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Paul Breach

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TulipsRule · 04/01/2023 09:10

For those of you who use TikTok, have you seen this Paul Breach Guy? What’s your opinions on him?
My cousins daughter showed me his videos, it’s quite alarming and I’m worried that he seems to get so much engagement on the platform which is really geared toward teenagers.

she’s explained the back story to me, he’s forty odd and got a 16/17 year old pregnant when he was 28 (I think). And he since has been allegedly messaging and creating content geared toward teenage girls. Most recently, he stayed in a hotel with a 19 year old with the pretence of taking photos, all starting to sound a bit Dahmer-esqe.

Forgive me if this isn’t accurate it is being relayed to me by a younger family member.

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GinoVino · 06/01/2023 07:16

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Gerrataere · 06/01/2023 08:33

@Lousia27 he has a son. He’s never denied he has a son, he’s talked about him, visited him and has old Facebook posts about his girlfriend being pregnant by him. Though to be fair this is a new level of trying to dismiss his behaviour, although completely unfair to his child to deny his existence.

The mental health card is constantly thrown out from his defenders. Two points, he doesn’t care for the mental health of others when he’s taking the mick out of them, doxxing, using ablelist language, calling workplaces and so much more. Secondly, he isn’t entitled to any platform and anyone who feels harassed by their own bad behaviour constantly being brought up has the option to switch it off and walk away. That’s the advice he will be given if he chooses to tell the authorities about people speaking negatively about him. It’s not bullying to say someone is behaving in a highly inappropriate way.

However, no he should not be approached or sent threats. But he shouldn’t be approaching anyone either.

indie123 · 06/01/2023 08:35

I find him creepy and odd. He’s like a kid in an adults body.

UntrainedEye96 · 06/01/2023 08:43

Like I said in my original comment about him. He said in a video at the beginning of his tiktok era that he has a son who was aged X at the time and mentioned about his age and told his audience to work out how old his baby mum was. It was then to be found out she was 16/17 at the time. So yes, he did get someone pregnant at a young age when he was 27/28. Legally nothing wrong but morally not right.
How has he been physically attacked whilst he's been out? From what I've seen, people are spotting him around different locations across the UK 🤔 if you're referring to the video when someone confronts him about messaging and wanting to meet up with a young girl to go geocashing, he was confronted by the girls family, what's wrong with that? Carrying on from that video, he later did a live waving around a condom saying "well I won't be needing this then" so what was his intention there if he was alone with a young teenage girl???
Paul posts his personal life online for hundreds of thousands to watch. He put himself in the limelight for everyone to see. Unfortunately, he's bought the attention onto himself. I'm not saying he probably is having a bad spell of mental health, but when you've seen him make videos about his "mental health" being so bad, he continues to stay on socials. Any other person would think "hang on, I need a break because this is now getting too much" but no, he doesn't think like that. People have speculated about Peter pan syndrome, and he did a tiktok video basically taking the mick about it. Paul has even taken the mick out of people who have mental health problems... What does that tell you?
I am far from a paul supporter, never have and I never will be. What he has done recently with that young girl is morally wrong and she is getting alot of hate for a situation HE put her through. He is accountable for his actions and won't take accountability for it.

caravanbuckie · 06/01/2023 08:47

Paul Never got anyone pregnant, it was a rumour made up that spread like wildfire,

It's definitely true, why are you saying otherwise?

and the rest of the allegations followed, im not a fan of Paul in the slightest bit I genuinely believe his behaviour is down to not being able to accept he isn’t so young anymore,

Why are you making excuses for a grown man targeting young females?

he’s been getting physically attacked while leaving his home and is receiving death threats, we shouldn’t hate.

He hasn't been physically attacked, he also had the power to walk away from social media if he so chooses.

it’s gotten out of control with the online bullying and after his recent video I fear for this man’s mental health.

I fear more for the mental health of the women who have been involved ed with him. I fear for his son. Paul is the creator, not the victim.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 06/01/2023 08:50

Lousia27 · 06/01/2023 05:25

Paul Never got anyone pregnant, it was a rumour made up that spread like wildfire, and the rest of the allegations followed, im not a fan of Paul in the slightest bit I genuinely believe his behaviour is down to not being able to accept he isn’t so young anymore, he’s been getting physically attacked while leaving his home and is receiving death threats, we shouldn’t hate.
it’s gotten out of control with the online bullying and after his recent video I fear for this man’s mental health.

You should do more research before you defend him. He really did get a teenager pregnant and has a child.

Bestkindaparty · 06/01/2023 10:00

Lousia27 · 06/01/2023 05:25

Paul Never got anyone pregnant, it was a rumour made up that spread like wildfire, and the rest of the allegations followed, im not a fan of Paul in the slightest bit I genuinely believe his behaviour is down to not being able to accept he isn’t so young anymore, he’s been getting physically attacked while leaving his home and is receiving death threats, we shouldn’t hate.
it’s gotten out of control with the online bullying and after his recent video I fear for this man’s mental health.

There are pictures of him and his pregnant girlfriend on his Facebook. Also pictures of him and said son. He has also shared tiktoks a while back of him and his son. It's only the last year or 2 that he's stopped seeing him

GinoVino · 06/01/2023 17:43

Ham face has been banned from TikTok!!

caravanbuckie · 06/01/2023 18:20

GinoVino · 06/01/2023 17:43

Ham face has been banned from TikTok!!

He is already live on another account.

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 06/01/2023 18:33

caravanbuckie · 06/01/2023 18:20

He is already live on another account.

You're kidding 🙄

ZeroFuchsGiven · 06/01/2023 19:16

This is so damn weird, never heard of this name before and maybe I should be listening more when my kids are telling me stuff about TikTok.

DS 17 just seen the name on the screen and asked wtf MN was talking about Paul Breach, I said he was a weirdo and he replied 'Yes I know' thats the guy I had a pic with the other week at the bus station.

Indeed he did show me a pic the other week of 'someone' from TikTok but I had absolutely no idea it was anyone like this, I'll be honest here, I kind of zone out when they start rambling on about TikTok vids as I have zero interest in stuff like that but Im mortified!

Hes just said he is always at the bus station at the same time every day so I can only presume he is actually working.

AlwaysGinPlease · 06/01/2023 19:20

Ianbreach6262

He's just absolutely vile.

ILoveeCakes · 06/01/2023 19:23

We have found out recently (via Harry) that there are Mumsnetter-aged women who hang around the pubs near posh schools so they can defrock young posh boys - no doubt getting a kick out of doing so.

There are creepy women as well as creepy men. Or is it ok for women to do this sort of thing?

caravanbuckie · 06/01/2023 19:29

ILoveeCakes · 06/01/2023 19:23

We have found out recently (via Harry) that there are Mumsnetter-aged women who hang around the pubs near posh schools so they can defrock young posh boys - no doubt getting a kick out of doing so.

There are creepy women as well as creepy men. Or is it ok for women to do this sort of thing?

You realise this thread is about one specific man?

caravanbuckie · 06/01/2023 19:30

ZeroFuchsGiven · 06/01/2023 19:16

This is so damn weird, never heard of this name before and maybe I should be listening more when my kids are telling me stuff about TikTok.

DS 17 just seen the name on the screen and asked wtf MN was talking about Paul Breach, I said he was a weirdo and he replied 'Yes I know' thats the guy I had a pic with the other week at the bus station.

Indeed he did show me a pic the other week of 'someone' from TikTok but I had absolutely no idea it was anyone like this, I'll be honest here, I kind of zone out when they start rambling on about TikTok vids as I have zero interest in stuff like that but Im mortified!

Hes just said he is always at the bus station at the same time every day so I can only presume he is actually working.

He doesn't have a job.

Giraffy · 06/01/2023 19:32

Poor George Ezra..he's ruined that song for him and a lot of others.

In all seriousness though. This guy is a predator and is thriving off any attention he can get be it positive (not sure what could be) or negative.

He has thousands on his lives with made up names alluding to his fondness of children yet they are gifting him all sorts

I agree with the previous poster who said he is a groomer hiding in plain sight and it is very very concerning.

GinoVino · 06/01/2023 19:51

ILoveeCakes · 06/01/2023 19:23

We have found out recently (via Harry) that there are Mumsnetter-aged women who hang around the pubs near posh schools so they can defrock young posh boys - no doubt getting a kick out of doing so.

There are creepy women as well as creepy men. Or is it ok for women to do this sort of thing?

You have a very vivid imagination. Stop acting like a twat on every thread you post on. It makes you look silly.

Grooming and exploiting children and vulnerable people is wrong whatever sex you or they are.

ILoveeCakes · 06/01/2023 19:52

GinoVino · 06/01/2023 19:51

You have a very vivid imagination. Stop acting like a twat on every thread you post on. It makes you look silly.

Grooming and exploiting children and vulnerable people is wrong whatever sex you or they are.

I imagined a real thing? Pretty awesome of me..........

GinoVino · 06/01/2023 19:54

ZeroFuchsGiven · 06/01/2023 19:16

This is so damn weird, never heard of this name before and maybe I should be listening more when my kids are telling me stuff about TikTok.

DS 17 just seen the name on the screen and asked wtf MN was talking about Paul Breach, I said he was a weirdo and he replied 'Yes I know' thats the guy I had a pic with the other week at the bus station.

Indeed he did show me a pic the other week of 'someone' from TikTok but I had absolutely no idea it was anyone like this, I'll be honest here, I kind of zone out when they start rambling on about TikTok vids as I have zero interest in stuff like that but Im mortified!

Hes just said he is always at the bus station at the same time every day so I can only presume he is actually working.

His 'job' is posting TikTok videos rubbing himself, and lifting his scabby jumper up to show off his pants. He's more than likely at the bust station waiting for teenagers to take pics of him. That's why he did a solo tour of a few UK cities. And gullible teens, not dissimilar to your son, gift him money when he's on his live videos.

Therightman999 · 06/01/2023 19:59

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ILoveeCakes · 06/01/2023 20:02

WTF? Someone has been on the gin?

AlwaysGinPlease · 06/01/2023 20:04

Hmmm interesting...

Therightman999 · 06/01/2023 20:08

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ILoveeCakes · 06/01/2023 20:08

AlwaysGinPlease · 06/01/2023 20:04

Hmmm interesting...

Ah, your fault? You gave her the gin? ;)

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