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to wonder if a 5’7 female is ‘big’

383 replies

moonmoon123 · 07/01/2023 18:47

I’m a 5’7 and a half female, in your completely honest opinion do you think I’m tall or average height. I feel massive and huge next to every other girl, don’t wear heels ever and hate it.
im just under 9st and feel I just look like this absolute giant.
I never am called tall by anyone but believe I am.
In your opinion is 5’7-5’8 ‘really tall’ for a female

OP posts:
teekay88 · 07/01/2023 19:45

I'm 5 ft 7 or 8 and it all depends on the context. I know when I was younger in teens and 20s I was much more conscious of it and felt really gangly compared to who I perceived as small petite friends. However now I'm more into adulthood apart from the very occasional reference to me being tall, no one ever makes me feel like that and I've lost any conscious awareness of it. I sort of feel that our height is in the normal but tall range, not freakishly so! That may be because I have a few tall friends and family members who are female and ranging from about 5ft9 to 6ft. A PP poster is right that 5ft4 is average for UK woman but at a few inches above that you certainly won't stand out from the crowd in any negative way! And think of the long legs you have that many would die for :)

Willyoujustbequiet · 07/01/2023 19:45

Tall.

5ft 3 is the average.

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 07/01/2023 19:47

Tulipvase · 07/01/2023 19:02

Often? Really?

Yeh! Loads of women I know are taller than me.

ABlindAssassin · 07/01/2023 19:47

I'm 5ft5.5 and people often comment on how tall I am 🤣 so they'd be blown away by you being a whole two inches taller!

One of my friends is your height and she's far from a giant, she looks a perfectly regular size.

SomethingOriginal2 · 07/01/2023 19:47

I woild definitely consider you tall. But k guess it depends where you're from. I'm 5.3 and I think I'm a pretty average height so I think you'd be tall.

OneWildNightWithJBJ · 07/01/2023 19:47

Am chuckling at some of these replies :)

I’d say it’s a little taller than average, but I certainly wouldn’t notice your height. I thought the average in the UK was about 5’4”. I’m 5’6.5” and feel very average height.

I have taught a fair number of Year 6 (age 10/11) girls over the years who have been taller than me. My 12-year-old DD has overtaken me now, so I think you’ll be fine in a few years OP when you’ll very likely be average height.

blueberrymuffin28 · 07/01/2023 19:48

I'm 5'10 - id say you were average

helloisitmeyourelookingfor · 07/01/2023 19:48

In my family you'd be considered a shorty

All the women are 5ft10-6ft1 and the me 6ft-6ft7

Find yourself some taller friends -problem solved

Pearsandclocks · 07/01/2023 19:49

I’m 5ft 5 and taller than most of my friends so I’d say you were above average in my world.

MyDogStoodOnABee · 07/01/2023 19:50

Naah but then I’m 3” taller than you and I’d happily be taller

ZeroFuchsGiven · 07/01/2023 19:50

helloisitmeyourelookingfor · 07/01/2023 19:48

In my family you'd be considered a shorty

All the women are 5ft10-6ft1 and the me 6ft-6ft7

Find yourself some taller friends -problem solved

You are 6ft 7? JesusFuchingChrist! I thought my bro was tall at 6'8!

Badgirlriri · 07/01/2023 19:50

ZeroFuchsGiven · 07/01/2023 18:50

Ffs ignore me

I thought the same 😂

AmazonsFuckedUpFreeMusicFeature · 07/01/2023 19:51

Where are All these tall people hodong because I am not seeing you out and about generally 😂

Fun was when Dutch played team where I live and it was such incredibly noticeable influx of tallness in a city😂 For both sexes!

qpmz · 07/01/2023 19:52

ZeroFuchsGiven · 07/01/2023 18:49

What do you mean 'half female'?

Non binary or trans?

Nancydrawn · 07/01/2023 19:53

@ZeroFuchsGiven I genuinely can't tell if you're joking with the 6'7", but the PP meant "men" not "me."

Nanalisa60 · 07/01/2023 19:54

I’m 5’10 so when I was a teenager in the 1970’s I did feel like a bit of a giant, I just use to get so upset. When I was about 15 I was at a boyfriend’s family bbq when one of my then smaller boyfriends much older Uncle said to me Lisa you are a stunning girl stand up tall put you shoulders back be very proud of your height, he said he could see that I was stooping and that it was such a shame stand tall and be proud of your height.

From that day I decided that I would stop try to be small because it’s was silly I was a tall girl and I never stooped again.

Now being 5’10 does not seem so tall .

RoseAndGeranium · 07/01/2023 19:54

I’m 5’11. I’d consider you quite small.

Whatthediddlyfeck · 07/01/2023 19:56

Same height as me, maybe slightly taller than average (5’4”?) but I certainly don’t feel anything like big

ZeroFuchsGiven · 07/01/2023 19:57

Nancydrawn · 07/01/2023 19:53

@ZeroFuchsGiven I genuinely can't tell if you're joking with the 6'7", but the PP meant "men" not "me."

Tbf I was not joking but now you pointed it out, I apologise

Nancydrawn · 07/01/2023 19:59

@ZeroFuchsGiven it was amusing!

Bagsundermyeyestoday · 07/01/2023 19:59

gfy · 07/01/2023 18:50

I think op meant she's 5 foot 7 and a half, female.

Yes, this. Sorry, but that did make me lol

Manasprey · 07/01/2023 19:59

I'm 5'9 and 10 1/2 stone. Slim. I was considered a freak of nature as a kid, then too tall to be fanciable as a teen. I always felt massive compared to others. Came into my own late teens, when my chest finally grew too.

I'm a giant compared to my friends, but not when with my Scandinavian friend, who is taller than me. I'm taller than lots of men too. But maybe it's where I live and my age (40s).

PinkArt · 07/01/2023 20:01

You're my height and we are both a couple of inches above the average height for a woman in the UK. I consider myself at the tall end of average and the very short end of tall. I have long legs for my height so sometimes need tall range trousers, but they can still often be too long.
At 9 stone you are a weight I haven't been since puberty and not far off half my current weight, so are a slim woman, within the healthy BMI for your height and at the lower end of that scale.

ZeroFuchsGiven · 07/01/2023 20:04

Are we dealing with a height troll here? Come on op, you are too big to dissappear!

Pollyputthekettleonha · 07/01/2023 20:08

The average is 5 ft 4.5. so you are taller than average but not excessively so. You are about my height. I've never felt massive .

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