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To feel slightly suspicious of dp

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wwyt · 27/09/2024 11:36

Hi, I'm looking to know would YOU be suspicious? I'm not really suspicious but maybe a bit slightly?

So, dp works for his dads business and has for the last 10 years. Dp doesn't start work until 9. Usually he would set an alarm for 8:30 which sounds really late but his workplace is a 2 minute drive from our home. And he's really easy going 🤣. His dad doesn't drive but a workmate would always collect him.

About a month ago dp started setting alarms at 6.45-7:15 getting up and leaving the house within 10 mins of those alarms. (Extremely early from before) I've been with dp 5 years he's never up that early for work.

He says it's because he's starting to give his dad a lift to work every morning. His mum and dad live a 5 minute drive from our home. That's not too suspicious. But the thing that's making me go 🤨 is he's leaving home in the mornings in his normal clothes. He says he gets ready in his parents house just before he leaves for work as it's easier?

He has a specific work uniform. He would always get ready here before leaving.

So he's started leaving the house over an hour earlier than usual and not getting ready here?

Would you be suspicious?

OP posts:
Mercedes45 · 21/10/2024 13:15

There Is another thread about something weird going on in OPs house and I reckon it's the same person

Thursdaygirl · 21/10/2024 13:36

Mercedes45 · 21/10/2024 13:15

There Is another thread about something weird going on in OPs house and I reckon it's the same person

Oh no (because the other thread you refer to is very interesting)!!!!

Errors · 21/10/2024 13:53

Thursdaygirl · 21/10/2024 13:36

Oh no (because the other thread you refer to is very interesting)!!!!

Which thread 👀

YellowphantGrey · 21/10/2024 13:53

Mercedes45 · 21/10/2024 13:15

There Is another thread about something weird going on in OPs house and I reckon it's the same person

They must be after a few "novel" ideas 😄

Polpettina1986 · 21/10/2024 14:00

Did you manage to find out what he's about??

Hope you are well OP

AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair · 21/10/2024 15:21

Mercedes45 · 21/10/2024 13:15

There Is another thread about something weird going on in OPs house and I reckon it's the same person

What's your basis for coming to that conclusion?

theresnoautomobile · 21/10/2024 17:49

It's just the crows all over again 😔

SurelySmartie · 21/10/2024 17:51

Mercedes45 · 21/10/2024 13:15

There Is another thread about something weird going on in OPs house and I reckon it's the same person

Which one the one with blood on the cistern or the one with missing loaves of bread??

LionAndEmperor13 · 21/10/2024 17:56

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TequilaNights · 21/10/2024 18:15

Oh I see it! (Hard to unsee once you see it.)

Dandelionsarefree · 25/10/2024 22:13

LionAndEmperor13 · 21/10/2024 00:09

AIBU to obsess over this thread and let it keep me awake at night? 😆
I NEED to know what happened! (sorry not meaning to be insensitive to OP but my curiosity is off the scale)

😂😂

Outnumberedmummy2022 · 26/10/2024 00:22

Mercedes45 · 21/10/2024 13:15

There Is another thread about something weird going on in OPs house and I reckon it's the same person

Did she ever find out what that was? Last I checked she just never updated

Polpettina1986 · 26/10/2024 08:42

Dandelionsarefree · 25/10/2024 22:13

😂😂

Same here!!! We want to know 🤣🤣

bringslight · 26/10/2024 20:09

update, young lady?

bringslight · 26/10/2024 20:10

Link to other thread ?

Miniopolis · 26/10/2024 20:44

bringslight · 26/10/2024 20:09

update, young lady?

Are you her grandpa?

Lifeisbetterbythesea · 26/10/2024 23:58

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OrchardBlack · 28/10/2024 16:33

bringslight · 26/10/2024 20:09

update, young lady?

Gross.

Freddie77 · 29/12/2025 04:21

wwyt · 03/10/2024 14:12

I can't confidently walk away without real clear evidence.

He won't give it to me so I have to find the evidence myself in quiet to avoid him covering anything up.

Never in our relationship was there a trust issue this has been the first.

If it's an affair I'll walk away and not look back , trust me I just can't without proof

Did you ever find out @wwyt? Have thought of you often.

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