To ask where women get their....

[womenloveittoo]

I didn't want the thread to be raunchy as that's not what I'm asking.
I often read about women saying on threads how it's so easy for women to get D if they want. I'd like to know where these women speak off and why it's so easy but so difficult for me!
Lighthearted really. But I'm in my late 30's and being singe is no fun at all when you love sex like I do!
I don't understand where I'm going wrong...
I'm relatively attractive. Definitely not a stunner but certainly not hideous!
I have a job and a nice home. I'm a good friend and genuinely a really nice person! So I don't understand my predicament at all 😂
I know no one can give me an answer but where does all this 'it's so easy to find a man for sex' come from?

I'm more mildly irritated. I spend most of my day listening to silly teenagers giggling over bad words, grown women are a little harder to tolerate.

To be honest I have never been greatly interest in the D. I however always got the vibe if I was to put it on offer there would be plenty of takers (men aren't exactly subtle).

Is this the same as girls that keep posting here that they dressed up in a special blouse because they fancy someone at work and he looked in their direction 3 times in 2 hours so what does that mean? When clearly it means go fucking talk to them like a normal human not playing silly guessing games.

Want the D then just make a move and offer it. Worst they can say is no.

If you make a move most (not all though) single men will usually reciprocate (some non single ones will too but I would suggest you avoid that type).

Now if you want a very specific man for a relationship there might be more too it as he might not feel the same but if you JUST want generic D from anyone its really not going to be that hard to find a taker if you offer it up for free.

The hook up I can do, it's just the hot guy part that I'm struggling with.

Ooh. Thanks

@dannyufcfan you're right. It was cringy so I didn't write that!

Ha ha are you a man lol

@Balloonhearts you are right. I wasn't forthcoming. The only reason I wrote it like that was because I know on some online forums you get blocked or banned for using certain language.

@TorroFerney I said it like that as sometimes you can be banned on some forums for using certain language.
Sorry it wasn't clear. I'm not illiterate. I was just trying to be discreet.

Yep this. I once created a completely blank profile on there no pics etc or any info about me and within about half hour I had about 30 messages from men, some saying hello gorgeous 😂😂😭🙄 the desperation reeks from a lot of blokes in those kind of apps. So sex Is definitely readily available for most women but if you actually want to shag a decent guy then you'll have to weed a lot out first.

Op on this thread alone you've had at least 2 or 3 men offering it 😂😂🙄 and this is mumsnet, if you go on an app for sex you'll be hounded by them.

Well yes, it really is incredibly easy to get laid.

Just go online. You will get offers tonight

Lol no definitely a woman

From Boots. Once a day. Particularly important during the months when we don’t have much sunlight.

I tend to opt for 25 micrograms.

Yep and when women are looking for serious relationships only they quite often just get men looking for casual...

Go and post in the sex topic @womenloveittoo and you'll get plenty of offers there.

oggymummar · Yesterday 14:47

Walk into any bar, any building site, anywhere guys are and shout any one up for it and you'll get half a dozen, unless your confidence is misplaced. Also kebab and chicken shops after midnight. How do I know? My hairdresser told me and she is nearly sixty and regularly has no strings sex with men half her age.
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Tinder / Hinge. Just put some pictures in revealing outfits and write in bio- open for short term relationships. You’ll have hundreds matches

@Balloonhearts maybe some D would chill you out 😱😉

Become a prostitute? Win win.
Only joking. Honestly I just think saying on your OLD profile you are up for casual sex would be enough. You'll potentially be able to see people withing an hour I'd have thought.
Or just go out to a busy pub on a Friday or Saturday night and flirt. The sex you get might not be fantastic, but I'd say if you're not too fussed then actually getting it is probably easy.

Dubonet of course!

Women who get loads of men aren't fussy

So just lower standards

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But surely you want to be a bit choosy? Yes you could advertise for a sexual partner but you would only get the dregs.

Do online dating and weed them out a bit.

@Balloonhearts DICK, she means cock