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Teacher exposing breast.

270 replies

bamboostalks · 12/03/2008 15:39

This sounds bizarre and I think it is really. Dsd is in year 6 and they are having the sex ed programme. Anyway, this week it was all about pregnancy and birth. The teacher has just returned from maternity leave and imo went into way too much detail for 10 and 11 year olds(discussing stitches etc. dsd was very intrigued, arriving home with a lot of questions!!) but most astonishingly showed them her breast to explain how the baby feeds. Now this is nothing new to dsd per se who has seen me bf all year but I was amazed. Dh wanted to go in and complain today and I received a couple of phone calls asking me to sign a petition "We think that this teacher needs further training etc." Quite moderate in tone really. AIBU or was this teacher totally wrong?

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CountessDracula · 12/03/2008 17:55

maybe she learnt everything she knows about teaching sex education from here

YouKnowNothingOfTheCrunch · 12/03/2008 17:56

Don't be exclusive will you FandZ...

branflake81 · 12/03/2008 17:59

My first reaction on reading this was shock but on reflection I think it's OK. These aren't teenage boys so it could not have been construed sexually. Actually, I think she was brave and it was a good thing to do.

Nessamommy · 12/03/2008 18:13

That is just crazy! Very unprofessional! I think she needs to be reported to the administration!

Cam · 12/03/2008 18:23

Breastfeeding politics doesn't come into it.

It was, an Fio says, her tit.

That does not work in the classroom.

End of.

Spare rib would have loved it in the late 60's/early 70's - they'd have picketed the school for her right to show her tit

theBOD · 12/03/2008 18:26

i can't believe some people are actually trying to defend her actions. making excuses about her being hormonal/immersed in new motherhood/ not back in the work mode mindset. if she was not ready to come back to work she should not have done so.what she did was completely unprofessional and if it were my childs teacher i would not be signing a petition to get her further training,i would be signing one demanding her termination from my childs school or else i'd be withdrawing this terms fees.

Cam · 12/03/2008 18:29

Iys obvious the teacher in question won't be going back to school - or indeed any school

TenaciousG · 12/03/2008 19:04

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Troutpout · 12/03/2008 19:06

i think they are yr 6 ..age 11
Branflake..some of those children definitely would have looked at this in a sexual way..Ds is in year 6 and the range is incredible. Some are like little children still (ds)and some are like teenagers, taller than me with boobs of their own .Ds would have been utterly freaked out. Not at the boob...but at the fact that a person in position of power over them was exposing themselves to him. He would have found it so confusing.

SueBaroo · 12/03/2008 19:09

I'm trying to view this dispassionately, but I'm on the verge of wetting myself laughing at MB's imaginary science teacher whipping out his nads....

Beetroot · 12/03/2008 19:23

yes - sorry year 6

Told my year 6 boy who was not impresssed.

Am laughing alot at MB - and imagining all sorts of scenarios with said teahcer shoing her bit in the name of science

scottishmummy · 12/03/2008 19:26

what would the angst petition say NO TITS no open titilation in teaching s*top

SueBaroo · 12/03/2008 19:26

And I'm still laughing...

YouKnowNothingOfTheCrunch · 12/03/2008 19:28

No
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Janni · 12/03/2008 19:29

Cam you keep saying that this teacher will be sacked. She'll be sacked if she's generally a poor teacher and the Head can use this as a reason to terminate her employment. If she's generally a well-regarded teacher the school would try hard NOT to sack her. A petition from the parents might force the issue. I'm feeling increasingly sorry for her the more I see her being villified on here..

YouKnowNothingOfTheCrunch · 12/03/2008 19:34

I don't think she is being villified, I think the ridiculous situation she created is being ridiculed, that's all.

Beetroot · 12/03/2008 19:36

Can you imagine if the Sun get hold of this?

it is a wind up - no teacher would behave like this

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 12/03/2008 19:40

trippity

scottishmummy · 12/03/2008 19:40

nothing like a bit of Tittilation to get the mob together writig petitions, whipping up indignant froth.

Do you have accurate corroborating account of events

exactly what happened

Did the school know/authorise/endorse the lesson plan

Is she a good teacher overall

Given the topic was "pregnancy and birth" and she was discussing BF i understand why she may have (erroneously)done this. maybe just a loosening of associations

Don't think it merits GTC referral, petition, sacking and vilification

reminds me of when at school we had a Student teacher who in RE told us the bible was not based on facts (so no wine into water then) rather a narrative exploring morality and behaviour...well some parents went apoplectic, wanting him sacked, muttering about petitions etc.

Beetroot · 12/03/2008 19:44

SM - getting your tits out to a load of 11 year olds is very differnt

has that challenge thing that cod did finaihsed or is this one of those?

if so 4 more to go

scottishmummy · 12/03/2008 19:45

i think this is a big tit wank wind up

Hulababy · 12/03/2008 19:46

So this happened a couple fo days ago then? I can't believe the press haven't picked up on it yet. Has the TES chatroom?

scottishmummy · 12/03/2008 19:48

thought at least all the indignant not-in-my-day-oh-no-we-were-beaten-with-the-broom-and-respected-the-teacher mob would be incandescent bout this

FioFio · 12/03/2008 19:49

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scottishmummy · 12/03/2008 19:49

not even a local hack in local paper making puns about boobies etc....nah im dubious