Paul Breach

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For those of you who use TikTok, have you seen this Paul Breach Guy? What’s your opinions on him?
My cousins daughter showed me his videos, it’s quite alarming and I’m worried that he seems to get so much engagement on the platform which is really geared toward teenagers.

she’s explained the back story to me, he’s forty odd and got a 16/17 year old pregnant when he was 28 (I think). And he since has been allegedly messaging and creating content geared toward teenage girls. Most recently, he stayed in a hotel with a 19 year old with the pretence of taking photos, all starting to sound a bit Dahmer-esqe.

Forgive me if this isn’t accurate it is being relayed to me by a younger family member.

I'm intrigued. Tell us more about you and what you think about these things

@ILoveeCakes 😂

I mean I'm reporting every one but bloody hell this is hilarious

@Therightman999 - you ok babs?

Stop copying and pasting. Tell us what you want to say

What you want to do to me for my annoyance?
Grab me by the neck Andrew Tate style? Sleep with my friends?
Come on

@Unicorn2022 pm me hun 😂

@Therightman999 are you ok Paul?

What a shame that this moron is going to get the whole thread deleted when it's raised awareness for this perv ti several MN with children using TikTok though.

Green green grass, blue blue sky 🎶

rightman - who would win in a fight between you, Breach and Tate?

I would say that is the aim. Sadly. Mumsnet please don't let that happen.

You can't tell it's Paul by the sentence structure.

Paul does have a huge amount of fans and supporters, and to be fair this is exactly the type of person I would expect to be his fan

I don't think this at all

I'm not sure what your point is? Most adults don't think like this no. But preferring to date younger women, and being a man in your 40's, grooming teenagers barely over the age of consent online, is very very different. Which is what this thread is about.

If all men really did just prefer younger women in general though, no relationship would ever last. Being young has nothing to do with being 'going looking'. Which is always subjective anyway.

So I just want to start by saying I think his Tiktok content is pants, and I have never met him.

BUT he has not "groomed" a 19 year old. She quite obviously is not vulnerable if she's got an Only fans account.

The reason this went viral and is all over everyone's FYP is because the two main instigators were pushing the narrative that the girl in question was a "child". She's an adult.
Even if they ended up having sex that night, neither have broken the law and they are allowed to make those decisions.

I have seen no evidence he has messaged anyone under 16 in a sexual way, I have seen he messaged back a young girl who had messaged him telling him she was unwell. He messaged back hoping she got better soon.

If he was 50 and she was 30, would everyone be obsessed with this? I doubt it. Numerous big celebrities have massive age gaps and nobody bats am eyelid.

Just because YOU don't like something doesn't mean you have the right to ruin someone's life by carrying out a witch hunt.

@Whatever019 grooming/coercion/manipulation does not have to be sexual in nature for it to be considered such. An adult man who only adds and messages girls could be considered grooming. It isn't the first time he's been caught out messaging young girls. At the end of the day a 43 year old man met up with a young appearing girl with a 'barely legal' OF account, she is barely 19, also has mental health issues, to take pictures of her. He is not a professional photographer, he doesn't even have a camera. She probably did contact him. She probably did want to boost her following, that does not mean that she isn't vulnerable. A 19 year old teenager putting themselves is which risky situations like this is very clearly vulnerable, you have to be stupid to think otherwise. She is posting pictures of her speeding over 100mph so clearly rational thinking isn't her forte. As the adult with actual life experience, and considering he knows full well what people think about him, he SHOULD have said no to meeting with her. He has bought this on himself and absolutely revels in the attention he gets from being called these names. He is disgusting but I believe he also is vulnerable in some way and is playing with fire.

There is a vast difference between a 50/30 age gap and a 40/19 gap.

@Whatever019 I'd also add that plenty of people with OnlyFans accounts are vulnerable. Just like a hell of a lot of other types of sex workers are. That isn't an indicator that someone is any less vulnerable, usually quite the opposite.