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To think that smoking weed outside in the summer is anti social

139 replies

Livingnexttothesmokies · 11/05/2024 10:49

My neighbours are a couple in their late 50s, we get on ok but there's no love lost there- they complain about everyone else all of the time but never do wrong themselves.

Over the last 2 years they've developed a weed habit (it's medicinal apparently) and now the sun is out they seem to take turns chain smoking weed so our garden smells almost constantly of weed. If we leave the windows open it makes our house smell of it too so when they light up we have to close the windows.

Our gardens are narrow terraced gardens so we can't escape it. Aibu to think that constantly smoking weed in the summer when people around you want to use their gardens is anti social?

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ItsSerious · 11/05/2024 14:08

CruCru · 11/05/2024 13:33

I am sorry that you need pain relief.

Cannabis hasn’t been legalised. It has been moved up the drug classifications from class C to class B. I do see that there are people on here who don’t like the law but it is the law in the UK. Should the police arrest someone for possession / possession with intent to supply, that the person arrested doesn’t like the law won’t be a good defence.

The people I feel sorry for are the kids on scooters who are supplying this stuff. They are not paid anything like enough to justify the risk of a possession with intent conviction.

Cannabis is legal in the UK for medicinal use, if you have a prescription. I personally take it as an oil but you can also vape it legally. Smoking it is always illegal, though.

mitogoshi · 11/05/2024 14:10

I would be reporting via 101 and filing a report of anti social behaviour to the council every single incidence.

I did this myself and the family left fairly quickly

CruCru · 11/05/2024 14:16

QueenMegan · 11/05/2024 13:56

Absolutely agree it should be legalised and controlled too. The first thing they should do is add something to dampen the stink

Realistically, weed is not going to be legalised. It was moved to class B because of the link between smoking skunk and mental illness. A year or so ago there was some talk of moving it to class A but that didn’t go anywhere.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 11/05/2024 14:26

Chemical infused skunk smells disgusting and is at the heart of a major MH crisis amongst young men. I wouldn't mind the old school solid Lebanese Hash so much!

Getonwitit · 11/05/2024 15:03

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 11/05/2024 11:04

No worse that regular smoking, loud music or the dog having a clear out.

Wouldn’t actually bother me. Weed smells much nicer than regular smoking/vaping.

Of course it is and illegal to boot.

Livingnexttothesmokies · 11/05/2024 15:05

I get that other smells like bonfires and bbqs are annoying and intrusive but they tend to only be occasional and last for an hour or two. This really is all day.

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OneTC · 11/05/2024 15:11

CruCru · 11/05/2024 14:16

Realistically, weed is not going to be legalised. It was moved to class B because of the link between smoking skunk and mental illness. A year or so ago there was some talk of moving it to class A but that didn’t go anywhere.

America was the Wests crusader when it came to prohibition.

Now they're not bothered and aren't applying pressure to other countries to maintain prohibition.

So yeah it probably will become legal, once they can work out what will sit will enough with the public

Youcannotbeseriousreally · 11/05/2024 15:21

It’s absolutely fucking gross at any time of year and the majority of people that smoke it are also, gross.

SwordToFlamethrower · 11/05/2024 15:22

Any type of smoking is antisocial. It's rank!

Voodoohoodoyoudo · 11/05/2024 15:26

I don't think you can stop them smoking weed just because you don't like it. The police aren't interested in people smoking weed only dealing and growing it on a large scale. That's the price you pay for living in built up housing.

NachoMate · 11/05/2024 15:42

You’re not wrong, it’s hanging and stinks. Speak to them and if they’re decent it may ease. If not then try their landlord if they rent, illegal drugs on the premises are usually a breach of tenancy or the police if they own. My brother is a response cop and will always arrest someone for possession, even if only a small amount because the law is the law at the end of the day and they are expected to set the standard. They’ll be interested in where they are getting it from and feed info into local intelligence so always worth letting someone know.

Xarrie · 11/05/2024 15:42

It reeks. We always laugh at the ones walking through town at 9am sucking the life out of a joint. Tragic sad acts.

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 11/05/2024 15:43

TinyYellow · 11/05/2024 11:22

If you live in a terraced house with small gardens that are practically on top of each other, you just need to accept that you live close to other people and have to put up with them.

personally I hate barbecue smells, but if other people want barbecues, good luck to them.

BBQs aren't illegal

Starlight7080 · 11/05/2024 15:44

Tell them to buy the gummies instead. It would be better for them as doesn't involve smoking. How anyone uses the medicinal line when smoking it is beyond me.

dandelionseverywhere · 11/05/2024 15:46

We were looking round an English Heritage stately home and gardens the other day and could smell it 😂

Livingnexttothesmokies · 11/05/2024 15:48

Voodoohoodoyoudo · 11/05/2024 15:26

I don't think you can stop them smoking weed just because you don't like it. The police aren't interested in people smoking weed only dealing and growing it on a large scale. That's the price you pay for living in built up housing.

I know i can't stop them, i didn't ask that. I asked if other people think it's anti social.

I'm a bit confused by you telling me that's the price i pay for living in a built up area - how about that's what i can afford?

I'm sure we would all love to live in a 4 bed detached in the country with an acre of garden so we never have to see our neighbours but we aren't all that fortunate.

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rinseandrepeat1 · 11/05/2024 15:56

I don't get how it can be ALL day, surely they couldn't afford to smoke it for 10 hours much less would they be able to form a sentence.

Voodoohoodoyoudo · 11/05/2024 15:59

Livingnexttothesmokies · 11/05/2024 15:48

I know i can't stop them, i didn't ask that. I asked if other people think it's anti social.

I'm a bit confused by you telling me that's the price i pay for living in a built up area - how about that's what i can afford?

I'm sure we would all love to live in a 4 bed detached in the country with an acre of garden so we never have to see our neighbours but we aren't all that fortunate.

Well no I don't think it is anti social. Its their garden, you dont own the air 🤷‍♀️

Dweetfidilove · 11/05/2024 16:06

If it’s that synthetic shit or mixed garbage that youngsters are always smoking, yes. That shit gives me a headache, just like cigarettes.

Good marijuana - can’t say I’d mind much.

Twynklebell · 11/05/2024 16:17

Voodoohoodoyoudo · 11/05/2024 15:59

Well no I don't think it is anti social. Its their garden, you dont own the air 🤷‍♀️

If they kept it within their space, thats fine but smoke spreads and therefore, its anti-social as its impacting on everyone around them.

Theoriginalmrscillianmurphy · 11/05/2024 16:21

Wouldn't bother me.

I suggest talking to them.

Baneofmyexistence · 11/05/2024 16:45

Weed is horrible. My next door but one neighbour is outside every two to three hours smoking a joint. Doesn’t matter so much in the winter but in the summer I want to open windows and back door and then my house bloody stinks of it too. Drives me insane that my kids bedrooms stink of his weed. Completely anti social and illegal but it’s treated as if it’s legal now. I constantly smell it when I’m out and about!

AGovernmentOfLawsNotOfMen · 11/05/2024 16:51

It’s not something that would bother me
I’d be more bothered by loud music, kids screaming and smoke and meat smells from bbqs.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 11/05/2024 17:13

I wouldn't have thought that 'medicinal marijuana' would be smoked, rather like methadone isn't injected.

StealthIguana · 11/05/2024 17:15

Twynklebell · 11/05/2024 16:17

If they kept it within their space, thats fine but smoke spreads and therefore, its anti-social as its impacting on everyone around them.

This. I wouldn't want my kids breathing it. YANBU OP, they're adults and can damage their health/bodies as they please, but neighbours shouldn't have to suffer it. The smell is awful too, gives me a headache.

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