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People who blow their nose...

122 replies

Carmargo · 23/11/2023 14:05

... while you're sat at a restaurant, home dining table, etc eating a meal are fucking disgusting.
There's no need for it!! Just go to the bathroom, pub toilets to do it.

Some c*nt has done this to me right now. There's fuck all wrong with him that stops him from moving away from his table to do it-I've known him for years and there's no reason he couldn't retire to the toilet to do it.
It's just fucking rude and turns my stomach.

Even my aunt-who is usually reasonable- does this. I can't go out for family meals anymore if she's present as it's a habitual thing.

I'm not talking about capturing an errant sneeze in a tissue BTW.

Yeah I'm probably being unreasonable but capable adults should just fuck off and blow their noses out of sight and sounds of those that are eating.

OP posts:
wholecupcake · 23/11/2023 14:06

I agree. No one wants to hear the snot

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:07

….what?

Blowing your nose into a tissue is a perfectly acceptable public act. The snot is going into the tissue so it isn’t going anywhere else.

Far better than them sneezing on you - or worse, sniffing every 15 seconds!

Elastica23 · 23/11/2023 14:08

I'd go away to do it if it was likely to be snotty/noisy (DH sounds like an elephant) but just to stem a sniffle or runny nose from coming in from the cold- no. You'd barely notice and wouldn't hear anything.

YouJustDoYou · 23/11/2023 14:08

Calm down love. It's not like they're taking a shit at the table. It's fine to blow your nose in public in this country.

frecklejuice · 23/11/2023 14:09

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:07

….what?

Blowing your nose into a tissue is a perfectly acceptable public act. The snot is going into the tissue so it isn’t going anywhere else.

Far better than them sneezing on you - or worse, sniffing every 15 seconds!

No! Blowing your nose into a tissue while people are eating is gross, no one wants to hear the bucket load of snot coming out while you have a forkful of food half way to your mouth.

Go to the bathroom or if you have a cold that bad that it meant you'd be up and down every 5 mins then stay at home!

Naimee87 · 23/11/2023 14:09

I‘m exact same as you, cannot stomach it at all. Even had a friend blow her nose in front of me at a cafe then LOOK in tissue afterwards. Fuck that. We‘ve not had coffee together since.

KingsleyBorder · 23/11/2023 14:09

Are you getting mixed up with farting?

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:10

frecklejuice · 23/11/2023 14:09

No! Blowing your nose into a tissue while people are eating is gross, no one wants to hear the bucket load of snot coming out while you have a forkful of food half way to your mouth.

Go to the bathroom or if you have a cold that bad that it meant you'd be up and down every 5 mins then stay at home!

I can’t say it bothers me. its just a raspberry noise - if you’re that sensitive to noises I don’t think eating out of for you

emmetgirl · 23/11/2023 14:16

Fuck sake

AntiStuff · 23/11/2023 14:20

Get a grip.

Helenahandkart · 23/11/2023 14:20

There are countries where blowing your nose in public is unacceptable. The UK isn’t one of them.

DappledThings · 23/11/2023 14:21

It's a million times better than someone not blowing their nose and just sniffing.

I've offered tissues to strangers on trains before in a pointed attempt to get them to blow their nose. Never been bothered by someone blowing it.

wholecupcake · 23/11/2023 14:21

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:10

I can’t say it bothers me. its just a raspberry noise - if you’re that sensitive to noises I don’t think eating out of for you

Its not a raspberry noise. You can hear the snot

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:24

wholecupcake · 23/11/2023 14:21

Its not a raspberry noise. You can hear the snot

So what? No different to hearing people chew. Snot isn’t some toxic revolting thing it’s just a bit of liquid we all have.

Id not even expect my DC to be so over sensitive at the dinner table

wholecupcake · 23/11/2023 14:24

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:24

So what? No different to hearing people chew. Snot isn’t some toxic revolting thing it’s just a bit of liquid we all have.

Id not even expect my DC to be so over sensitive at the dinner table

I don't expect to hear someone chew either

Houseplanter · 23/11/2023 14:25

I find people blowing their noses less offensive than bad language.

But there you go, we're all different.

waitholdup · 23/11/2023 14:25

Hahaha

Oh, are you serious?? Really?

Edit

So I'm not allowed out with my hay-fever?

Not going to happen

Bouncyball23 · 23/11/2023 14:26

Just as I thought posts on here couldn't get any worse!! Moaning over nose blowing whatever next?

SummaLuvin · 23/11/2023 14:26

wholecupcake · 23/11/2023 14:21

Its not a raspberry noise. You can hear the snot

you can hear snot when people are continuously sniffing though - arguably more so - why I find sniffing more annoying.

As PP have said, in the UK it is not considered bad manners to blow your nose in public like in other countries.

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:27

wholecupcake · 23/11/2023 14:24

I don't expect to hear someone chew either

Well that’s a ‘you’ problem ain’t it. People need to chew their food, some might make noise. I hate hearing people swallow drinks, it sets my teeth on edge, but I’m aware it’s a ‘me’ problem and I get over it because I don’t want to sit in a restaurant being a miserable bugger because other people function as normal humans

wholecupcake · 23/11/2023 14:28

Houseplanter · 23/11/2023 14:25

I find people blowing their noses less offensive than bad language.

But there you go, we're all different.

It's not really an either/or

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:28

Also you can’t ‘hear the snot’. The trumpet sound it the sounds of air being blown through the nose

UnctuousUnicorns · 23/11/2023 14:28

DappledThings · 23/11/2023 14:21

It's a million times better than someone not blowing their nose and just sniffing.

I've offered tissues to strangers on trains before in a pointed attempt to get them to blow their nose. Never been bothered by someone blowing it.

No, nose blowing is fucking disgusting, not sniffing, which I don't judge as I presume the person doing it has a cold. At least sniffing keeps it internal, at least until the person uses the loo. Nose blowing results in a hanky full of snot that then needs disposing of, in a bin, in landfill. Keep your snot rags, thank you.

TrishIsMySpiritAnimal · 23/11/2023 14:29

Sniffing is an irritant that can be solved by blowing your nose. I never understand why people sit sniffing snot back up, knowing it will come back down, when there’s a very simple solution in finding a tissue.

Oblomov23 · 23/11/2023 14:29

No. Don't agree. Blowing your nose is a perfectly fine bodily function.