they should ask it, not hope people will guess what they mean. If you're an adult who wants a one night stand, just ask How do I get a one night stand. No one is going to judge you for wanting no strings sex, you're a grown up. Just come out and say it rather than playing coy. If it was in the sex topic, people would probably know. Here, not so much.

You might do. You might be asking what brands are good, what shops to go to. That's the point. You're not on the sex board, not everyone is going to guess.

Dill. I try to get it in Waitrose most of the time but excited to try some of the suggestions in this thread

definitely try Fabswingers

@Balloonhearts Yes i can definitely see where you are coming from.

You did come across a little ragey though.

Just go on Tinder or bumble @womenloveittoo

I know someone who would absolutely rail you