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To go to the shop at this time

121 replies

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:26

If your neighbour went out in the car at this time would you think anything of it? Just for reference it's a close and most people have security lights and/or cameras

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InterestedinEfteling · 25/03/2024 21:28

😄😄 no not at all. Probably wouldn't even notice. Why?

2dogsandabudgie · 25/03/2024 21:29

I wouldn't even know if my neighbours went out at night. It's dark and my curtains are closed.

LadyBird1973 · 25/03/2024 21:29

This is a strange post. Why would going out now be an odd thing to do?
Neighbour might need to collect someone from the station, or buy a pint of milk or anything really.

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:29

It's just late isn't it

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Comedycook · 25/03/2024 21:30

Huh? Why would you give this a second thought?

MidnightPatrol · 25/03/2024 21:30

Must be off to bury a body OP, 9.30!

ThinWomansBrain · 25/03/2024 21:30

I don't think I'd even notice - coming in loudly at 4am I might be a bit peeved, but going out at 9pm is perfectly normal.
Why do you think you should be able to impose some kind of curfew on your neighbours?

Eloraa · 25/03/2024 21:30

I’d probably not notice, but if I did I’d not think anything of it.

If it was 3am I might give it 2 seconds of brain space.

You’re an adult (presumably), do what you like.

EmilyPlay · 25/03/2024 21:30

What? I wouldn't notice or care.

EmmaEmerald · 25/03/2024 21:31

it’s a good time to go, it’s often much quieter

edit - sorry, for some reason I thought you said they’d gone to the supermarket

but they could be going anywhere. Weird post.

Comedycook · 25/03/2024 21:31

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:29

It's just late isn't it

No.

Even if it was late, you can go out at any time you want as can they

Bournetilly · 25/03/2024 21:31

No I wouldn’t think anything, it’s 9:30pm.

BirthdayRainbow · 25/03/2024 21:31

Is it alright if I go out in the next hour?

need to pick up my child...

pictoosh · 25/03/2024 21:31

Eh?

I don't jump up to see who's going somewhere in my street. Do you?

EnjoyingTheSilence · 25/03/2024 21:32

If you’re the one who needs to go out, stop overthinking everything. Either your neighbours won’t notice or if they do, so what?

If you’re the neighbour, get a life and a proper hobby.

Comedycook · 25/03/2024 21:32

BirthdayRainbow · 25/03/2024 21:31

Is it alright if I go out in the next hour?

need to pick up my child...

What will the neighbours say?!

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:32

ThinWomansBrain · 25/03/2024 21:30

I don't think I'd even notice - coming in loudly at 4am I might be a bit peeved, but going out at 9pm is perfectly normal.
Why do you think you should be able to impose some kind of curfew on your neighbours?

@ThinWomansBrain its me that wants to go out

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Comedycook · 25/03/2024 21:32

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:32

@ThinWomansBrain its me that wants to go out

Has someone said something to you

Springsombrero · 25/03/2024 21:32

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:26

If your neighbour went out in the car at this time would you think anything of it? Just for reference it's a close and most people have security lights and/or cameras

What? No. You’re being very nosey and weird.

HeddaGarbled · 25/03/2024 21:32

I might not notice. If I did notice, I wouldn’t think it worthy of attention.

Waitingfordoggo · 25/03/2024 21:32

Eh? Have you never in your life been to a shop in the evening? I find this surprising! I wouldn’t notice if my neighbours went out at 9pm, no.

EnjoyingTheSilence · 25/03/2024 21:33

So go out then

EmilyPlay · 25/03/2024 21:33

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:32

@ThinWomansBrain its me that wants to go out

Are you alright? Seems a very strange thing to be worried about.

BreakfastAtMimis · 25/03/2024 21:33

Springisnear4 · 25/03/2024 21:29

It's just late isn't it

Do you live in Azerbaijan?

ThePoshUns · 25/03/2024 21:34

Why wouldn't you go out?
I have no idea what my neighbours are doing right now.

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