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Would a 17 year old girl like this or is it cringe?

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StyleSiren · 18/09/2024 11:37

Bought this for my niece's birthday because she loves animals but now am having second thoughts. She's quite a trendy girl, into goth clothes/makeup etc. Would she be seen dead carrying this? It's weekend bag-sized.

Would a 17 year old girl like this or is it cringe?
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Mrsphilmiller · 18/09/2024 11:38

Erm…. It’s kinda gross op 😂

K0OLA1D · 18/09/2024 11:39

As an ALT person myself I would use it. But only you know her and her tastes.

berksandbeyond · 18/09/2024 11:39

A 17 year old goth? No

StyleSiren · 18/09/2024 11:45

Mrsphilmiller · 18/09/2024 11:38

Erm…. It’s kinda gross op 😂

Aw, rats!
I might give it to an elderly lady friend instead.

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FoxtrotOscarKindaDay · 18/09/2024 11:46

Nemesis Now bags would be more suiting to a 17 year old goth favouring animal lover.

Think you've made a mistake on the colour and print this time.

StyleSiren · 18/09/2024 11:46

K0OLA1D · 18/09/2024 11:39

As an ALT person myself I would use it. But only you know her and her tastes.

Yes, it's hard to know without asking, and then it would spoil the surprise.

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Needmorelego · 18/09/2024 11:46

My 16 year old would like it.
But she goes from goth to rock band t-shirts to kawaii to football shirts depending on mood.
She's also autistic and doesn't give a fig what other people think of her tastes.
Would she have need to use a weekend bag that much?

Berga · 18/09/2024 11:47

I'd use it, but I'm a colourful popsy dress middle aged counsellor type. My alt goth teen would be horrified 😂

OrwellianTimes · 18/09/2024 11:48

As a former goth that’s a no from me. But everyone is different.

StyleSiren · 18/09/2024 11:48

FoxtrotOscarKindaDay · 18/09/2024 11:46

Nemesis Now bags would be more suiting to a 17 year old goth favouring animal lover.

Think you've made a mistake on the colour and print this time.

Thanks for the tip. Those look really tacky to me but what do I know (clearly!)?

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Olika · 18/09/2024 11:49

I cannot decide if I hate it or love it. 😂 I suppose it really depends on if you can see her using it.

StyleSiren · 18/09/2024 11:50

Needmorelego · 18/09/2024 11:46

My 16 year old would like it.
But she goes from goth to rock band t-shirts to kawaii to football shirts depending on mood.
She's also autistic and doesn't give a fig what other people think of her tastes.
Would she have need to use a weekend bag that much?

This one also flirts with different styles. She does have a lot of outings/trips to Europe etc.

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DeCaray · 18/09/2024 11:51

It's absolutely hideous but perfect for one of my yarn products!

Idontjetwashthefucker · 18/09/2024 11:52

I love it and would use for trips away...but I'm not a 17 year old goth, you do say she like animals though so who knows whether she'd like it.

Could you get her a voucher for a shop she really likes instead, or bung her some cash to be on the safe side?

Willthiswork78 · 18/09/2024 11:53

No!! My almost 17 year old would say that's horrendous. Sorry!

Threetrees745 · 18/09/2024 11:54

Sorry but I think this is quite childish looking for a 17 year old. They are realistically only a few months away from clubbing and pubbing and that looks like a kids school bag 😬

Andoutcomethewolves · 18/09/2024 11:55

I can see the kind of look you're going for (a bit alternative, quirky and different) and it almost works but I think just misses the mark a bit. My 16 year old DN often mixes up her usual goth/rocker look with bold colours and prints and girly stuff and makes it somehow look effortlessly cool 😅 but I'm not sure she would go for this...

Putting · 18/09/2024 11:59

StyleSiren · 18/09/2024 11:48

Thanks for the tip. Those look really tacky to me but what do I know (clearly!)?

They look a lot less tacky than the bag you posted in your OP, at least for a 17 year old goth.

I think the bag you suggest is either for people a lot younger or a lot older.

Scallopp · 18/09/2024 11:59

So hard for us to know, we don't know her likes/dislikes.

Gardendiary · 18/09/2024 12:01

I don't think so op, not for a 17yo goth. I actually quite like it, but I don't have great taste and a penchant for overly patterned things, so don't listen to me!

AmeliaEarache · 18/09/2024 12:02

Black. If she's a goth, default to black.

She might enjoy kitsch pops of colour, but those will be very much individual to her and she'd need to piuck them.

Chimi · 18/09/2024 12:02

Seems too childish for a teen, it’s giving vibes of a nappy bag or a bag for a small child. If she’s quite into clothes and makeup or particular about it, maybe a voucher so she can pick one she’s likes or if you’re close a shopping session together?

BobbyBiscuits · 18/09/2024 12:03

At 17 I probably wouldn't have minded it. But the colours are quite bright which might not be great for a goth girl. I was more 'raver/cyber goth' looking at that time so was into luminous colours. If you keep the receipt she can always change it or get a refund.

Threetrees745 · 18/09/2024 12:04

A bit of a rock and roll vibe is my kind of style but I'm 32 so I try and go for a bit more of an age appropriate and more chic approach but I like this shop and I would choose this bag

https://little-lies.com/products/nevada-tan-suede-bucket-bag

There are also some statement canvas totes on there which are maybe more of a teenage vibe.

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