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to wonder if a 5’7 female is ‘big’

383 replies

moonmoon123 · 07/01/2023 18:47

I’m a 5’7 and a half female, in your completely honest opinion do you think I’m tall or average height. I feel massive and huge next to every other girl, don’t wear heels ever and hate it.
im just under 9st and feel I just look like this absolute giant.
I never am called tall by anyone but believe I am.
In your opinion is 5’7-5’8 ‘really tall’ for a female

OP posts:
RitaFires · 07/01/2023 20:08

I'm 5'9 and while I'm taller than average, I don't feel like I'm out of the ordinary in terms of height, I regularly see women taller than me. Sometimes clothes can be a bit short on me but I'm too short for a lot of the long length clothes unless I wear massive heels. I wouldn't think you were big at all.

Chillaxing · 07/01/2023 20:09

I'm 5ft7 and love my height. I wear 3 inch heels and flats and don't feel tiny or "abmormally" huge either way. Yes it is taller than average for UK women. It's the "shortest " you can be to qualify to be a model (so I read somewhere once lol!). Most of my female friends and family are between 5ft 4 and 5ft 9
My mum is 5ft 6 and dad is 6ft3

BigMandsTattooPortfolio · 07/01/2023 20:17

I notice younger women than me are getting taller. But I love my height, though I was self conscious as a teen. Most of my height is because of my legs, though! 🤣

Vieve1325 · 07/01/2023 20:19

I’m 5”9 and regularly wear 5/6 inch heels. I love being tall.

I’d say 5”7 is perfectly normal!

Mariposista · 07/01/2023 20:19

this sounds tiny! 9 stone is certainly not massive, whatever your height

AHelpfulHand · 07/01/2023 20:21

I’m the same height as you, and yes it is tall, especially amongst the people I know.

most people I know are under 5”5

midsomermurderess · 07/01/2023 20:28

No. Give being 5’11 a go and then you know what it means to be ‘big’. Mostly I don’t mind, but the ‘how tall are you’ or people doing mini double takes when they see you can be tiresome. You always stand out.

SeeYouNextTLol · 07/01/2023 20:29

5.7 on the taller side but you would not stand out

napody · 07/01/2023 20:35

leithreas · 07/01/2023 19:02

That includes the older generations too though. Women are definitely taller these days.

Was going to say this.
What's the average for say, women under 40 I wonder?

TheHateIsNotGood · 07/01/2023 20:36

I immediately understood the OP about a '5ft 7 and a half female' as meaning a 5ft 7 1/2" female. As OP hasn't been back, I call 'experiment'. Interesting results OP.

CharitySchmarity · 07/01/2023 20:38

I'm 5'5", so exactly average, and I think of women who are 5'7" as tallish but not remarkably tall. My MIL was 5'7" before she started losing height in old age. When she wore medium heels I definitely felt short beside her.

IntentionalError · 07/01/2023 20:55

5’7 is a bit taller than average, but not particularly tall. I’m 5’11, so I do feel tall in the U.K. but I’m very happy with my height. To me there are no disadvantages to my height at all. If some insecure men think I’m too tall, that’s their problem, not mine. When I went to Berlin a few years ago, it was a massive eye-opener, as many women were taller than me. I actually felt normal!

Anonymouseposter · 07/01/2023 21:05

I looked this up on the charts for UK and age 40. 5'7" is on the 90th centile. 10% of women are taller than you and 90% are shorter-so tall, but not exceptionally tall.

MrsJBaptiste · 07/01/2023 21:08

I'm 5' 8" and although it's definitely not average, I love being this height. I wear heels if I want and really don't mind being kne of the taller ones in the room. Embrace the height!

LeFeu · 07/01/2023 21:11

I am 5’9 and consider myself tall but not unusually so. If I was 9 stone however I’d be underweight and more bothered about that tbh!

TrifledOut · 07/01/2023 21:17

I’m 5’11. Wear heels if I feel like it. I love being tall! 5’7 is a short arse to me 😆

Ineedaholidaynowplease · 07/01/2023 21:21

It's definitely taller than average but not worthy of comment. I know plenty of women your height. Interesting how many ppl are saying it's average height for women when statistics will clearly say otherwise.

XelaM · 07/01/2023 21:24

My teen daughter is 5'7 and very average among her friends. Two of her female friends are 6'0 and over

Manasprey · 07/01/2023 21:24

Ineedaholidaynowplease · 07/01/2023 21:21

It's definitely taller than average but not worthy of comment. I know plenty of women your height. Interesting how many ppl are saying it's average height for women when statistics will clearly say otherwise.

I do wonder if it depends where you live/ your demographics. At 5'9, I rarely meet women my height or taller where I live.

tinytemper66 · 07/01/2023 21:27

I am not quite 4ft 11 and to me you would be a giant! Grin

OrdinaryAva · 07/01/2023 21:27

Apparently not seeing as the majority of MN are the same height.

SirVixofVixHall · 07/01/2023 21:29

I am five foot eight, I am considered tall in the circles I move in, although two of my closest friends (not local to me) are really tall. I would like to be an inch or two taller actually, but I am as tall as my Dad, and I think I am taller than average.
It does depend on age of course, people are getting taller.

inappropriateraspberry · 07/01/2023 21:35

I'm 5'7". I wouldn't say I'm particularly tall, but definitely taller than average. Definitely tall in heels.
I don't notice it day to day, but in a larger group of friends I realise I am taller than most.

LadyWithLapdog · 07/01/2023 21:42

RandomUsernameHere · 07/01/2023 18:50

7 1/2 inches

Now, that is short.

Flowerpower2022 · 07/01/2023 21:42

I absolutely love being 5ft 7. On the tall side of normal. I associate “big” with overweight/big boned which I’m not. I am really flat chested though so long legs compensate for that 😂. Hate that way male constructs of how women should look impact on us so much. You be you and love the height, weight, shape you are. ❤️

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