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To send a bereaved person a Christmas card?

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ToSendOrNot · 08/12/2023 07:25

Unfortunately several people I know have had a close family relative die this year. I don’t know whether it’s the right thing to send them a Christmas card or not. Could it anger them if I send one and they might think it’s callous like life goes on? If I don’t send one will they think I’m avoiding /ignoring them?

YABU - don’t send one.

YANBU - send one as normal. (If this option, what should I write in it)

OP posts:
soemptyinside · 09/12/2023 22:34

IGotItFromAgnes · 09/12/2023 13:07

I am really hoping I don’t get any Christmas cards at all this year after reading what everyone has posted.

I just want normal cards, wishing me a Happy Christmas. I don’t want all the “thinking about”, “remembering X” messages. That’s too much.

Hopefully your friends know you well enough to know what you would like best.

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